Is betabuxxing ok as long as the woman is much younger than the man?

Something I’ve noticed, a lot of redpillers will celebrate men getting with certain women who in other circumstance they would claim was ‘used goods’ as long as the woman in question is much younger than the man.

For example, recently a lot of redpillers congratulated Scott Adams on marrying his gf, Kristina Basham, who is 31 years younger than him. She is also a divorced mother of two, who doesn’t have a single picture of Scott Adams on her Instagram account. All these things are usually what redpillers claim would claim to be red flags and if she was with a guy around her age or a little older, trp users would be claiming she doesn’t love him, she is only using him or wants his betabux etc. But with the case with Scott Adams a lot of redpillers including Rollo Tomassi were congratulating him:

https://mobile.twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1282755655531560960

So when a ‘post wall’ woman in redpillers eyes with two children from a previous relationship marries a man thirty years her senior that is ok despite the blatantly transactional nature of the relationship but somehow the man is actually an alpha in this situation. However, if the same woman married a guy closer to her age, she would automatically become a user and the guy a beta chump.

I also noticed a lot of manosphere forums having this same standard towards marrying women abroad. In my home country a lot of middle aged Western men come here to get gfs/wives. Pretty much everyone know these women only get with these men for money and a green card. What’s interesting as well is the men who come here to get wives usually end up wifing up single mothers, sometimes who have multiple children by multiple man. Yet these marriages are celebrated solely because the woman in them are young, in their twenties and the man is middle aged. Yet if a young western man closer to these women’s ages decided to date or marry one of them, it would be considered terrible idea and would be told to breakup with them immediately.

So my question is betabuxing, transactional relationships and using a man for his resource ok as long as the woman doing it is much younger than her partner? Let’s say a woman who had spent her twenties riding the cc, and decided to settle down in her thirties with a man in his sixties, would that relationship be ok in trp users eyes? Is that still betabux, but it’s ok because she is younger than him?