Just came across this on /r/military.

Minkatte · 2015-07-06T20:31:36+00:00

Military spouses can be the best people in the world, or in this case...the worst people imaginable...

Used to be on active duty myself, and it really is sad how some of the women treat their husbands who are enlisted. Real sad.

Frostatine · 2015-07-06T23:43:04+00:00

I like how the only thing we know about this woman's husband is that he wants a divorce and has a sexless marriage and the immediate response is "He sounds like a real shitbag."

Sks44 · 2015-07-06T23:17:01+00:00

In college, a friend of mine was banging a chick and one night he was all bummed. I asked why and he said he found out she was married to a soldier in Afghanistan. I told him he had to end it or be seen as an utter cocksucker.

So he confronts girl and she says yea, she's married to a soldier. But she's cheated on him and will continue to do so. My friend asked if they had an open thing going on. She replied no, husband didn't know. But she was planning on divorcing him anyway. I wish I could tell you my friend stopped fucking her. His logic was that she was a skank.

Darkling5499 · 2015-07-07T00:14:23+00:00

surprised this isn't heavily, heavily downvoted. /r/military hates dependapotomi like her.

edit // found the thread, it's being downvoted for the trash it is.

BigAbbott · 2015-07-06T20:48:31+00:00

She has a bad habit he hates. This (or as I read it) lead him to have a bad habit she hates. Thus, he deserves to burn.

noted

2015-07-07T00:17:03+00:00

And the ungrateful sociopath wonders why her husband is developing a drinking problem. Go figure.

devildog93 · 2015-07-07T01:43:56+00:00

Being in the military myself this is actually pretty fucking common. These are what are known as a "dependapotamus"

NUMBERS2357 · 2015-07-06T22:33:17+00:00

I often hear stories about how men in the military are screwed by the system, particularly around divorce and family court. But I think its a barrier to fixing this stuff that while stuff affecting women have mounds of stats to back them up, stuff like this just has anecdotes. Some stats about military men and divorces would really help this stuff get attention.

Scimitar66 · 2015-07-07T00:54:48+00:00

But there's no hatred of men in our society guys, because patriarchy.

/s

Raudskeggr · 2015-07-07T01:51:52+00:00

Ahhh yes, the inevitable dependapotamus.

MolyneuxFan · 2015-07-07T00:17:34+00:00

we don't fuck

I guess it must be the mans fault for that, because there is literally no reason for a woman to have to please her man.

StrikingEarth · 2015-07-06T20:54:06+00:00

Sounds like a typical military marriage to me. Was there supposed to be something unusual here?

AugmentedFury · 2015-07-07T08:31:16+00:00

You'd have to be an utter asshat to get married. All it takes from the cunt is "I'm not happy anymore" and you get fucked up the ass raw with a cactus.

Some of you guys may feel like you're going to be lonely in the future or feel that way right now. Would you rather be lonely with all of the money you worked hard for? Or would you rather be lonely and broke after you get divorce raped while she's fucking the neighbor in the house that you bought? Marriage is about the redistribution of wealth. Men do not benefit from marriage at all. You are seen as a worthless shit whose only reason for existing is to serve women. People change, she may seem kind/caring now but who knows how she will be in the future. Women do not know what they want, and they're ruled by emotions. They act like children and should be treated as such.

Avoid marriage at all costs. Statistics don't lie and it's only getting worse.

nuesuh · 2015-07-07T08:39:14+00:00

Do not marry, EVER. Not even if you believe the woman to be "perfect".

Macismyname · 2015-07-07T00:27:00+00:00

Dependapotomus in a nutshell. My biggest fear when I was in the military. Good god the shit I've seen friends have to deal with.

pennyarcade · 2015-07-07T05:22:04+00:00

What a disgusting whore

TheQuon · 2015-07-07T09:48:51+00:00

Don't get married guys, ever.

slideforlife · 2015-07-07T01:28:32+00:00

unfortunately in this day and age, you'd have to have an incurable death wish to be a male and want to marry.

thegreyhoundness · 2015-07-07T01:19:58+00:00

Isn't she just a darling? It sucks that our society and our laws enable a petty, terrible, self centered, vindictive, immature drug abusing loser to legally take advantage of any other human to that extent so easily. With the metaphorical flick of her spoiled hand, she can and will utterly destroy another person and take whatever from him she wants. And she will be applauded and supported by all kinds of idiots, as evidenced by that post. Sick.

