This article reads like some Chad rejected the writer after telling him she has gonorrhea from her blianta leadhbógach!

loneliness-inc · 2022-03-16T13:15:34+00:00

It has come to my attention lately that men are somehow still (in 2016) uncomfortable, turned off and even disgusted by a woman's sexual history.

This has always been the case and it always will be. This double standard that you whine about is a direct result of the fact, that men and women seek each other for entirely different reasons.

This is why we have double standards galore. You're bitching about the ones that you perceive to be advantageous to men, but I'm sure you're perfectly fine with the ones that are advantageous to women.

Why is virginity so important anyway?

What IS marriage anyway?

What is marriage anyway? - let's talk about consent.

Cheers!

sleepyweaselisawake · 2022-03-16T09:44:29+00:00

"Let me tell you something a friend once said to me that really stuck: A woman's life is not practice for being your wife."

And, men's lives aren't a grind so you can you can leech off his hard work you're 30 and suddenly ready to settle down and be a housewife.

biccat · 2022-03-16T10:05:34+00:00

I look forward to the next installments in this series:

Why His Criminal History Has Nothing To Do With Your Relationship

Why His Net Worth Has Nothing To Do With Your Relationship

Why His Height Has Nothing To Do With Your Relationship

Solinas86 · 2022-03-16T10:02:54+00:00

On other news: your car accidents history has nothing to do with your driving insurance cost

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-03-16T09:50:18+00:00

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I-am-the-lul · 2022-03-16T09:58:10+00:00

Don't you just love how the article is attempting to guilt you into not rejecting a "free spirit" for a relationship?

onlypinhead2000 · 2022-03-16T09:27:02+00:00

Sleeping around with reckless abandon? Hard pass......

Overlordofwhatever · 2022-03-16T10:38:11+00:00

I never get the logic. If you're free to sleep with whoever and however many men, we're free to judge you, especially if you're going to be our partners. How is that complicated? Like why does this need to be reiterated so many times. Her sleeping with 100 men is her choice. For him to judge she's unfit for relationship is his. And both choices matter.

DaddySkrags · 2022-03-16T09:42:04+00:00

Past behaviors are indicator for future actions.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-03-16T09:30:38+00:00

STDs are but a patriarchal myth, I see.

Don't mind that these same guys have slept with the entire cast of "90210" ... because that's different, right?

That's ludicrous. Nobody in their right mind wanted to fuck Andrea Zuckerman.

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-03-16T11:32:42+00:00

As others have said - this article is dripping with apex fallacy. Most men don’t have to worry about being called a slut for casually sleeping around. This is true. Why? Because most men don’t have that option available to them.

Divine-Nemesis · 2022-03-16T10:34:23+00:00

“Does not define her moral character”

Uh yes it does. These 304’s are ruining the image of women. No amount of shaming would ever make me look at my significant other with respect after talking about sucking off every dude at a party. If women bounce from man to man as she is talking, the word commitment means Jack shit when trust comes into play because that sex drive is strong and needs to be filled. Just gross……….. What a dumb article from a jaded whore.

Disastrous-Ad1334 · 2022-03-16T10:11:15+00:00

Well she does sound bitter probably because the White Knight she wanted to save her from spinsterhood, box wine and mistreating cats didn't wife her up because he found out she was a 304.

ReclusivePariah · 2022-03-16T10:40:15+00:00

As a grown man, you should be able to understand that the number of people a woman has slept with 1) does not directly affect her moral character, and 2) really doesn't concern you. So, to all of the men out there who refuse to date, marry, befriend or associate themselves with a woman because of her number, grow up.

The stupidity in the closing paragraph is TOO DAMN HIGH!!

