Cold approached 500 girls statistics [recovered]

Change2222 · 2022-05-01T01:53:25+00:00

These results aren’t abnormal. Guys shitting on you are either skating on their height and/or looks and are oblivious to it, or they’re hunting in the pacific ocean in National Geographic harpooning whales and pedaling them off as 10s. You should record your audio in set.

mcgradydunk163 · 2022-04-30T23:42:16+00:00

Bro huge respect for your hustle and bring the light to how important of the volume. Believe you reach the point of not taking each approach seriously and you can just take action right away.

I still at the point of jut passing AA ( average approach 3-4 girls / day), what is your advice of get pass the initial “ wanting it to work in a prefect way” to the massive action phrase ?

Love your post and nothing speak louder than solid action

Rastaman143 · 2022-05-01T00:23:48+00:00

This isn’t bad at all, people keep thinking that your stats will stay the same forever. No you’ll get better and better and your ratio will get better, people don’t seem to understand to get your game real tight you have to put in lots of approaches.

kiramdahanett · 2022-04-30T21:19:14+00:00

i'm sure there'll be guys here telling you had a bad approach to lay ratio or your numbers are very bad but i'm telling you , these people haven't even been seen doing one lifetime approach , they don't even hit the streets . just downgrading other men's results..

anyway , how long did it take you to complete 500 ? & was it all daygame ?

i'm shooting for 30-50 daily approaches normally around 3-6 pm , hopefully i can complete 50 in 2> hours . if i can make 500 in 10 days i'll be more than happy.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-04-30T21:26:15+00:00

40 second interactions are probably why your flake rate is so high.

I've tried that method and gotten similar results. Go for slightly longer interactions in the 2-10 minute range and go for instadates if you can.

dheidjdedidbe · 2022-04-30T22:05:02+00:00

Dang those are some solid results. I tried a 250 approach run and got 0 results

lovesports2100 · 2022-04-30T23:14:27+00:00

So you approached 500 women and only 6 dates?

Beginning-Ad-8041 · 2022-04-30T23:23:56+00:00

Op good job on numbers but in my experience and we have similar SMV I can usually get a lay on about 1 in 40 approaches, are you doing all of these behaviors I am going to list:

speaking from your diaphragm, and loudly or quietly (As in NOT from your throat)

holding eye contact slightly longer than her, looking away after she does, while having good intent, ie. You feel the electric urge of being turned on wanting to fuck her (not just logically liking her)

Flirting

Having standards or dealbreakers (ie. If she has a drug addiction you are out) and being willing to walk away from her

trying to lead her/your place or to a place and get her to a place where sex could reasonably happen (This is the most important one, 2nd place goes to intentful eye contact)

I went to a bootcamp and I’m eh at game but these things they showed me skyrocketed my numbers, also I advise shooting for 2-10 min convos in daygame, she won’t know who you are with only 40 seconds of talk

NattyGainsReaper · 2022-04-30T22:13:06+00:00

One thing I noticed is that in your places used, you don’t mention parties, bars or nightclubs

You mentioned more day to day, usual errands kind of places, and that’s ok, but I’ve approached WAY LESS girls than 500 (gotta respect u for that, takes balls), but still gotten more action, doing my approaches in bars and nightclubs, those are social settings and people are there to meet people and be social

Absolutely nothing wrong with daygame, I want to implement it in my routine, but I don’t think you’re making the most of game and approaching if you’re not using these places

2758egli · 2022-05-01T01:36:51+00:00

So in your experience, was the 500 approaches worth it? I’ve always had the idea that cold approach trumps all but I’ve never tried it properly yet

AceCoE · 2022-05-01T01:57:57+00:00

Cool stuff. Your ratios are definitely rough, but they would be better simply by going to those social environments. Cold approaches in everyday places is just plain hard, people are in a rush all the time.

Do you think you kind of half-assed alot of those approaches just to reach a high quantity?

cowarrior1 · 2022-05-01T02:21:22+00:00

This post is a realistic approach result for this sub.

AgileDoughnut555 · 2022-05-01T03:05:42+00:00

Great hustle. Don’t settle for that batting average though. You can do a ton better with some tweaks. You can easily get up to a 10% date rate.

Ditch the Nike shoes. I love Nike’s, but never wear them for pick up. That was impressive to your HS buddies, but won’t be to most chicks. Get a nice pair of real shoes. Somewhere between casual sneakers and business. Women pay attention to details like that. Also wearing a casual dress shirt makes a big difference too. You want to have a unique style, and not someone that worships a brand. There is a lot of guidance out there on how to dress better. Take some time to study that too. I’m guessing that this change alone will double or triple your average. You’ll feel a lot more confident too, which will improve your batting average more so.

