We all know social media are glass bubbles that don't really provide a correct image of reality. Reddit included. On here people talk as if most men are either losers, low value or some women say that most men are bad(while not having dated "most" men).

Something else that is said a lot is that men have barely any standards and that women can get the man they want easily. This is not happening unless we are talking about some above average, so a minority, of people.

Irl men HAVE standards, most women cannot walk up to a man, ask him out and then they have a relationship. You are really misunderstanding how an average woman is in reality while also acting as if most men are not dating or struggling with it. Honestly I am one of the few people I know that is still single and it's because I am very introverted.

To make it short, men are not desperate, men on reddit apparently are. Also don't listen to women saying how most men are bad here, it is not a thing irl and most women are interacting without issues with men. This is just a bubble, you can choose how miserable it makes you, or you can base your happiness on what is actually real.