This is for DISCUSSION. Not CMV. Please try to learn AND understand something new. Even Rollo 'Rational Male' admits men have lost many levers of control that kept women trapped. (although he thinks divorce is hypergamy somehow)

Women initiate nearly 70% of all divorces. Yet there's no significant difference between the percentage of breakups initiated by women and men in non-marriage relationships.

Why?

  1. Seeking Relief From a Bad Marriage

  2. Escape Domestic Abuse

  3. Fewer Women are Financially Dependent on a Husband

  4. Women are Less Tolerant of Infidelity

  5. Women Want More Out of Marriage

  6. Women Lose Their Identity

When men and women seek couples therapy and then subsequently divorce; or, when either partner seeks individual therapy about a marriage conflict that ends in divorce, it’s often the woman who expresses more overt conflict and dissatisfaction about the state of the marriage. On the other hand, the man is more likely to report feeling troubled by his wife’s dissatisfaction, but pretty much “OK” with the way things are; he's content to just lope along as time passes.

In contrast, I find that younger couples – who are more likely to form non-marital but committed relationships — experience more egalitarian partnerships to begin with. When their relationship crumbles beyond repair, both experience that disintegration. Both are equally likely to address it – and part, if it can’t be healed.

These clinical observations are consistent with what the study’s lead author, Michael Rosenfeld, suggests —

women may be more likely to initiate divorces because the married women reported lower levels of relationship quality than married men.

In contrast, women and men in non-marital relationships reported equal levels of relationship quality. Rosenfeld said his results support the feminist assertion that some women experience heterosexual marriage as oppressive or uncomfortable.

He adds, “I think that marriage as an institution has been a little bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality. Wives still take their husbands’ surnames, and are sometimes pressured to do so. Husbands still expect their wives to do the bulk of the housework and the bulk of the childcare. On the other hand, I think that non-marital relationships lack the historical baggage and expectations of marriage, which makes the non-marital relationships more flexible and therefore more adaptable to modern expectations, including women’s expectations for more gender equality.”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why

BONUS: https://www.liveabout.com/reasons-women-are-happier-after-divorce-1103045

Anyway, discuss how you want, im not here to debate TRP anecdotes by people who don't bother to spend 2 minutes on Google.

I'm just sick of TRPs using the divorce stat to claim all women are hypergamous sluts. Including you, Rollo.