First of all, when does it become a man’s fault that is dating life is so terrible? 2 million swipes only produced one date, are we still going to say women are the problem, are we gonna have this belief? Even if you believe women are a monolith, doesn’t that still show you he’s not what the female population wants?

# 2. Even other guys say he’s the problem.

It’s one thing to say women are super privileged and don’t know what it’s like to be a guy, it’s another thing when even other guys are saying you’re doing something wrong. I even seen conventionally unattractive men say he’s at fault. So when even other guys say he’s the problem and they get women despite being not the beauty standard, can we understand it can’t be looks or the typical hardships of being a guy?

# 3. He’s doesnt act desperate.

In his profile, he basically says “If you aint fishing, I dont want you”. Despite the fact, he has limited options, he’s still being picky. This also shows men limit their options.

# 4. Men can cause women to be filtered out and not realize it.

In the guy’s profile, he has a sweater that says “sit on my face”. That’s not funny to most women. Not only does it say he’s vulgar and perverted, he doesn’t understand how to be appropriate in a public. So he’d also be a liability to a woman’s status in her social circle. This goes hand and hand with the fact a lot of guys are OK making their personality extremely unappealing. 

# 5. Having a “numbers game” mindset is really dumb.

As the guy has shown, you can have a lot of opportunities and choices and still end up extremely unsuccessful. Perhaps you’re only strategy of just pursuing a very large quantity of women isn’t a good one. Too many guys want the strategy of asking out 100 women for 2 first dates to come out it instead of someone who just needs to be asking out 10 women to have 4 first dates. And of course, they’re not even thinking long-term in making sure the first dates are even successful enough to be going into second and third date and so on.