I think that's stupid. On the contrary, I want to see more liberated, lustful women around me. I think it will increase my chances of getting laid.

Besides, I just like knowing that a woman is as lustful as I am and enjoys sex too.

However, in reality, I meet men who clearly judge sexually active women.

They have some strange ideal of a wife who is faithful only to him. Preferably a virgin.

But doesn't that deprive her of her individuality? So she doesn't want sex the same way you do. And she's not choosing you from among many.

If the man himself is chaste and absolutely doesn't desire sex outside of marriage—well, that's a different matter. The real question is: why do such people want to decide for everyone else how to build their sex lives?

I try to ask these men in real life what their motives are. Where does this come from? I get nothing but "it's supposed to be that way, it's normal." These people aren't religious, they don't come from perfect families where their parents were faithful to each other until death; they usually have had casual relationships themselves.

Let's not write about religion or patriarchy in our answers... We live here and now, in a slightly more civilized time, and I assume that men think for themselves before judging someone.