AtheistConservative · 2015-07-07T03:05:43+00:00

And this is what my mom did to my Dad. Yet still I catch shit from people because I'm not on good terms with my mom.

thegr8b8m8 · 2015-07-07T11:18:26+00:00

Females like this should be sent to prison.

Hagiographic · 2015-07-06T23:48:23+00:00

that's fucked

TheBoldakSaints · 2015-07-07T01:02:32+00:00

I bet she is a fucking whale.

llb3176 · 2015-07-07T03:11:39+00:00

What a cunt

speedisavirus · 2015-07-07T03:32:37+00:00

Man, seriously fuck that bitch. As a veteran myself I've never seen as many men married to cuntwaffles in my life. So many would cheat repeatedly. Empty accounts while their husbands were deployed. My advice to future military members...don't bother marrying unless you are going to do 20+ years.

AgentOrangeMRA · 2015-07-07T21:13:11+00:00

If the military wanted you to have a spouse, they'd have issued you one.

MAG-TAF · 2015-07-07T01:46:11+00:00

and this is how red pillers are made

PeteMullersKeyboard · 2015-07-07T04:41:53+00:00

On one hand, I'm disgusted and hope these disgusting people get every bit of what's coming to them...on the other hand...I'm not surprised.

Yes, he drinks a lot, because you're a huge cunt. Fuck him, take all his shit, because PTSD and giving his life to the shit war we're fighting isn't enough. Holy fuck. I need to go vomit.

2015-07-07T00:58:12+00:00

I love the dependapotomuses. They are my favorite ones.

NoMomItsDubstep · 2015-07-07T02:19:32+00:00

Believe you me, 90% of military spouses, wives and husbands, are garbage people we would be better off without.

mad3th1s4th1s · 2015-07-07T02:24:28+00:00

Abhorrent. Absolutely abhorrent.

themochabear · 2015-07-07T02:40:10+00:00

People like this are the reason why I am hesitant to get married. I know it's not a constant and not all people are like this, but it is that fear of the unknown that would harbor me from being truly happy with someone when there is am additional (legal) connection.

AliasSigma · 2015-07-07T02:43:01+00:00

Hungry hungry dependapotamus.

IoSonCalaf · 2015-07-07T02:47:37+00:00

It's called divorce rape. When women divorce their husbands they get to walk away with cash and prizes

justinerwin · 2015-07-07T02:55:04+00:00

Please do not feed the Dependapotamus

werdd · 2015-07-07T03:04:36+00:00

Only has himself to blame. Stupid men gonna keep getting married and or having kids.

a_posh_trophy · 2015-07-07T06:51:31+00:00

He's going to shoot her.

dpkingify · 2015-07-07T07:28:42+00:00

Oh my God.. Those people are disgusting...

2015-07-07T08:46:29+00:00

What a cunt.

tenbeersdeep · 2015-07-07T10:55:07+00:00

entirely not shocking.

Isair81 · 2015-07-07T13:55:59+00:00

What a piece of work...

Catabisis · 2015-07-07T14:03:15+00:00

Yeah, mine thought she was going to get everything. She got the house and nothing else. No alimony, no 401k, no pension. Nothing. God damn if she had a gun in court she would have killed me. I walked out and smiled at her.

VOTOK88 · 2015-07-07T14:40:53+00:00

Holy shit, woman like this realy make me sick.. how this is work in her mind.. she treat her husband like a garbage..

Retaliation · 2015-07-07T14:49:18+00:00

Hoping this is someone trolling. Otherwise, fuck me. What a waste of oxygen.

Snowfire870 · 2015-07-07T15:10:59+00:00

This seems so unlike /r/military this is something that we would call a dependopotamus and would normally be put down for it. Any way to link the post if not against the rules?

2015-07-07T15:30:24+00:00

And yet there are still people who wonder why prenups are a thing.

EvrythingISayIsRight · 2015-07-07T17:21:51+00:00

The part that really gets me is:

Take half that shitbags stuff. He sounds like a real cock sucker.

So, we got this woman who made a one sided comment about her husband and other people (likely men) blindly support her and take her side.

Even though I don't even know this guy or what happened, I'll believe what you say at face value, hes a shitbag, and he deserves it.

