Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-02-10T23:41:12+00:00

Wow. None of this is true.

Now being considerate and thoughtful would probably be much faster route. An actual turn on.

threedotlove · 2021-02-11T00:18:22+00:00

I have literally had exactly the opposite reaction when multiple male friends have touched me in a flirtatious manner. It made me so exceptionally uncomfortable. Sadly, there are men who will believe this trash.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-02-10T23:44:32+00:00

Disgusting. Untrue. And if by some chance it was true it would be even more reason to keep men away from us and away from our children, because they would use basic human connection to manipulate us at the first opportunity. 🤢

Platipus6 · 2021-02-11T00:34:26+00:00

Absolutely not

Gross.

Pure projection.

Randos repeatedly touching me makes me feel sick and angry.

Meanwhile, every ex has turned into a blubbering, clingy, needy baby who wants endless 'cuddles' because they're so touched starved (from years of being a repulsive creep), or they get an instant boner from having their arm grazed and THEY want immediate penetration.

Hugging an angry woman and not letting go is more likely to induce shock, confusion and the fawn response because you're literally trapping, intimidating and blocking her, you pure psychos.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-02-11T00:56:14+00:00

automatic response

purely sexual way

Yet I hug my mom, dad, siblings, grandparents, cousins, friends and children and I'm not living in Incestville.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-02-11T00:02:29+00:00

Ho-Lee-shit..

Nope. Nope. They are canceled.

LilithWon · 2021-02-11T01:18:08+00:00

If a guy touches me without my permission I reflexively swat him away.

Also this whole thing is pure projection, he even admits to it with the "blood rushing to your penis" bit.

Espionagess · 2021-02-11T01:14:45+00:00

🤣 They give eachother the worst advice. Apparently all the handshakes I give at work make me horny every morning haha.

One or two touches on the arm can be nice, but repeatedly trying to touch her over and over again is going to creep any girl out.

mirrormirror114 · 2021-02-11T00:06:45+00:00

Repulsive

coldfoot23 · 2021-02-11T01:11:33+00:00

No woman has ever co-signed on this. You can’t program us to get pussy out holy shit men are stupid. What if I were a man and kept touching you repeatedly? Will you eventually let me fuck your ass? Jeez.

throwmefaraway85 · 2021-02-11T01:15:22+00:00

You touch me you 🔪

Erinelda · 2021-02-11T01:20:03+00:00

I believe that losers get boners from their hand being touched, the rest of this is garbage lol.

Mcccy · 2021-02-11T00:31:39+00:00

The only 'natural' reaction you're getting if you touch someone against their will repeatedly is a punch or a law suit.

Sparrow_143 · 2021-02-11T01:42:44+00:00

LMAOO! If you think touching my arm is gonna distract me from how ugly you are be prepared for a roast 🥴🤣

MadamLeFay · 2021-02-11T00:25:21+00:00

How old is this kid and is he a virgin? He has no clue. How many woman have barfed at his touch?

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-02-11T03:00:45+00:00

This is why my "nice guy" friend made me so horny when he put his arm around my shoulders...

Just kidding, the first reaction was thinking "what the fuck?" and the second, to recoil. We all know when an apparently innocent touch doesn't feel right.

DreamPoliceincolor · 2021-02-11T01:18:58+00:00

A hormone is not going to overpower her urge to knock you out straight for sexual harassment 🤮

millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-11T04:18:18+00:00

And this feeds into men's belief that women are a monolith

Astral_weaver · 2021-02-11T07:02:49+00:00

What the heck is that?

I treat unsolicited touches by men either by pulling away, or by becoming aggressive towards them. The later is not safe for every context of course, but it worked miracles for me, because they don't see it coming.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-02-11T03:46:32+00:00

Everyday I think it can’t get worse... or more ignorant... or more sexist, or more violent... and every day I’m wrong. No longer surprised. How sad is that.

mynameisrominka · 2021-02-11T07:53:05+00:00

He can try and touch me, and will get a mouthful of eau de pepper spray. It's an automatic response, he will be warm enough in seconds.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-02-11T05:49:15+00:00

This text urges my knee to courageously *touch* that rapist's balls.

