Me and my wife of 13 years separated a few months ago. As soon as we separated she hooked up with another guy. She lied to me about it and forced me to file for the divorce (yes forced me as I was not in a rush to file but always told her it would be me to file since I used to work in family law) a few months later she has teased me about getting back together. I thought this was in the assumption she dumped the guy and I was willing to reconcile, but she still talks to the guy from what my children told me but keeps him around as "friends". This week my attorney told me the divorce paperwork is ready to be finalized. I told her this week she needs to make a decision whether she wants to continue going forward with the divorce or not. But Im starting to think maybe I just pull the trigger and not wait on her to decide? She said she needs time to process before making a decision. What should I do?