For the sake of my argument, I'm going to assume you're looking for a long term relationship. If you are not; hurry along, this does not apply to you.

You guys have picked up a lot. The men that attract the most women are, of course, attractive. Usually have a decent amount of money, too. Probably exude a lot of charisma. I've seen how you observe the ways in which these men get women. Very common to find them picking up a lot of ladies at the bar, or making people's panties drop with how wealthy they are, or just sleeping around with women they know who just can't say no; they're just too attractive!

Of course you want to be like these men. Those of you who believe in your capability work hard on self-enhancement, striving for that same attention. I'm impressed by those who commit to it and see results; improving yourself is not only useful in the dating scene but beneficial for your physical and mental health in the long run. Then we come back to "how". You've become attractive enough, started getting some attention from women. Some men might start using this power to get as many partners as they want, and that's totally fair enough. But what if you want to settle down?

A lot of redpillers know which women they are targeting. They are targeting women who fall under their definition of women as a whole. It's hard to differentiate loyal, modest women from shallow, entitled women when the former is overwhelmingly more likely to give themselves up to someone of the highest quota; it's loud and observable. When a woman throws herself at you, its an incredible feeling. You are desired. But what for? For being the most attractive person out there? For the money that you'll end up sharing with her? For the persona you're putting on that doesn't really feel like *you* at all?

The men most commonly perceived as attractive are the ones who get into a lot of FWB situations, display overt "dominant" or hyper-masculine behaviour, or have high social/economic status. There is no denying this. This is true. But what do you really get out of taking notes on and forcing yourself to become these men? A leech? Do you want a leech as your long term partner? I guess if every woman falls under this umbrella, you'll get exactly what you asked for.

TLDR; self improvement rules, self-erasure drools