1) does not directly affect her moral character

Having a multitude (even just one) increases someones (regardless of gender) likelihood of cheating and initiating divorce. The likelihood of you cheating is an indictment of your character or lack thereof. Which leads to:

2) really doesn't concern you

Due to the above - yes it does

grow up

We have, unlike you we stopped drawing on our faces

Joaquino7997 · 2022-03-16T10:36:44+00:00

She may not have to tell every excruciating detail, but to flat out decline to disclose any information is just plain wrong. If she's not willing to discuss her sexual past with me for fear of being ridiculed, then what else is she hiding?

Abortions? Evictions? Bankruptcies?

A relationship with no trust isn't worth a damn. Best to walk away from those type of women.

Overkillengine · 2022-03-16T10:22:51+00:00

Maybe if she didn't expect men to pay fresh Wagyu Prime Rib prices for manager's special ground chuck that has had a hundred+ dicks stuck in it, she'd not be in her current predicament of having to write "the Lady Doth protest too Much" tier blogs.

And of course the usual apex fallacy of "~~Men~~ Chad does it too!" in action.

There is a reason she's still single. She is trying to compete in the commitment market with non commitment tier goods, and on top of that, she's trying to get the VIP's to buy into her roach infested street vendor shack when they could afford far better.

Play stupid slut games, get stupid slut prizes.

Maybe if they had chosen better they'd not be looking down the barrel at a future of dying broke and alone in a puddle of their piss and shit in a nursing home because they have no one able or willing to care about them.

akihonj · 2022-03-16T10:34:41+00:00

Simple response

Yes it does, it absolutely does, you've taken miles of dick and I have no interest in your broken clam shell

InevitableOwl1 · 2022-03-16T10:57:11+00:00

This article is 6 years old?! Imagine how much more they will be doubling down now. I wonder what happened to the author over those 5 years

Smallp0x_ · 2022-03-16T12:03:34+00:00

Bullshit her "sexual history has nothing to do with my relationship." I'm gonna need to see the hoefax.

meerita · 2022-03-16T12:00:55+00:00

As a grown man, you should be able to understand that the number of people a woman has slept with 1) does not directly affect her moral character, and 2) really doesn't concern you. So, to all of the men out there who refuse to date, marry, befriend or associate themselves with a woman because of her number, grow up. Please, and thank you.

Yes, it does.
Yes, it does.

Another woman doesn't understand the basics: we care about your sexual history because that defines the outcome. Women are interested in men's future for selection and men on women's past.

Not for any stupid reason: the ability to pair bond is important, checking that your son is your son and not Tyrone's is important. Also, having a woman next to me who basically everyone knows how is she naked or having sex with is simply not attractive at all. I don't feel comfortable, as many men will do too.

Also, the Aphex fallacy is again on the table: women despise virgin males and love socially proofed men, me with sexual experience. A man who has options = a man whose genes are desired for reproductive options from other women, therefore that man seed is more valuable than a man who never was selected for sex.

upsidedownbackwards · 2022-03-16T13:04:14+00:00

If past sexual history didn't matter then we wouldn't be seeing the word "incel" used constantly. I see "incel" or "virgin" way more than slut/whore.

Make men spend their late teenage years upset that they're a virgin and it's hard to tell them that sexual history doesn't matter later in life. Men start being called virgins at a younger age than women start being called sluts/whores. They plant the sexual-history shit in our brain then complain when it grows.

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-03-16T10:01:34+00:00

Just because a man has never had a job, or a shower, and chose to spend his 20s playing video games does not give women the right to call him a “loser”. They should woman-up and marry him. His call of duty stats are none of your business.

Oh, hang on, is that not what women prefer? Does your opinion about your potential spouse matter? Or is it solely up to you what the deal breakers are in your life long commitments?

alexaxl · 2022-03-16T10:04:25+00:00

#CarFax CarFax.com

Let’s start this new “slang” for vehicle history. lol.

Pair bonding abilities destroyed.

saberwarthog · 2022-03-16T10:53:46+00:00

Ok, for the sake of the argument, let's say the past number doesn't count.

