So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?

barbedwiredaisycrown · 2021-04-02T23:07:04+00:00

Knowing men can't weigh in on this convo is my favorite part about it. 💖🍿🥂

KevlarSweetheart · 2021-04-03T00:03:12+00:00

For me, its not painful unless its really skinny, then it feels like a stab. If its really small I just feel nothing. The bigger and thicker ones feel amazing for me.

JanaBanana33 · 2021-04-02T23:08:21+00:00

Omg yes ! My first boyfriend was small and it was so uncomfortable - he thought I had a problem - and so did I. Until I was with a bigger man and it felt so great !

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-04-02T22:12:32+00:00

Could it be because they try to make up for the lack of length and girth my thrusting into you with their hips and weight? All but one of my ex’s were well hung and sex with him was annoying for that reason but not necessarily painful..

shoo_coworker · 2021-04-02T22:23:45+00:00

It feels uncomfortable, like less guided/intentional fingering. The first guy I dated was 🤏, it didn't feel good at all--just gross. Then he complained that he couldn't feel anything so he asked for oral...and I was like bruh

the_ghost_of_ · 2021-04-02T22:32:21+00:00

I find smaller dicks are just stabbing me in my vaginal walls and that's why it's painful. It's not that good, full push against your entire genitals that a big dick gives, it's more like a stab-stab-stabby little jab over and over and yes, it fucking hurts.

AnastasiaRomani · 2021-04-03T04:33:23+00:00

Painfully BORING.

Trillian_42_ · 2021-04-02T23:47:25+00:00

One of the few small ones that I have had was from an ex bf and oh my Jesus Christ I felt like I was going to cry every time. It hurt so badly like my body was reeling at having him anywhere near me. Nice guy but he felt like a knife inside me. Bigger dicks? Not a problem.

greenshadownymph · 2021-04-03T05:58:49+00:00

Okay but now that y'all have read this you need to stop having sex with men if the sex is shitty. You don't owe anyone sex. Break up with them. Find someone else. Get a sex toy. Stop putting up with shitty sex.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-04-03T02:51:14+00:00

Maybe he had a curve or a lean that didn’t work for you? For my shape, I’ve found certain ones that lean or curve too much to the side and aren’t girthy (if it’s girthy the shortness isn’t an issue) do feel stabby.

AnonPinkLady · 2021-04-03T10:21:48+00:00

So for me personally the first inch or so doesnt feel really good until it hits a certain sweet spot in me and then it starts to feel nice. Before that it's an unpleasant rubbing frictiony feeling. But when it hits that sweet spot I feel a sudden rush and the discomfort goes away. When you're having sex with a dick too short to hit that sweet spot, all you're feeling is that sore friction and rubbing feeling with no good feelings to distract from it so yeah it's pretty unpleasant. Not to mention how turned off little dicks make us feel

2021-04-02T23:37:02+00:00

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_mooness · 2021-04-02T23:53:37+00:00

Fucking men with tiny cocks is painful. It pains my soul.

my heart dies just a little when he unzips his pants and boing goes his wee shrimp.

Opening_Candidate471 · 2021-04-03T02:58:38+00:00

I have guys in my DMs here who lurk and crying that 4-5" is not small, women don't care about size, and prefer smaller.

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Have a good hearty laugh at those poor pathetic men who are so delusional they think 4" will cut it. Sure... if you leave out about half of the best sex positions for women!

Men hate the 666 rule. Especially the 6" part LOL!

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-04-02T22:25:45+00:00

I agree with the other commenter, it could do with weight distribution, the angle, the hip bones, the thrust. It could also have been temporary vaginismus on your part, or the man not providing enough foreplay for lubrication. Regardless, I’m glad you’ve had good experiences since then!

ordinarilynightmare · 2021-04-03T10:45:47+00:00

For me I just don’t feel anything but I feel maybe you find him so repulsive your body is legit rejecting him

Lionessoftheflesh · 2021-04-03T03:01:13+00:00

No one wants the unexpected extra belly button! Honestly i faked diarrhea few times to get home and outta there🤣

pickadaisy · 2021-04-03T05:08:12+00:00

Adding that yes, this is so real!

moonlightpuddle · 2021-04-03T11:21:06+00:00

Small dicks feel like the worst (pinki) finger job in the world. It's like uncoordinated (bc these men also usually lack in most other areas, height and weight, too so they try to make up for it with truly shitty oral and other crap bedroom moves) and really can feel so damn painful. On one hand it can be hilarious in that it's like you don't feel anything. Lmao my own fingers do more for me than men who I gave a chance to who were just trash in the bedroom and overall. Small dicks are also usually very gross looking as are the losers attached to them. What is it with them being extremely painful, and uglier than normal dick? I'm only asking as men believe they have a right to request implants from their partners (and insist on some genetic features like dating is ordering at a Wendy's) but we can't say anything about their ugly, tiny dicks right? Or their height? Or reduction of sperm quality over the age of 30? Or their pedophilia-biased preferences? Or that we don't ever usually come, it's their satisfaction that is placed first? Or that they all bald by 26? I could go on and on. But ofc, talking about a man's tiny penis is wrong. I mean it's not like we face systemic misogyny. When you think about it...men are so weak and honestly I'm done letting ugly, gross, LVM near me.

greenshadownymph · 2021-04-03T05:54:47+00:00

So press on the area around your belly button. If it hurts the same way sex hurts then it's a physical problem that can be solved with surgery (If you want to. Or just stop having sex with guys who have small penises. Painful sex sounds like a perfectly reasonable reason not to date someone).

voodo2020 · 2021-04-02T22:19:11+00:00

Maybe he got the surgery to make his D firmer lol It must be painful then

level_up_always · 2021-04-03T00:42:42+00:00

idk sounds psychosomatic to me... maybe you didn't really like him as much as you thought. our bodies are very intuitive and we want to get the best possible mate with the best genes could've been telling you something you didn't consciously realize. you may have consciously liked him and checked all the boxes but subconsciously there may have been other stuff going on and he would have been better as a friend sometimes those wires get crossed (even tho i don't believe men and women can be friends anyway but i digress)

2021-04-05T18:19:55+00:00

Could be because you're not turned on. If you're not turned on, the muscles tense up more, things don't get lubricated, and it's basically trying to shove a pencil through a dry piece of cardboard.

Title	So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?
Author	Mcccy
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Date	April 2, 2021 10:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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