Over the time I've been on here one thing that can't be ignored is that men OBSESS over certain traits (sometimes referred to as alpha or beta, though it's really inconsistent) like looks (muscularity especially) or personality (confidence or assertiveness) for sexual attractiveness if they seek casual sex. For long term relationships, they add some vague "comfort" bit and call it a day.

From my personal experience and that of my closest girl friends this is wrong because it misses other crucial elements. First of all, relationships require much more than that, but this post is actually about the smaller list of requirements for casual sexual activity (for which sexual attractiveness is of course important).

In reality, most women, even if they find you sexually attractive, will NOT engage in ANY kind of sexual or romantic activity with you unless you also make them feel comfortable/safe, make them trust you and make them feel like they won't be judged for revealing their version of their most sensitive and sexual sides. Women that will go for it right away are extremely sexually uninhibited and they are a small minority. Other women won't even go and be alone with some dude who she has never met before for fear of her personal safety.

Yet if you look at most discussion between Manospherian men that point is completely missed by the vast majority of them.

That also means a few more things:

Betting on having sex with girls you just met at some bar or club is going to be a really stupid way to play the game because these women won't trust you or be comfortable around you. Playing Mr Mysterious Shyster isn't going to work very well at bars or clubs and it can be counterproductive as you need to make girls trust you first and foremost (even for meeting up alone later!).

Most men on here also act to conceal their desires to engage in nothing but sexual activity (lie by omission) while most women would prefer to get into relationships (with men who they get sexual with). This forces the men to be even more wishy washy in their words and intentions and further complicates matters of trust and comfort, as they give off an untrustworthy vibe that women will pick up on instantly (instead of a safe, comfortable, romantic vibe which makes our knees weak).

Comfort and trust are a deal maker or deal breaker that can't be ignored even for purely sexual activity.