Then what would count would be the things that could came with that past behavior :

The very possible monkey branching, cheating & all around feeling that she wouldn't be exclusive and it's "just your turn"
The possibility of STDs (let's be honest, I really doubt she would have had protected sex every time)
The "Baggage" : crotch goblins, mental issues, unresolved issues with past lovers or even longing for them...
Now that "she's not the same anymore", "she knows her worth", "she want something serious", is the kinky funtime is over ?
Does the guy that has to be serious & accept her past could get as much fun as those toxic exs ?

I'm thinking that if hypothetically a woman would have had a lot of "experience", but hadn't cheated / monkey branched, isn't a celibate mom, doesn't had mental issues & would treat the "serious guy" as a real lover and not an utilities, most guys won't mind the past, but I've yet to see something like this happen.

I'm open minded, but I'm not keeping my hopes too high here.

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2022-03-16T12:41:38+00:00

Women have been told for years that this is just the way the world works and to “get used to it.” But it's time to shift the conversation directly to the many slut-shaming men out there, some of whom do it without even realizing.

It’s not “slut shaming”. It’s called having standards. I get to choose who I allow in my life. A woman who sleeps around so easily simply cannot be trusted to maintain a stable relationship. If I spent my life opening up credit cards, racking up debt and not paying it back, my credit would be ruined and nobody would give me a loan. Same reasoning applies here.

They wanted the freedom to sleep with whoever they wanted with no societal judgment, and they got it. You’ll never see any mainstream media source shaming them into being decent women. Religion is dying a slow death, and it was one of the last things keeping this bullshit at bay. But men still have their standards.

Eventually these women will get it. They’ll be all over Instagram crying about how they’re 50 years old and can’t find a man that will commit, and hopefully the younger generations of women will see it and change their ways. Not holding my breath, but one can hope at least.

otter6461a · 2022-03-16T14:04:34+00:00

The standard is “we praise people for doing what’s hard.”

For most men, what’s hard is sleeping with a lot of women. Thus we often admire “players.”

For women, what’s hard is to have the restraint and self-control to not sleep with dozens/hundreds/thousands of men. So we praise low n-count women for their self-restraint.

Not really a double standard at all.

Maximum-Complaint-68 · 2022-03-16T09:24:49+00:00

Gaelige—Béarla Translations:

blianta leadhbógach = "slutty years"

SnakeEyeskid · 2022-03-16T11:52:31+00:00

Lethal doses of salt in that article!

Mister_McDerp · 2022-03-16T14:14:12+00:00

The interesting part for me is that for the longest time I agreed with the whole thing: If women are slutshamed, men should be too! Or, even better, no one gets slutshamed.

I've since changed my mind on that, and the reasoning is simple: If a man has fucked half the city, it is either because he worked very hard for it or because he has something special about him. No average or even above average man gets all the sex he wants.

If a woman has fucked half the city, she simply had to put out, without any effort whatsoever. She doesn't even need to be special, she barely needs to be average. All she needs to be is in a certain agerange, and that is a pretty big range, probably 18-35.

And subconsciously we as a society always knew that. That is why slutshaming even became a thing. We all knew that a women is the gatekeeper of sex, even if we never articulated it. Thats why we established this unwritten rule. Man has a lot of sex = "chad", women has a lot of sex = slut.

I don't agree with this 100% since there are exceptions and caveats, of course, but as a general rule it does makes sense. Of course this makes me a massive misogynist, but what else is new.

DS_1900 · 2022-03-16T12:57:39+00:00

Wow this article was terrible.

Sometimes you make better progress in life by just shutting the fuck up...

roaringstuff · 2022-03-16T15:43:13+00:00

You can try justify being a slut all you want, but theres always consequences. Just ask lana rhodes crying about all the money she made whoring herself.

LokisDawn · 2022-03-16T13:18:55+00:00

But no one on this earth has the right to hold your decisions against you.

Pretty sure decisions are just about the only thing we can hold against people. We don't, generally, blame people for accidents. But if you make a decision, you can be judged.

