Men need to stop complaining 😂😂

c_a_t_lady · 2021-06-13T11:56:30+00:00

"They hate us so bad", the one's like you, maybe.

If you think that women won't date you because "they hate men" ask yourself: "Do they actually hate men or am I just not as good of a guy as I claim to be?"

Hhjjuuy · 2021-06-13T12:43:43+00:00

Women easily spend that extra 20 hours a week on unpaid domestic labour when living with a man if otherwise working full time. Absurd to think that's more attractive than using that time on a side hustle/second job/overtime.

I know single women who actually get some domestic benefits when working overtime. In jobs with busy seasons I've had friends say that they can enjoy their homes more because it's so clean due to them being out at work all the time. It's a small boost and definitely bittersweet but the labour that a LVM will add to your life is honestly soul destroying.

straightouttashtetl · 2021-06-13T11:03:54+00:00

"They hate us that bad"

In the words of my father: "provide, motherfucker"

Watzoo · 2021-06-13T13:15:46+00:00

Yessssssssss.

I wish I could force all the incel crowds to read “Wifework” - basically marriage is a LOT of labor for women and the only upside is that the father of your kids (if that’s who you’re married to) is more likely to pitch in and help raise solid kids. That’s the only scenario where marriage has any benefit for women that exceeds singlehood.

The benefits for men are astronomical even in mediocre marriages.

IDontAgreeSorry · 2021-06-13T13:27:49+00:00

I’d rather work anyways even if I did have a good guy who wanted to provide for me. Don’t want to be a stay at home wife/mom, or depend on someone else. Nor do most women, who have a choice.

fairywakes · 2021-06-13T14:12:21+00:00

YES. We do hate and won’t tolerate your bullshit THAT BAD. We’re wising up!

localgirlcult · 2021-06-13T14:28:19+00:00

Almost all of that entire gender is unaware of how good women are to them despite them treating us how they've been treating us since the dawn of time. The majority of women still think they can stop male violence and mistreatment by pandering to them more. Most women in the world are still unpaid housekeepers and babysitters on top of their own jobs. And it's still not enough. We've never treated them how they've treated us and a large number of men still feel victimized. They are the weaker gender.

Twolipz_78 · 2021-06-13T14:53:05+00:00

But..but.. I love working and not having to depend on LVM or any man because you never know. The LVX really seemed resentful that I was happy when I was at work.

Connect_Chipmunk_691 · 2021-06-13T15:25:34+00:00

I agree with everything this woman is saying! Men talking about how women hating men has destroyed manhood and emasculated all of men and ruin society and families etc etc drives me nuts because I'm like, dudes, what were y'all doing first? Why did women respond to you that way if everything that you were doing was so great and amazing and wonderful? There wouldn't be a need! Women would never have needed to rise up and fight for ourselves the way we've had to and still have to if men had been getting it right from the start and being men the way they should be! Ideally men should always be safe to be around and ideally they should always be loving providing caring for and protecting keeping safe etc women and children.....and in a way that does not hold women back or squash them down or keep them from being the fullness of themselves!

And also it would vary in degrees according to the nature of the relationship. Some guys act like because they might care about their wives and their children that that means they respect women or that they're good guys even though they put all the other women down and are hateful and spiteful.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2021-06-13T11:22:31+00:00

She looks like a goddess and she's 100% right.

ivy176 · 2021-06-13T10:52:41+00:00

Is her face... real...??

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-06-13T17:38:17+00:00

I was explaining why I don’t date much to an older, married male coworker once. I said I need a man who brings value to my life. He literally just looked at me, empty-eyed, and said, “what does that mean, though?”

In Paid For by Rachel Moran, in discussing the pornified culture we live in now; she says “men and women have lost each other in all of this. How is it not clear that we have lost each other?” I had to read that line like 10 times just bc it hit me so hard.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-06-13T11:19:33+00:00

Jesus christ she's drop dead gorgeous

Mcccy · 2021-06-13T11:32:24+00:00

Is she an angel omg

PINKFLOYD24 · 2021-06-13T14:27:52+00:00

There is too much filter it's too distracting

Talktothecat1 · 2021-06-13T12:11:12+00:00

how is she not a model?!

the_ghost_of_ · 2021-06-13T14:48:53+00:00

100% agree with her message. 100% disagree with her presentation of it. Stop pandering to what men think is "attractive". It's only hurting the rest of us.

missyou2017 · 2021-06-13T13:32:23+00:00

Pure truth.

Tiffglamour · 2021-06-13T16:08:43+00:00

It never fails, whenever a beautiful woman speaks intelligently (filter or not), here come the mean girls to try to take her down a peg. As a woman or color, It’s not lost on me that the heavier criticism seems to be reserved for black women. I’m disappointed in these replies. (Just being honest)

Longluck · 2021-06-13T21:24:56+00:00

She is so gorgeous and is spitting FACTS

asteria2002 · 2021-06-13T16:00:48+00:00

Ok, but she is so beautiful!

FDS-GFY · 2021-06-13T14:07:28+00:00

I just want to add how beautiful she is.

Title	Men need to stop complaining 😂😂
Author	HoneyBouquet
Upvotes	1793
Comments	75
Date	June 13, 2021 10:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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