And what a complete nonsense that is. 🤦‍♀️ Unsolicited touching from unsympathetic people actually does the opposite. But keep dreaming scrote.

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-11T05:24:04+00:00

Porn isnt real life, shocker.

yolosunshine · 2021-02-11T07:32:25+00:00

Is ‘bitch shield’ a ...technical term?

Also what’s funny is this whole snake oil spiel is written in hypnotic induction for the dudes he’s ‘reaching’.

That’s good, because none of it is scientifically true. None of it. A record.

sealcrab · 2021-02-11T09:23:23+00:00

"a few touches will make her start to feel hot and sexual, literally against her will"

So you acknowledge that this woman doesn't want to be "hot and sexual" but believe that just because she has a physiological response to being touched that justifies you trying to fuck her. AGAINST HER WILL. ok.

c_a_t_lady · 2021-02-11T07:57:00+00:00

I have some kind of "Haphephobia", so absolutely not! 😳

If somebody touches me without permission or a warning (sometimes even with permission or a warning), I'll be tensed, disturbed and anxious for a good while.

poison_snacc · 2021-02-11T16:50:51+00:00

Oxytocin, according to men: the chemical released when a creep with a boner gropes you on the subway and makes you call the police

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-02-11T10:34:32+00:00

Then I'm broken because touching coming from a man I'm feeling cold about makes me run as a wind.

nebsemi · 2021-02-11T11:17:46+00:00

Touch me and you're getting kicked in the nuts

huevos_and_whiskey · 2021-02-11T11:55:34+00:00

This guy needs to stfu with the oxytocin shit. We're not animals that respond to a mere touch, like getting touched by someone so vulgar will make us want them. The writer sounds like a creep who probably has never met a woman irl.

gosportlemon · 2021-02-11T15:01:12+00:00

I don't understand people!

ArugulaIsAwesome · 2021-02-11T15:11:30+00:00

Nope nope nope.

I had a long time coworker drive my roommate and I home one afternoon. When he went to hug her goodbye it was quick and short like a “Bro hug” with back tapping and everything.

When he hugged me he lingered awkwardly for multiple seconds. I was so grossed out I nearly shuttered in his arms.

My roommate later said “you need to talk to that guy, he definitely likes you!”

It sucked that I had to be the one to bring it up and finally tell him “no” I wasn’t interested.

He never asked me out or used words to express himself. Instead he would just leer at me, offer to “help” me with things unnecessarily, and always ask me whether I was in a relationship or not.

honeybeeroll · 2021-02-11T17:59:00+00:00

....was this written by an alien? Any woman would be immediately feel violated, frightened, and/or angered by a guy she doesnt even know constantly trying to touch her. Personal space hello!!

No one but an incel would read this and think it would work, because any man who's successful w/ women (suave LVM included) would know this would put off a woman who's not attracted to him. He would know a touch or two is okay, and he'd know when it's appropriate and how to do it. He would know it wouldn't be like this!! I'll bet money this OP has never been on a second date or even a first in his life.

gutsandgorey · 2021-02-11T17:58:07+00:00

Men's dating advice: manipulate women in anyway you can to get what you want.

FDS dating advice: If he doesn't treat you right block and delete.

And somehow we're the toxic ones???

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-02-11T21:53:33+00:00

This is literally rapist mentality oh my God

sassyheather · 2021-02-11T06:31:01+00:00

OKAY BUT PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME with this, I am screaming internally. Why is this what happened with my ex???? WHY the fuck? Swear I had no attraction or willingness to be intimate with him, we hung out for a coffee and he was having his arm around my shoulders, touching my upper arm and upper back and nothing else, but for some reason I went home wanting to sleep with him. I couldn’t wrap my head around over how it had happened!!!

Title	Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮
Author	idowhateveriwant2
Upvotes	163
Comments	49
Date	February 10, 2021 3:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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