Just some thoughts about an interaction this weekend. My friend and I met a girl who was a 10. Give me any ten random guys and they all rate her a 10. Great schooling, great job, etc. The entire package. Found out later that she has eating/body issues. Let me make clear this girl was in the top 10 hottest girls I've ever seen in person. In other words she would be the type of girl that many here would seek to neg.

Everyone came here on a different path- some were shy in high school, some were just broken up with, others just wanting to get better with women. The thing is this stuff really works when you do it right and practice. It's easy to forget you are talking to another human with their own insecurities and hangups who will go home and replay things you said in her mind. So go easy on the negs. Neg her on spilling a drink. Neg her on forgetting your name. But don't neg girls on physical characteristics. You could destroy them and not even realize it.

Be nice. Give value. Be a fountain and not a drain and be fun. You will attract all the women you need if you do this. And this especially goes out to the newer people who are calibrating-- don't be mean with your negs. I know it might be hard in the beginning to get that feel. Just always remember you're dealing with another fragile human being, no matter how hot, and you want to put good out in to the world through your interaction, not negativity.

edit: Yes- I know what a neg is. I know this shit works and works very well. This is more aimed at the new people who might not be calibrated in the art of negs. And if remembering the fact that you are dealing with an actual fucking human being makes you think I'm an AFC, well so be it. I know what I am.