Q4RP: What should a single woman with a high sex drive do?

GridReXX · 2016-02-17T18:34:32+00:00

So what should a single woman with a high sex drive do?

Find a like minded man and LTR him up? I guess I don't understand the question, or I'm missing something. LOL

GaiusScaevolus · 2016-02-17T19:22:38+00:00

Find a quality man and LTR him.
Accept that certain men won't date her if she has a high N-count and date other men who don't have that requirement.
Have a non-relationship FWB to supply sex when not romantically involved while keeping her N-count down.

c_in_macn · 2016-02-17T19:12:14+00:00

Slut it up and accept the consequences for choices like every other adult out there. Sounds like many women would like to do whatever they want without any social implications. That's not reality.

red-triad · 2016-02-17T18:58:31+00:00

Honestly just do whatever you want. I know a number of women who has a huge problem with my partner count. You are going to meet guys that has a problem with your high partner count.

Not everyone sees a high partner count as a problem, and honestly just do what most other women do: lie about it.

gasparddelanuit · 2016-02-17T19:17:52+00:00

Do whatever you want and accept the consequences.

kathydurst · 2016-02-17T18:43:00+00:00

Do you want an answer or a consequence-less answer?

cxj · 2016-02-17T19:02:31+00:00

Have as much sex as you want, then lie about it later. If men already assume you're lying, then there's literally nothing to lose. This is the only way to be sexually satisfied while maintaining RMV.

kick6 · 2016-02-17T18:42:15+00:00

If the answer is "just masturbate", then why is "just masturbate" not a satisfactory solution for men who complain about not getting enough/any sex?

Because "just masturbate" isn't the whole answer. It's "just masturbate until you find one guy to fuck a whole lot." To tell a guy who can't get laid to "just masturbate until you get laid" makes zero sense.

Nothing_Gazes_Back · 2016-02-17T19:15:13+00:00

Find a compatible, high value man with a similarly high sex drive and make it more appealing to be in an LTR with you than spinning plates.

Golly, that sure was hard.

SirNemesis · 2016-02-17T19:40:53+00:00

You can't wait even a few weeks into your ltr?

[deleted] · 2016-02-17T20:15:11+00:00

There is another option for women who have high n counts...become lesbian.

[deleted] · 2016-02-17T20:40:31+00:00

Then get in a LTR.

You can sleep around, but nice guys won't want a whore.

So you'll eventually end up with a red piller.

ANGRY_ATHEIST · 2016-02-17T22:23:43+00:00

If the answer is "just masturbate", then why is "just masturbate" not a satisfactory solution for men who complain about not getting enough/any sex?

A lot, and I mean a lot of men "just masturbate". The porn industry is huge, and the demand isn't coming from women. Google "The Sexodus". Is it as good as sex itself? No, but most men these days are lazy and would rather just jerk off to porn than go through the trouble of improving themselves to attract the women they actually want. Take a close, personal look at any feminist white knight, and the vast majority of them will sit there and white knight in public, but have some woman he emotes to on a regular basis in private who keeps him in the "friend zone" telling him bullshit like "just be yourself and the right girl will come along" (hell, I bet you might even know one or two). Be honest with yourself here though... does the thought of some slob who refuses to work out, and jacks off 3-4 times a day to god-knows-what type of porn really sound attractive to you? That doesn't even go into porn-induced ED. On the other hand, tell a guy you're talking to that your sex drive is so bad you have to bust out the vibrator 3-4 times a day and it will drive him nuts. Most of them's junk will probably take over and their next response will be something akin to "send pics".

The point is, men and women are different. Not just physically, but emotionally and hormonally as well. You seem to have a lot of this theme in your responses... "if men can do this why can't women". We are different, that's just biology. If you really want to maximize the results in your sexual strategy you need to understand your sex's weaknesses as well as its advantages.

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-02-18T04:38:31+00:00

A woman can't sleep around with multiple guys or she'll never get an LTR

Lies. There's plenty of cucks willing to wife up used sluts, or AF/BB wouldnt be the go to sexual strat. RP Guys may not be chumps, but there's still plenty chumps to go around.

and she can't sleep with the man she is dating too soon or else he won't LTR her.

Lies. Find a shy, virginal beta male. He'd be deliriously happy to have insta-sex and insta-relationship.

angryandsilly · 2016-02-17T19:44:18+00:00

High partner counts are unattractive in women for LTRs. Sleeping with a guy too soon is also unattractive in women for LTRs. A woman can't sleep around with multiple guys or she'll never get an LTR, and she can't sleep with the man she is dating too soon or else he won't LTR her.

This is all bullshit drummed up by the media. Most guys want a girl with a high sex drive.

Why would any girl talk to a guy about her sexual history anyway? Large number of partners? How the hell would he know unless you told him?

Lastly: how to deal with a high sex drive as a single person without fucking randoms? Fuck randoms until you find one you like to fuck, then make them into a booty call. Then you get good sex, from the same person, without having to find more partners.

needsomehelp3211 · 2016-02-17T20:29:15+00:00

Basically you have very little self control?

