Men should take up their issues with the women that caused them

ComfortableJeans · 2025-08-15T03:35:48+00:00

Aren't you the girl who makes a men should be okay with women cheating thread every other day?

I'd agree that it isn't fair for a man to tar all women with the same brush, but you seem to be the woman who tarred the brush.

Edit: All your posts are about men you've either cheated on, or mistreated.

I'm a basically positive this is just bait.

Outside-Travel-7903 · 2025-08-15T03:25:12+00:00

Women should take up their issues with the men that caused them.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2025-08-15T03:38:12+00:00

Not really. That's just the same argument as "not all men"

Some issues are systemic - there is a preference for taller men, there is a stronger female preference for men to be "generous" (aka pay for stuff) etc.

And there are male gender roles that are unfair and are perpetuated by women as well as men.

Yes some men get unusually bitter over one crap gf. But then so do women so...

Inomaker · 2025-08-15T03:54:28+00:00

Thankfully the women I choose to keep in my life are amazing women. The vast majority of humans are trash though. Half of that trash is women. And I don't really look at the men so I'm going to be more judgemental towards the side I look at.

Neptune-Jnr · 2025-08-15T03:23:11+00:00

lol "Not all women"

Healthy_Panic_9736 · 2025-08-15T03:30:29+00:00

A) I don't use personal anecdotes to generalize women or men. I do it based on common patterns observed among majority of women/men.

B) Women saying this is hilarious. You take things that are common to a minority of men and claim it's majority of men. 😂

thedarkracer · 2025-08-15T03:36:19+00:00

Say the same thing to women too. Many guys can't even look at or talk to women yet women say all men are rapists, creeps, pedos and such. For actual criminals they salivate like deadpool killer, Cameron herrin, and ted bundy. They don't say anything to them but say it to the other men. Look in the mirror for God's sake.

DrunkOnRamen · 2025-08-15T03:24:07+00:00

I put one in prison, another I sued, another I got blacklisted from major banks.

happyfunball5 · 2025-08-15T14:19:11+00:00

Be careful what you ask for. I'd wager you benefit from men having a place to vent that isn't your front door step. Think about that and count your twisted little blessings.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-08-15T14:27:07+00:00

Nah, I prefer them being honest

Adept-Entrepreneur61 · 2025-08-15T16:45:17+00:00

Firstly, no one owes anyone closure; it's up to the man to deal with it, not the woman who caused it. Next, the fun part is when you start seeing traits of that specific woman in other women.

giveuporfindaway · 2025-08-16T00:23:02+00:00

Collective punishment is a real world technique and it works.

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Albedo200 · 2025-08-15T13:19:16+00:00

This should also be said for women tho, a few men in their life were awful to them and they are out here saying kill all men or all men are trash

No_Table_343 · 2025-08-17T11:18:46+00:00

okay but like... pot calling kettle black.

Makuta_Servaela · 2025-08-15T03:32:48+00:00

Many of "The girls that slighted" Elliot Rodger were random women he didn't even know.

Often, "slighting" a man/boy is just her trying to exist. She dares to exist without catering to him. She dares to date someone else. Etc.

No-Hovercraft-455 · 2025-08-15T03:46:13+00:00

You are giving them helluva lot benefit of doubt assuming their original goal wasn't just hating women. Because you know what vast majority of "crazy" women have in common? A man that hates women and is making her crazy.

Hate me for saying it how it is all you want. But I'm not going to believe some man's account how they got targeted by a crazy woman unless I really know significant number of details because we all should know by now what the emotionally volatile crazy gender actually is.

Do yourself a favour and just don't bother with guys who claim some variety of this.

mrcs84usn · 2025-08-15T03:46:32+00:00

A lot of men’s issues with women aren’t going to be solved by trying to take it up with said women. I’ve seen guys obsess over strippers, when those strippers are literally doing their job. What would “taking it up with” those girls look like?

If a woman is simply being nice to a man who has minimal interaction with women and he translates that niceness into her being attracted to him, eventually he might try to make an advance on her that she will reject. How does he “take it up with her?”

Title	Men should take up their issues with the women that caused them
Author	IBribeMyBF
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Comments	94
Date	August 15, 2025 3:20 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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