This opinion is apparently unpopular with a lot of people in the dating landscape, some call it redpill ideals but I’ll get into what I mean by this statement you see men love women idealistically a woman to us is the embodiment of spiritual bonding and the essence of beauty and nurture, we love women in ideals like there femininity and their admiration those qualities only highlight other factors like their intelligence and social awareness.

It may come across as traditional in a sense but these traditional aspects have lasted centuries and it’s a continued way most of us pair bond, and it explains why our standards tend to be lower than women we love the spirit first and any malice that might come from loving this way needs to come from a sense of awareness on our part, so if a woman is a fornicator it’s our job to make sure that we’re aware of these cues and don’t align with wicked people.

Women tend to love opportunistically, meaning they love men for what opportunity that might arise this is just so that a woman knows what’s best for herself before associating with any man, opportunity comes in a myriad of different ways such as intelligence, financial stability, provisioning, spiritual development etc. a woman also looks at things from a care/harm philosophical view this is often due to their wicked experiences with men that they’ve had in their past going back to even childhood. Women do love in ideals but this is only when the opportunity is met and then they proceed to open up to the spirit afterwards.

This goes on to explain the dating imbalance you see among men and women and why you see a lot of men with considerably lower standards than women it’s because of how we love it’s often different between the genders hence the different outcomes and why you see an imbalance.