I don't wanna Godwin this, but I gotta. Imagine if that was Eichmann, defending himself instead of with the categorical imperativ, with: "No one on this earth has the right to hold my decisions against me."

logan4179 · 2022-03-16T13:14:51+00:00

"Some guys seem to think they have the right to judge a woman's character based solely off of how many people she has slept with. Don't mind that these same guys have slept with the entire cast of "90210" ... because that's different, right?"

How about: "Some women seem to think they have the right to judge a man based solely off his height/money. Don't mind that these same women aren't particularly tall/wealthy...because that's different, right?"

All this dumbass has done is caught a preference that differs between the sexes and she assumes these contradictions only apply to men.

bgovern · 2022-03-16T14:32:12+00:00

But no one on this earth has the right to hold your decisions against you.

Actually, that is how basically everyone judges everyone else. Your past decisions are a good indicator of what your future decisions will be.

SlyPogona · 2022-03-16T14:01:58+00:00

Whenever I opened up about my sexual history has only brought problems, from the usual jealousy to the downright "you're disgusting" Women expect YOU to be a saint, while you're forbidden to judge them

kapriece · 2022-03-16T14:04:54+00:00

Tell me you hit the wall without telling me you hit the wall. Single women leading others down the same path. They want you to conquer the world,.make all this money, be loyal, and bring it all to them so they can sit on their ass. You get used up CC jockeys mad that because we don't pick them. To make matters worse they act like they have some sort of power in this area. "Grow up, Man up. Be a man"......I'm so tired of hearing this.

Last time I checked only toddlers put everything in their mouth and get mad when you stop them. My kids are grown.

John_Savage69 · 2022-03-16T14:19:27+00:00

But no one on this earth has the right to hold your decisions against you.

What fucking drug is she on? Your own voluntary decisions are what define you and your character. You are the sum total of the decisions you make. If I am going to consider a LTR with someone, I sure as shit want to know the types of decisions she has made. Not only are they indicative of moral character but also evidence of propensity for risk-taking behavior, trustworthiness, and impulse control.

noobie107 · 2022-03-16T14:54:04+00:00

Some guys seem to think they have the right to judge a woman's character based solely off of how many people she has slept with.

my body my choice. *click*

_wrong_ad_ · 2022-03-16T19:58:01+00:00

“No one on this earth has a right to hold your decisions against you”

That’s 100%, ass backwards wrong. Your decisions are what define you. That is ultimately the only thing upon which people can judge you.

reignoferror00 · 2022-03-16T15:25:13+00:00

Setting aside the numbers and assuming she has no STI's that can't be cured, it is the habit and mindset that won't change that is the issue. Think she'll continue having frequent and enthusiastic sex when it is just the "same you" year after year instead of a different and exciting Chad she just met? Aside from the sex (though that is a big one), she'll very likely also create drama for no good reason - just for her excitement. Always more concerned with chasing the next thrill instead of helping build and appreciating what she has at home.

MediocreSupermarket5 · 2022-03-16T16:27:30+00:00

It’s just a preference girlie. Tee hee.

Jihocech_Honza · 2022-03-16T16:11:09+00:00

I once read an article about hunting in Africa. There was this gentleman who travelled to Kenya every year for his vacation. He bought a permission to shoot an elephant. But he wanted only the one with tusks over 100 pound. If they didn ´t find such animal, he just enjoyed his time in Africa and returned the next year for another try.

Neldot · 2022-03-16T17:57:28+00:00

As a grown man, you should be able to understand that the number of people a woman has slept with 1) does not directly affect her moral character, and

Wrong. It affects her moral character because it's a strong mark pointing out her poor choices of male partners and/or her unwillingness to commit in longterm relationships.

2) really doesn't concern you.

Wrong. It does concern me because of the above. It also concerns me because of the scientifically proven damage to the capacity of pair bonding that a woman suffers when she has too many relationships instead of focusing on a few, but important, ones.

