Virtually in every modern developed countries, women have no obligation to follow the patriarchal norms. Whereas men are criticized for telling their preference loud. Young women on tik tok are creating trends like "chopped men epidemic" or how they'll not date short or broke men and getting millions of likes.

It's funny seeing likes on those posts because certainly there are broke women there liking those posts. Feeling powerful about the fact that being broke doesn't affect their dating prospects because money isn't a necessary requirement for women. They think most women are inherently more beautiful than most men even if they are not and it's simply because women get attention from SIMPs everywhere.

There are men who want to stop the cycle of patriarchy and go into much more progressive roles like stay at home husband but how many times we've actually got women be interested in it? It's negligible. Men always need to earn to get marriage and relationship. Women shame men for not fitting criteria of the typical traditional male, there's no difference in the gender roles that we were supposed to do. Still need to earn more, still need to be taller, still need to be assertive so women don't have to emotional labour.

we have women who expect men to be all-knowing about female body and must give them guaranteed orgasm but they can't guarantee you that they'll have frequent sex or initiate sex themselves.

Feminists tell us that men's insecurity, constant need to prove themselves by work, sexual competitiveness is just because it's all in our head. It actually doesn't exist but only because we give it so much attention it takes a toll on us.

The reality is if you don't do these things that feminists say are signs of men having "toxic masculinity" or "patriarchy".

You'll be left alone. If you don't earn enough, you're doomed. If you're not tall enough, you're doomed. If you're not assertive and neurotypical enough, you're doomed.