Myron Gaines posted a video recently.
In the video, the woman is being honest about the way she wants to be treated.
Myron believes that she is hurt because she is dealing with the cognitive dissonance of wanting to live in an "egalitarian world" vs a "patriarchal world".
I think Myron is completely wrong.
I think she is upset because she would likely have slept with the guy, if he had paid, but he didn't find her worthy of that monetary investment.
She is upset that he rejected sex with her or the potential of sex with her for the cost of a meal. The core of her unhappiness is that she thought she was worth more, that she deserved more.
It's important to understand that women have a concept of how much their time costs, especially if they want to be a SAHM w/ kids. They are evaluating the cost of forgoing income at work and replacing it with 50% of their partners income.
No research posts are allowed, but right here is where I would post them if they were. Please feel free to post your unique anecdotal stories of how you, as a woman, go 50/50 in your relationships, and how transactional relationships don't exist, even though every single study across all time and cultures, demonstrates that a normal monogamous relationship between a man and a woman on average constitutes a man giving money to a woman.
Women are the most happy when men invest in them and sex work is the most direct transactional method through which men can invest in women for sex.
If you google search "Sugar dating website reddit", there are multiple subreddits, where women discuss $ and how to convert their best clients into a stable provider for more permanent "vanilla" relationships. Search Vanilla for more info.
They have links to websites through which people can pay for sex.
Because women are looking for money from men, and men want sex from women. How can sexless men exist?
Sexless men don't exist, only men that don't want to pay for an available service exist. Being nice, kind, "a gentlemen", etc, are just euphemisms for a guy that gives Money, Time, Energy, Attention in different proportions.
You can read the successful female perspective here.
TLDR; Just pay you dumb dorks.
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