(M54) Went through a divorce at the end of last year, no kids, split things amicably. I ended up with the dogs and she took her cat. Everything was final at end of January. She moved out and 1500 miles away. We have talked on the phone over the last couple months about some final paperwork things and things she forgot. Lately she’s been sending me txt about missing the dogs, wanting me to send her pictures of them. She also wants to talk to me, I feel like it’s not good for either of us to “chit chat” on the phone. I feel like I need to distance myself to heal and move on with the next chapter of my life. I feel like she thinks we could get back together at some point but I don’t feel the same. In some ways I feel bad for her, she’s in a tough spot where she moved, no friends other than her sister, and the cost of living etc. but that was her choice.

Is it wrong that I don’t really want to talk to her? Should I try and be nice? She had a habit of being negative and I really don’t want to hear about all of her issues and negativity.