This is female privledge. If there ever is a him vs her situation, everyone is more inclined to take the girls side by default.

swissarmypants · 2015-07-07T01:08:24+00:00

I'ma stop you right there.

It's not a military SO. It's a dude, who's in, using troll flair.

OP CONFIRMED FOR ASVAB WAIVER

kingofspain131 · 2015-07-07T00:38:13+00:00

Can you share the source please?

Palpetinus · 2015-07-07T04:01:50+00:00

Wait, "take half that shitbag's stuff", " get fucked in court". Women actually are fully aware they can just divorce rape anyone? I thought it's usually how it just unfolds, not that women aim to be the biggest fucks on this planet!

skinnyguy699 · 2015-07-07T08:14:55+00:00

This is a troll and you gave them the attention they wanted.

2015-07-07T02:50:16+00:00

The problem with military divorces isn't the women, it's the system that gives them an extreme amount of support without a court order.

Because the military does this, when you go to court the court uses the support that the military orders you to give her as a source for the amount of money you should give her, instead of doing the work itself.

It's illegal, but the military doesn't care.

FanofWhiskey · 2015-07-07T04:26:26+00:00

Been there! At least I had a 3some on my way to the single life. I got screwed by her and the county at the same time!

kaluh_glarski · 2015-07-07T04:34:33+00:00

Umm wow.

apullin · 2015-07-07T18:32:23+00:00

Is this real or fake? There are replies that indicate people have gone through the post history and determine that this is a guy posting about a fake story ...

edit: interesting ... https://np.reddit.com/r/army/comments/358npp/hey_yall_what_are_some_of_the_weirdest_ncos_youve/cr22aur

ledunk · 2015-07-08T10:10:19+00:00

10yrs of marriage and they get half of your retirement. No questions asked. Federally enforced. I'm living it! 50% regardless of the circumstance.

lilyponss · 2015-07-08T18:54:47+00:00

I'm an army wife and these bitches are everywhere. The men in my husband's unit let their wives shit all over them. It's all about what the wives want all the time, and then they spend all their husband's money, it's completely ridiculous. I have an impossible time finding army wife friends because these women and I have opposite values. Like when my husband is home, I wanna be home with him. I want to make him dinner and get him ready for work, and go to sleep with him. I don't wanna go to the club, thanks.

PNW-Gal · 2015-07-11T01:48:29+00:00

How women can act like that I'll never understand. I could never pretend to be in love with someone for a paycheck, nor would I ever try and take my husband (if I ever do get married) for everything he has in a divorce.

H0ckeyK1ller · 2015-12-22T06:33:47+00:00

My dad had a friend in the Navy, his wife for ever (at the time longer than my life) were happy, then he got out of the Navy, she got a friend that shit talked him. She fucking left him and took the kids. Guy had no idea than on a Saturday morning my dad got a call with him venting. (After my parents got split up(mine had no foul play though :/ )) Sadist shit to happen to me that whole year.

2015-07-06T23:55:17+00:00

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2015-07-07T02:50:33+00:00

For every good military wife there are a dozen barracks rats and dependapotamuses

Correctrix · 2015-07-06T21:35:55+00:00

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Otter_Actual · 2015-07-07T03:57:27+00:00

My wife, has been the only thing that kept me going since I got back from Afghanistan. I said stupid things to her and I'm tired of having to say sorry.

Burkzerk · 2015-07-07T04:08:11+00:00

I went through a divorce when I was in the military (Navy). This is an absolute true story: My ex-wife and her family called the White House on me. They spoke to some lady at the White House and eventually my Command Master Chief received an e-mail saying if he could "help" me move her things out to her. I didn't have to do it but I didn't want to get on the commands bad side either.

JeffersonsHat · 2015-07-07T02:25:04+00:00

This post doesn't is a lot more about marital issues and drugs than the military.

deepsoulfunk · 2015-07-07T03:02:40+00:00

People are jerks in divorces.

adlerreed · 2015-07-06T20:52:06+00:00

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ICA_Agent47 · 2015-07-07T09:01:38+00:00

Any of you jumping on either side are just naive. You don't know the circumstances. The hivemind in subreddits like these really shows.

See? No replies, just downvotes.

Title	Just came across this on /r/military.
Author	Bircher
Upvotes	1900
Comments	216
Date	July 6, 2015 8:20 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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