So, to all of the men out there who refuse to date, marry, befriend or associate themselves with a woman because of her number, grow up. Please, and thank you.

I did. I grew up, and this is exactly why I can afford to be very demanding about what I want in a woman and discard them because of their high partners numbers.

programwithhf · 2022-03-16T21:18:34+00:00

Sexual history does matter because the more people a woman sleeps with. The more likely she will cheat on you.

Balefirez · 2022-03-16T23:29:58+00:00

Ah, another article telling men that they just have to accept something that a woman chooses to do. You don’t HAVE to sleep with all those guys. That was something you CHOSE to do. Actions have consequences. The fact that you don’t like that doesn’t make it go away. Also, gotta love the hypocrisy of judging men then turning around and telling them they can’t judge you. Stay classy.

Cristoff13 · 2022-03-17T03:05:19+00:00

Problems often seem to arise when a guy finds his sweet but sexually inhibited partner was promiscuous and uninhibited in her past - and she's done her best to hide this from him. Then it might seem justified holding her past against her.

Why is he getting the low libido version of her instead of the more exciting past version? But of course she rationalises this away. And other women will back her up, saying how dare he expects anything from her now based purely on her past.

Gaiinahat · 2022-03-17T03:29:24+00:00

There's a lot to unpack here, so let's get started...

Part 1

"It has come to my attention lately that men are somehow still (in 2016) uncomfortable, turned off and even disgusted by a woman's sexual history. I'm sure you know the kind of guy I am talking about. The one who becomes immediately uninterested in a woman simply because her “number” is too high."

It's not that men are not interested. It's that men are not interested in turning hoes into housewives. Sure, men will let her have a bit of fun, because at the end of the night they're just another notch in her belt. No feelings, no ability to pair-bond, just another ride on the CC. These are the type of women men aren't interested in marrying, because they can't connect with men on an emotional level.

"Some guys seem to think they have the right to judge a woman's character based solely off of how many people she has slept with. Don't mind that these same guys have slept with the entire cast of "90210" ... because that's different, right?"

Absolutely men have the right to judge a woman's character based on how many rides on the CC she's taken. It means the difference between her being suitable for a long-term relationship, or suitable only for a smash-and-dash for the reasons stated above. Also, men who have slept with many women are more desirable to women. Women are fiercely competitive with each other when it comes to out-doing each other in order to be the alpha's mate. Men know this. They're not stupid.

"We've all heard it: “Oh, dude. If she's slept with that many people, she must have daddy issues,” or the classic, “You really shouldn't trust a girl who's slept with that many guys. She'll for sure cheat on you.”"

Correct on both counts. Just because you choose to dismiss these words of warning among men, doesn't mean it isn't the truth. I noticed you didn't say any of that wasn't true, because you know from experience what gets said when men find out that you're damaged goods beyond repair.

"This kind of behavior by men conditions women into thinking their past sexual experiences are somehow wrong, and this can really take a toll on a woman's self-worth and self-esteem. So much so that a large number of women feel the need to lie about their past to a potential lover or partner."

If a woman doesn't want to feel ashamed for being a slut, perhaps she could save herself the blows to her self-esteem by not being a slut. Also, if a woman has such a high body count she feels ashamed about it, and willingly lies about it, that especially makes her unfit to be a in a long-term relationship. Any relationship, especially a marriage, needs to be built on a foundation of honesty and trust, not lies and deceit.

"Women have been told for years that this is just the way the world works and to “get used to it.” But it's time to shift the conversation directly to the many slut-shaming men out there, some of whom do it without even realizing."

As was true for thousands of years, it is still true today. Men are biologically wired to despise the impurity of a slut. Just like women are biologically despised by men who they deem are incapable of protecting and providing for them and their children. The gate swings both ways. Men can accept this truth. Women who refuse to accept reality often find themselves at the end of their lives broken and alone.

