Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field Study

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-04-19T21:05:14+00:00

Seriously though, men got our hopes up with all this talk about a wall. I entered my 30s and got divorced over the pandemic so I was really looking forward to being invisible for the next part of my level up journey. No such luck. A 20 year old college intern hit on me in the elevator at work last week and I'm still not sure how he could even see my haggard swamp witch form.

DuchessDurag · 2022-04-19T21:26:31+00:00

The wall was a made up term for men who wanted “revenge” from women in their younger years who rejected them.

Most women are approached by men daily and have no Issues attracting no matter their age.

Men truly believe as they get older they look better but judging on dating apps it’s the opposite.

I’m mid 30s and apparently it’s old maid territory in my culture 🤣 But so far I’m always getting hit on and usually younger men

MadamePotpourri · 2022-04-19T21:32:51+00:00

My mom is in her 60's. One time we went to a coffee shop together and this man tried to proposition her right in front of me while she was wearing her huge wedding ring. The wall is a lie. My 48 year old friend regularly pulls guys in their 30's. Male attention is like grains of sand in the Sahara desert - no matter what your age is.

Breaking down the idea of "the wall" for women you realize two things:

It's a form of manipulation to scare women into settling for a scrote. They want you to think that 30 is your expiration date and past that no one will want you.
It's male projection. Many men are insecure about aging. They worry about wrinkles, gray hair and gaining weight just like women do.

thowawaywookie · 2022-04-20T03:19:10+00:00

They are just projecting their own decline in desirability.

Every age there are plenty of flirty men.

My late mother, even at 89, was asked out a lot and several marriage proposals.

Moira_Spice · 2022-04-20T01:52:35+00:00

Exactly. Women actually keep care of themselves, they pay attention to their food intake, sleep, they have a whole skincare, they're always desirable at every age. Even my own 93 year old (amazing) grandma has suitors at her retirement home.

I used to feel old at 21, I thought my life was ruined, but I feel young at 26, because I got hella confidence and I see myself for what I am. Fuck the scrotties that say we got a "expiration" date. Hell, I've seen guys just one year older than me, and they seem 10+ years older. Some guys don't know what sunscreen is for.

Lol, gotta laugh at their audacity.

krissycole87 · 2022-04-19T22:17:29+00:00

I started on a major glow up journey both mentally and physically when I got into my 30s. I am happier now than ever in my 20s and get hit on a million times more than ever before. Men dont even attempt to glow up or age gracefully.

masterofthebarkarts · 2022-04-20T12:10:25+00:00

Me, stage-whispering from the corner:

The only women who hit a "wall" (age rapidly and drastically) are women who marry and have children with LV scrotes because that will absolutely suck out all your joy, youth and passion. Kids are exhausting and trying to raise them with a man-child is 10x worse.

Notice how many women divorce those guys and look about a million times better 7 months later?

Whereas men generally do not take good care of themselves and start to decompose like a damp sponge by 35.

Although consequently, guys over 35 who still look good certainly do get a bump since it's so rare.

lvioletsnow · 2022-04-20T01:08:35+00:00

Pretty much. I tell my mentees to be wary of all men between seven and death. 🤣

BabyGothQ · 2022-04-19T21:58:18+00:00

My religious, married Grandma has been sweet talked by old men, women, middle aged men lmao once or twice even in front of me!!

galian84 · 2022-04-20T10:23:20+00:00

Yes! So many women, of all ages would benefit from realizing this. Certain cultures love to tear down women for being “old maids” if they’re not married off by a certain age, and even western society makes women feel like there’s something wrong with them if we’re single. I say fuck that noise. It’s such a lie and scare tactic.

When I was on OLD in my 30s, I was regularly matching with men in their early 20s. Think there was even a 19-year old in there somewhere. I’m 37 now, and last year I was asked out by a 24-year old lifeguard where I worked.

My mom is 65 and regularly gets hit on, even when she’s walking out in the park. Her last boyfriend was 24 when she was in her 50s, and SHE dumped HIM.

I am childfree by choice, so there is no time limit. The wall is a lie and pure projection by males. They are the ones scared to die old and alone, not us.

starlight_sequence · 2022-04-20T03:35:15+00:00

I recently had a mildly amusing situation that had me thinking about how the wall don't real.

I (30) recently met the friend (27) of my best friend's (29) fiance (27). The four of us have started hanging out as a group once or twice a week. Fiance's friend, let's call him David, is tall, fit, handsome, and has an excellent job and salary. I was vaguely aware that David has been casually seeing two 22-year-old women, though he's never brought them around or mentioned them to me directly. Recently, my friend told me David drunkly confessed to her that he's actually smitten with me, and he's just passing time with the two younger women because he's nervous to ask me out, and he's also worried about our group dynamic being awkward if I reject him or things don't work out. I, the 30-year-old-post-wall-hag, am the one this ostensibly desirable man wants.

Completely anecdotal, but I think it's funny because everyone involved is almost a stock character in RP ideology: The mythical 22-year old(s), 6-6-6 "Alpha" (ok I have no idea about the last 6), and the 30 year old post-wall hag.

