Love this!

lonechronicler · 2020-08-26T02:24:48+00:00

This lady has ovaries of steel. Would have loved to have been a fly on the wall when he found out though.

MakeURegret · 2020-08-26T00:59:12+00:00

Ah I always love seeing this post 😊

Just complete Queen energy.

pascalines · 2020-08-26T02:52:12+00:00

This is amazing. I basically just did the same thing to my NVM ex (recently posted on FDS).

I’ll never have an argument or “cOmMuNicAtE” with a LVM again. Block delete and ghost.

whatsmynameagain91 · 2020-08-26T03:23:35+00:00

I did the whole change my number and block everything. 7 years ago. I don’t think I’ve ever dealt with the pain. It was like I blocked him from myself too. I didn’t grieve or feel anything but now it’s coming out in other ways. I’m sorry he sucks.

RedRetrograde · 2020-08-26T01:04:04+00:00

The only problem I have with this post is that she left the fucking game for him. Why the hell didn’t she just keep it or take it back? Honestly, that part sort of kills the momentum for me.

Qi_ra · 2020-08-26T03:04:10+00:00

Only thing I’d do differently is eat his breakfast. I absolutely love this post.

gigababejfl · 2020-08-26T03:28:16+00:00

I remember this

Hope he is scarred for life.

Elisa_LaViudaNegra · 2020-08-26T05:20:49+00:00

There’s something sooooo satisfying about ghosting someone so hard that they begin to question whether you ever existed at all, or if they imagined you.

randomgirlimok · 2020-08-26T01:16:36+00:00

Video games are $60, I would have returned it. He prob played it later with his ex. Fuck that

QueenLatifaLaBiggest · 2020-08-26T04:23:54+00:00

I think by leaving the game she retains her humanity and integrity. When she left him she didn't have to lower her kindness. We don't have to be as vindictive as others to assert ourselves. We don't have to leave behind our core values when we level up, we need to apply those core values to ourselves.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-08-26T04:23:47+00:00

Yes. The first time he fucks up THIS IS WHAT YOU DO. No forgiveness. No tolerance. No “communicate” and “make it work”. Walk out the door. Stop overvaluing men who disrespect you. Get another one or be single.

AnniaT · 2020-08-26T07:39:03+00:00

I've been saying for ages (and trying to apply to myself too): if someone disrespects you dont send those long texts, don't call them, don't try to have closure or expect them to realize they did wrong (they know) and change. Just leave. Block and delete when possible. It's not about them or having the last word, it's about you and your healing.

CloacaDiddler · 2020-08-26T05:57:36+00:00

After 5 years of giving someone your all and you still gotta be worried about this shit happening at anytime smh

4E4ME · 2020-08-26T01:37:00+00:00

Like a fucking boss.

RavenWudgieRose · 2020-08-26T03:28:12+00:00

I love how she handled it but I hate this post. I feel like everything triggers me. This post makes me so angry. I have so many questions. I feel like there must have been signs? 5 year boyfriend is a sign in itself right?

nointerestsbutsleep · 2020-08-26T09:04:24+00:00

More options for the game:

Option B - scratch the disk the F up! Option C - take the actual game disk with you, leave the empty case.

CassieGreen85 · 2020-08-26T02:45:09+00:00

I would've been super petty, record the lovebirds, record what I brought (breakfast and game), and if anyone asked me, I'd just show them the video.

Also, I'd take back the game. Those are pricey, goddamn.

the_researcher_ · 2020-08-26T07:16:12+00:00

This is the perfect breakup. No drama, no endless talking, no tears, no explanation, no nothing. Perfect.

0kfornow · 2020-08-26T07:52:19+00:00

And that's how it's done

Lavender_flow · 2020-08-26T07:33:14+00:00

I want an update to this, remember reading it a while back.

_Hellchic_ · 2020-08-26T12:48:11+00:00

How come she was with him for 5 years and no engagement etc or anything but she's doing all this for a man who's not even her husband.

plummyjellyfish · 2020-08-26T08:45:14+00:00

I love her dignity. I'm less so - I would have kept the game and eaten the breakfast haha. What I would have done is taken a photo of the pair and sent it to him after I'd hit the road.

dragon_wolf4 · 2020-08-26T12:21:32+00:00

Idk I feel she was too kind to leave the breakfast and game like that. I would throw the food upside down in his apartment and scatter it. Then I'd return the game to the store, and donate that money to a homeless person or something.

smitty4728 · 2020-08-26T18:52:53+00:00

I did something similar with my ex. He wasn't unfaithful, but he was lazy and selfish. He barely worked, and when he did he spent it all on himself (including flying back to his home country to party with his friends). Then one day he decided that he was going to move back home, and actually asked me to figure out a new plan because "I want to be with you!"

That may have been true, but I realized at that moment that if I stayed in this relationship, I was going to be perpetually chasing a guy who lived only for himself, who had zero problems with pulling the rug out from under whatever plans we made whenever it suited him. Whenever I'd explain that his actions never matched his words, I got called selfish.

Honestly, sometimes ghosting is the only healthy thing to do for yourself. He's gonna beg and blame and deflect and cry and it's so easy to just get sucked back in and give it another go. I was so sick of his shit that I felt that was the only way I'd get through to him about how angry I was.

whymenaregarbage · 2020-08-26T20:03:28+00:00

This woman is my spirit. I always hope she’s doing well in her life. God Bless her. 💕

GabbaG0ul · 2020-08-26T13:54:23+00:00

Good. He was probably devastated to be honest. That other girl was the ex for a reason. And OP was the girlfriend for a reason. Men never really care about their side pieces. That’s why they’re on the side. Now he lost the woman he cared about because he is a dog. And he has no closure. Beautiful!

mitzislippers · 2020-08-26T06:23:44+00:00

Naw imma Gemini, I’m throwing ice cold water on boffum. foh. Then imma dip. ✌🏽

samarsharqi · 2020-08-26T15:21:19+00:00

I liked this but then I saw someone post elsewhere about how this guy was probably relieved not to deal with drama. I hate to say it but that perspective definitely shifted my view and I think if ya man wanna get buck-wild... get your hands on his cash and spend it to the last dime 🤷🏻‍♀️

CassieGreen85 · 2020-08-26T04:23:37+00:00

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Title	Love this!
Author	princessskittyxoxo
Upvotes	1308
Comments	86
Date	August 26, 2020 12:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/igp26f/love_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/love-this.169217 https://theredarchive.com/post/169217

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