"Let me tell you something a friend once said to me that really stuck: A woman's life is not practice for being your wife. Just think about that one for a second. A woman does not (and rightfully should not) have to stop and think, “Hmmm, will my future partner approve of this, or will he think I'm a slut?” before every single sexual encounter. If men don't live in fear of being called a slut for sleeping around, then why should we? If we want to let our freak flag fly, who's to stop us? News flash: It's not you."

Men don't care if women want to live the life of a slut or not. Nobody has claimed women aren't free to do what they want and sleep around with as many men as they want. If women want to fly the freak flags, nobody is stopping them. Women are grown adults and can make their own decisions. However, bad decisions lead to consequences. If woman chooses to be a slut, she chooses to forsake the life of being a wife. Slut and wife are on completely opposite sides of the spectrum. There is no in between. Women cannot have their cake and eat it too.

"Women are not going to limit themselves simply because one day some insecure little boy might be uncomfortable about the realities of sex. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way. What did you expect? For her to sit around knitting, waiting for you to come along to explore herself and her sexuality? All the while, you're out there "scoring" left and right? F\ck no."*

Once again, women are free to do whatever they want, and no amount of man-shaming you throw at them is going to make the truth go away. Your jealousy and envy of the opposite sex doesn't change the reality of how the biology of men and women are different. But hey, if you want to go out there and act like a man, don't expect a man to want you. Men don't want women that act like men. Men want women who act like women, you know, like those who sit around knitting and learning other useful wifely skills like that.

houseoftolstoy · 2022-03-17T04:15:44+00:00

Trying to control a woman's sexuality is another form of policing her freedom. It is up to each woman to decide who she does or does not want to sleep with, and when a man tries to judge her, it only speaks to that man's character (FYI, you look like a dick).

If a man is going to commit to a woman (especially with marriage), you are damn right he will be "controlling her sexuality" as well as "policing her freedom!" Yes, other men are not going to have a say in this, but from what I am seeing with the rest of the article, she is mad about men refusing to commit to a slut. A big part of commitment is indeed sacrificing any and all freedom to sleep around with anyone else. Otherwise, the commitment is meaningless.

Therefore, a woman is going to have to accept the terms of her sexuality being limited to one man if she is going to have any expectation that he commit to her. And if he chooses to have this policy apply retroactively, it is his right to do so. Too bad if you slept around with other men and do not like that he refuses to commit to you because of that. He has no obligation to start a commitment with a woman for whatever reason he chooses, including the number of men she slept with before.

FatherUnbannable · 2022-03-17T06:59:50+00:00

I don't get the "it's fine when men do it right?!" argument.

It's only fone if she thinks it's fine, as ultimately it's her choice who she accepts as a partner. So if she wants to filter men on their number that's a perfectly legitimate criteria. Him being a slut certainly says more about their future relationship than his height or how many diplomas he has.

Everyone can set criterias however they want, it's the fairest part of the dating market.

MegaHashes · 2022-03-17T07:39:04+00:00

Odds are she had a life (and sex life) before you, and if you hold onto this slut-shaming frame of mind, she'll sure as hell have one after you.

It’s kinda funny/ironic that she first acknowledges men immediately lose relationship interest in a woman that treats her body like an Uber, but then later writes as if men are the one experiencing the loss when she moves on from our collective — disinterest? Like, okay, hoes gonna hoe. I’m not mad that you won’t (or continue to) have sex with me and then will move onto other men once I understand that’s who you really are.

What we get mad about is this born again virgin bullshit where you act like every new relationship/partner doesn’t have a cumulative effect on you. Only, once we start digging into your mysterious past it’s like fucking India Jones and the Temple of Doom where we find a village of missing men have been inside your vagina.

To continue with the car analogy, I’d rather have a well maintained, one owner ride with some miles on it, than a ride that claims to have low miles, but has also had half the Raven’s Offense take it for a test drive. No thanks. Sorry, not sorry. Go ahead and move on, it’s probably the other half of the teams turn now.