(For the record, I'm not interested in David. I don't think it's HV behavior to use two different women just to waste time)

-positivity- · 2022-04-19T23:58:02+00:00

The older I get, the hotter, the nicer, the more successful the men I date. I also have 40+ eggs in the freezer, and work at a company that gives free IVF etc as a work benefit. All I need to do is pick a designer sperm (or adopt a dear orphan). Time is irrelevant to me

A woman’s ‘wall’ as defined by fertility has been rendered irrelevant. The biggest setback I see is that most men start balding in their 20s and look unappetizing by their 40s. I may have to die alone (and happy)

IgetUsernameScraps · 2022-04-20T12:55:22+00:00

Women are always in demand because at any stage of life we benefit men, at any stage of their life.

I’m sure she still looks great and hope no one tells her to “dress her age.” 😒

itsjustphe · 2022-04-20T01:11:00+00:00

Hitting the wall is the ultimate incel fantasy. Next to "She didn't want me when I was a nerd in highschool, fell in love and got pregnant by the gangsta and now she's a sad baby momma begging me for my precious dick while I walk off!"

Never happening.

I personally won't let a mediocre man plant his seed in meband only believe in motherhood if I can be extremely hypergamous about it otherwise no. I'm focused on my education and upward mobility and I take care of my physical and mental health. I'm not in any rush for marriage and in fact I see it as something that will slow me down and weigh me down if I'm not careful about when and who I do it with.

Men create the "Hitting the wall" narrative to humble us and pressure is into bad situations. "hey if you don't say yes to marriage and domestic servitude now, you'll turn 30 no man will want you because they'll be chasing 22 year olds so you better settle now".

No.

HoneydewSorry7141 · 2022-04-19T21:28:33+00:00

Men will fuck anything that walks and they actively admit this. But they also want us to believe there's a magic number they stop being attracted to us? I fucking wish. I hate being cat-called every god damn time I walk down the street.

hoyverdistrategi · 2022-04-20T01:40:55+00:00

I'm in my 30s, am told I look 10 years younger than my age, and have men 10 years younger chasing me.

Thing is, I don't think I look 10 years younger. I'm age x therefore I look age x. Men believe that women age 20 years when we hit 30 and women believe it so women in their 20s are shocked when I tell them my age.

The 30s are amazing and I'm looking forward to turning 40.

a-girl-and-her-cats · 2022-04-20T08:18:48+00:00

I just made an account on a dating app and there are more men on there than women. This confirms the truth: women can live just fine without men. It's men who cannot live without women.

Laradorrenfiona · 2022-04-20T09:24:07+00:00

It’s a lie invented for men by men. They want to scare you into settling for anybody. Also if you look at men beginning in their 30 and older they start to look terrible. If they haven’t always looked ugly age certainly doesn’t help them because they neglect their health and don’t look after themselves. Most of the time they need women to groom them. So they scare women into being with them. Ultimately they benefit more from the relationship anyway. Also yes men never stop being thirsty creeps

2022-04-20T02:04:51+00:00

This is true. Women are always desirable to men. Some men age well but many do not. Most women age well. Even if they don’t men really aren’t as picky as they pretend to be. I’m weary of being asked by men why I don’t have a boyfriend bc they know this really old ugly woman who always has a boyfriend. I tell them I don’t have one because I don’t want one. Then begins the disbelief and questions about what’s wrong with me. They don’t grasp that it’s just a low priority for me. Maybe when I retire I’ll get a boyfriend again. Or maybe when my last child turns 18. Already men my age look too old. I will date younger when I do date again unless I meet some fabulous older man. I don’t expect to have problems finding willing partners. I have more than enough unwanted attention even though I’m ancient (50 something) with grandkids.

dragoness_leclerq · 2022-04-20T11:17:37+00:00

"The Wall" is, always was and forever will be nothing more than a fearmongering tool of the patriarchy meant to scare women into frightened submission.

Sweetheartsorrow · 2022-04-19T22:06:48+00:00

It never made sense to me. It’s like once men hit 30 they hit some kind of wall made of video games, fast food, couches and zero grooming supplies.

rpaul9578 · 2022-04-20T06:26:19+00:00

I am 47 and was hit on by a FedEx driver in his 20s not too long ago. Dude tried to friend me on Facebook too.

sparklypinktutu · 2022-04-20T04:03:27+00:00

Yep. My mom was regularly flirted with in front of me by men in their 30s and early 40s when she was 52-53. Just me snickering on the side like… dude. Come on.

Typical_Candle_5627 · 2022-04-22T02:43:49+00:00

seriously, has no one seen mrs. robinson? listened to stacey’s mom? there’s no wall lol

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-11T17:20:02+00:00

Men go for youngest girls, so

alphabet_bitch · 2022-06-26T10:41:41+00:00

Feminine energy never fades, it just gets stronger and stronger.

MudBig3087 · 2022-08-05T03:25:09+00:00

Women will never hit a wall when it refers to being sexually attractive. But the high value rich men that you all seem to feel entitled to, they only desire young attractive women. Not 30+ year olds.

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