I love pizza, one could say I have a high food drive. But I don't indulge in pizza all the time because I don't want to get fat and be judged for being an obese slob.

How about controlling your impulses instead of letting them control you?

[deleted] · 2016-02-17T20:46:15+00:00

There's a difference between promiscuity and sluttiness.

Promiscuity is obvious but sluttiness is harder to define, but people can just tell. Promiscuous women are normally just more intelligent women who wish to bone away with people they like.

I have no respect for sluttiness but promiscuity I actually have no problem with, I can get behind it in many ways. I'd rather have a girl with a lower n count but I don't think it's a requirement and a high n count doesn't necessarily make me think sloooot. I don't think it's bad that guys prefer girls with low Ns, it's just life, same way that short girls are perfectly entitled to wanting tall guys.

Eulabeia · 2016-02-17T21:45:04+00:00

she can't sleep with the man she is dating too soon or else he won't LTR her

This is a lie that women tell themselves to make themselves feel better when they get pumped and dumped. If a guy doesn't LTR a girl who slept with him "too soon", he wasn't going to do it anyway, and waiting wasn't going to change anything.

BaadKitteh · 2016-02-17T21:52:01+00:00

The answer is "do whatever the fuck you want, because you don't want to LTR a man like that anyway".

OlBastard · 2016-02-18T01:37:27+00:00

Just masturbate.

Imagine this scenario: Two starving individuals sit at a table, both are given peanut butter. One of them is allergic to peanut butter.

As you may have guessed, the woman is analogous to the individual with a peanut allergy.

For a man, sleeping with women takes skill, it raises his SMV.

The woman dies from anaphylaxis.

[deleted] · 2016-02-18T04:41:28+00:00

Any woman is, of course, free to pursue her passions.

And any man is, of course, free to commit himself to whatever he sees worthy of his commitment.

What matters is that what a man or woman choose is uncoerced. A man can be coerced...by lies or fear of loss or emasculation. a woman can be coerced by lies or fear of loss or of violence.

If a man chooses to LTR or even marry a woman with a high body count, he is making a judgement call. But if he chooses a woman who, he thinks has a low body count, well...he was coerced.

And TRP posits that the latter situation is far more likely to occur, because a woman is far more likely to be ashamed of promiscuity and lie about it. Whether or not a woman should lie or be ashamed, I cannot say. But I will say that women tend to lie about their body count to men who would commit to them. And that it set a bad precedent for their relationship.

Now, a man is free to choose and a woman is free to choose, and choices have consequences.

A man can choose not to improve himself socially, financially, or physically, (or somehow choose not to be Chad) and he can choose to accept the consequence of being unfit to the vast majority of women.

And a woman can choose to be promiscuous, and she can choose the consequence of being unfit to a minority or men who think they deserve a virgin on the streets and a whore in the sheets.

WrensPens · 2016-02-18T06:05:14+00:00

Go be a hero and fuck all the incels.

user5577 · 2016-02-18T11:14:38+00:00

Find a man with a high sex drive.

/thread

Whisper · 2016-02-19T02:27:43+00:00

Short answer: Stop being single.

questioningwoman · 2016-02-17T18:30:38+00:00

Lie to them about n count.

RobotPartsCorp · 2016-02-17T20:55:57+00:00

Only very young and or insecure men even ask. I have never been asked in any of my relationships from the past 10 years.

[deleted] · 2016-02-19T23:41:47+00:00

winndixie · 2016-02-22T05:19:24+00:00

Firstly, your own problems doesn't mean the opposite gender's problems should be solved the same way.

Secondly yes, find a long term guy. And I mean long term guy, not because he's good looking but because he's long term. And stick with him.

[deleted] · 2016-02-17T18:37:34+00:00

Find a man she's really attracted to and she really likes. Date him for a few weeks, but make clear that she's not going to fuck him until she's engaged to him.

While you're getting to know him and you're getting increasingly attracted to each other, spend the next few months doing absolutely everything else - handjobs, titjobs, blowjobs, let him eat you out. No PIV and definitely no anal. Then after he proposes and you accept, fuck him every day until the wedding. Fuck the absolute ever loving SHIT out of him; and let him do the same to you. Then after you're married, continue doing the same as before, only you're now married. You love him; you're attracted to him; and the two of you can't keep your hands off each other. This will work most of the time, for two relatively normal people who don't have a major mental illness or personality disorder.

panickedperson · 2016-02-18T10:16:00+00:00

Dude who cares if a woman has had many sexual partners? I've dated escorts - and yes I was aware they had that profession - and didn't phase me at all. A secure, strong man will not care about how many dicks she sucked, only that she sucks good dick and willingly wants to suck his own.

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Title	Q4RP: What should a single woman with a high sex drive do?
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Date	February 17, 2016 6:27 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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