This article is just more of peddling the idea that women should have consequence free choices in life. I’m worth more than what you are offering. I value my body more than being just another notch on your dildo. Pussy is not in short supply in the world. Women anyone else but America don’t have these ridiculous attitudes.

Extracrispyrooster · 2022-03-16T15:02:53+00:00

Correct because there won't be one.

PapaDragonHH · 2022-03-17T01:29:26+00:00

Lol nobody is stopping her from whoring around.

But the same way she can do whatever she wants, men can do so too, and they can decide to reject women who have slept with too many guys. Its pretty simple.

Ok_Management4634 · 2022-03-17T03:10:45+00:00

yep, a CC rider that now wants to end her "wild phase", probably well over 30, and finding no takers.. Must be men's fault, it can't possibly be a consequence of her own decision.

And again, how come men can't have their own grocery list of things they want?

If women can have a list of 30 requirements, why can't men just say "I don't want a woman with the 1000 cock stare"?

omegajelly200 · 2022-03-17T17:09:06+00:00

The same ol same ol "B-b-b-b-but guys do it too!"

Actually no. That's apex fallacy thinking at its finest. They only see the Mega Uber Chads who spin plates and have a rotation of booty calls on speed dials, but assume that all guys are like that.

Nope, 90% of guys aren't like that at all.

user84893093748959 · 2022-03-17T10:26:01+00:00

The entire logic of the article's theme is that men and women are the same.

TRUTH: Men and women are not the same; men and women are different.

The article is so telling in many aspects. I believe the article was written more for the ears of women to embolden them to sleep around more, lie about their sexual past, and attempt to shame others for "slut shaming".

Men: you are not "slut shaming". You are simply making reasonable and rational judgements and decisions about your life. Quietly take note, choose your path, and move on.

Aldabruzzo · 2022-03-17T17:00:18+00:00

Once again:

If you, woman, are demanding commitment from me, then anything and everything about you is my business.

If you want my commitment, then "my business" is whatever the fuck I decide it is.

If you are demanding commitment from me, then I get to know whatever the fuck I want to know about you, and I have the right to find it out by any means necessary.

If you want a lifetime legal claim on my money, time, attention, and resources, then your past - and anything else I want to know about you - is very much my business.

You don't get to decide what affects me. I get to decide what affects me.

Just think about that one for a second. A woman does not (and rightfully should not) have to stop and think, “Hmmm, will my future partner approve of this, or will he think I'm a slut?” before every single sexual encounter. If men don't live in fear of being called a slut for sleeping around, then why should we? If we want to let our freak flag fly, who's to stop us? News flash: It's not you.

I get to apply whatever criteria I want to you. I get to draw whatever conclusions I want to about you.

Men can sleep around with fewer consequences because WE ARE DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN. Men and women are different. Women can't sleep around like men can because THEY ARE NOT MEN.

I also know just how much damage that four letter word can do … slut.

Sleep around all you want. And then live with the consequences.

But no one on this earth has the right to hold your decisions against you.

If you're demanding my commitment, money, time, attention, and resources, I can "hold against you" whatever the fuck I want. If you don't want me "holding anything against you", then don't demand my commitment, time, money, attention, and resources.

And men, you need to step back and realize just how much harm can come from this kind of slut-shaming.

Fuck right off. I, not you, will decide what I need to do. It's the sleeping around, not the "slut shaming", that is causing these women harm.

V_M · 2022-03-17T16:47:21+00:00

The most interesting part of the article is where its a great steaming pile of word salad but nowhere does it ever incorrectly claim the guy is wrong. Just endlessly going on about how he's evil and whatever women do is the definition of correct and there's no right and wrong other than women are right.

You'd be really mad if you hired this character as a lawyer and the closing argument was "true, the other side is not wrong, but you suck, so there, I called you a poopy-pants which means I'm right because I said so!"

Its two pages that boil down to, yeah the guys are correct but they're bad people for noticing.

oxyoxyboi · 2022-03-18T05:02:54+00:00

Of course we don’t want to pork rotten meat

p3ngwin · 2022-03-16T14:38:23+00:00

why am i getting denied this page on Chrome and FF because "it's not secure" ? I can't even use the "let me in anyway" option anymore as it's not there o.O

This site can’t provide a secure connectionarchive.ph uses an unsupported protocol.

ERR_SSL_VERSION_OR_CIPHER_MISMATCH

Seagram7 · 2022-03-19T00:54:21+00:00

It's fucking glorious in a sick and twisted way. These roasties, most of them, were absolutely beautiful as teenagers and 20-somethings. I can tell from her face that 10 years ago she must of been hot and experienced tons of positive attention.

Always convinced someone better is out there along with hard parting with booze and drugs. Now she is older and her looks wane and they all begin to realize the errors of their ways.

When women are young, under 25 or so, they get attention from high value males who are attractive and give them tingles. However, these "alpha males" know that they have options and are not interested in committing. Regardless, these women then spend their twenties spreading their legs for these guys without getting commitment in return until they end up in their late 20s still unmarried because no man who is husband material is willing to marry a worn out 28 year old woman with all the baggage that comes with riding the cock carousel for years when he can instead marry a 22 year old with an n-count close to zero.

You may think that these women are "homely" but that's only because the cock carousel isn't open to them anymore.

I've witnessed this with my own eyes--women who are extremely attractive in their early twenties and are used to getting hit on by guys who are 9's and 10's. They just think that being desired by attractive guys is how their life is because it's all they have ever known. Then, as they approach their thirties, it often takes a while before these women realize that those top-tier men are no longer an option and they instead need to settle for a guy who is a 5 or 6. The ones who do realize it early enough will often delete all their social media and try to erase any evidence of them being a slut so that they can trick some poor naive guy into wifing them up before it's too late

88Double · 2022-03-19T20:44:59+00:00

If you want to enjoy the “hoe phase” please go ahead, enjoy. But that doesn’t mean that the guy you finally want to stay with long term has to accept it or want to “wife” you. Nobody wants a wife/girl who has been with loads of men

Admirable_Bee_8714 · 2022-04-01T11:07:20+00:00

What this chick fails to understand is that there is a difference between women you fuck and women you wife up. Those are two different things. The free spirit woman is one who is good for a short time - fuck and release. Beyond that she is a bad bet to be a decent partner, wife, mother etc.

Fine_Measurement7968 · 2022-04-27T08:09:40+00:00

Do you guys feel as if they truly desire to brag about their numbers? As if they wanna act like guys. We have to earn it, for them literally falls off the sky! Is not the same!

_Genghis_John_ · 2022-03-17T02:11:35+00:00

What's with all the Gaelic in this subreddit? Are there just a lot of Irish people here?

watgm234 · 2022-03-16T22:45:44+00:00

You really think someone who likes sleeping around with different people won’t get bored in a monogamous relationship? Cope with your life choices lol

amongthemaniacs · 2022-03-18T11:46:30+00:00

Just think about that one for a second. A woman does not (and rightfully should not) have to stop and think, “Hmmm, will my future partner approve of this, or will he think I'm a slut?” before every single sexual encounter.

She's basically saying "Why do men have to judge me for my promiscuity? Why can't they just like me for who I am?" But you could easily rephrase that question for any undesirable trait you might have. "Why do men/women judge me for my weight/looks/personality/not having a job/not having money, etc.?" The answer is because people have standards.

lurkerhasarisen · 2022-03-16T14:35:54+00:00

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This article reads like some Chad rejected the writer after telling him she has gonorrhea from her blianta leadhbógach!

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Title	This article reads like some Chad rejected the writer after telling him she has gonorrhea from her blianta leadhbógach!
Author	Maximum-Complaint-68
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Comments	222
Date	March 16, 2022 9:23 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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