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-05-01T03:46:31+00:00

idk seems kinda sus. Are you selling something? because you dissed rsd and pickup coaches. I don’t think they’re terrible they definitely would help some guys

but nice job having the proactive ness and energy to do that much work

rmbarnes · 2022-05-01T12:01:26+00:00

Those stats sound about right for a beginner who isn't only approaching girls less physically attractive than himself (If you have good looks + physique + are well over 6ft and approaching 7s that's easy mode).

I know a guy who went on to become an internationally renowned daygame coach (he's legit, not full of BS). I think these stats are similar to his in his first year. After a few years of obsessively hard work on his game he got approach:lay ratio down to about 25:1, so huge improvement is possible.

It's also worth noting the experienced guys gain a "6th sense" in terms of knowing which girls will be most amenable to an approach just by looking at them. This massively increases their ratio.

Main-Vanilla8378 · 2022-05-04T03:18:40+00:00

Great work

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-04-30T21:09:13+00:00

Ok this is just further proof that cold approaching is ineffective af.

I also took away that initial interest doesn’t mean ish which is true.

Some women are just friendly and nice ppl that won’t outright reject you.

PUA “tactics” also are ineffective and don’t rly make sense if you think about it.

You either do it for her or you don’t. No amount of “game” will make you SEXUALLY attractive to her.

“Game” is rly just not fucking up what you have (her attraction to you)

Thx for the input, my OLD stats are like 5 hookups for every 30 matches. Much better results and something I’ll always recommend over cold approach.

lordbelua · 2022-04-30T22:25:52+00:00

Your statistics prove that attracting women needs looks, status and money. Which no amount of game can ever replace, where game is the very foundation of this subreddit. Makes me wonder if having game is really worth it.

willgo-waggins · 2022-04-30T22:13:12+00:00

So first WAY to fucking sterile and scientific here. Y’all fail because you are making this into some kind of fucking computer program and forgetting that you are dealing with humans.

And guys definition of what a nine or ten is here are totally whacked out.

Instagram “models” (read hookers)?

Celebrities?

Porn stars?

Lmfao!!! Try great looking, fit and nicely built (depending on your preference - I like athletic petite no matter the height) but then the factors that push it up to that range are - personality, self reliance (ie - does she have a good job/career and her own means not counting in me to support), and what kind of interest she has in me.

I’ve met a lot of 9 and 10 looks girls in my life. And when they fail in those things they immediately don’t loo so good and drop to low value in my opinion. But then I’m a 6’3” fit white fit with money. So I don’t get all googly eyed about worthless “celebrity” types. They aren’t even real to me.

GripIsEverything · 2022-05-01T05:01:48+00:00

Thanks for sharing these convos.

NoDatabase1552 · 2022-05-01T05:55:41+00:00

You said you had consumed PUA material and then you threw it all away. You didn't erase it from your mind. That stuff has affected your behavior. So you can't completely deny their helpfulness.

Cold approach is like a mock interview for a job. You can't measure its success rate by how many jobs you don't get. It's practice. The purpose is to gain a lot of social experience with a lot of different women, and deal with the rejection. You already know how to talk to women, so yeah.. it was a waste of time for you. Cold approach is a lot more valuable for someone that by chance interacts with 1 woman a month.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-30T22:33:04+00:00

Lol, this is weird and pathetic man. Think about it. Do you think normal men who get laid a lot have to resort to approaching 500 women? Do they have to resort to wearing top hats and learning magic card tricks?

There is a way to increase your success rate and I can tell you reason your results are so pathetic is 1. You are not as confident as you think you are 2. You aren't going for women who want to go home with a guy.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-30T21:42:28+00:00

I’m a believer in daygame, but in my experience online dating is by far the most efficient, if you have the right attitude (don’t take it too seriously ) and know a few ways to make your profile stand out.

ShiftReasonable4066 · 2022-05-01T00:13:51+00:00

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Lifedeather · 2022-05-01T01:50:07+00:00

Just don’t cold approach in public lol, it’s useless, weird and downright creepy sometimes

IAMNUMBERBLACK · 2022-05-01T00:21:34+00:00

You’re getting this at 140lbs? Wait till u bulk up like 30lbs more. Good shit bruv

KnightSwan · 2022-05-01T04:26:16+00:00

Good job man, I’ve heard that even the best pickup artists only sleep with up to 1/30 girls they approach, and that’s after a decade of experience

Apprehensive-Put5487 · 2022-05-01T05:31:23+00:00

Mate, these are great numbers - keep it up 😁!

KalEl2k · 2022-05-01T07:26:06+00:00

Love the breakdown. Thanks for the insight.

nbh1995 · 2022-05-01T08:03:01+00:00

can you explain how many girls you slept with from that approach?

2 out of 500 correct? not hating just asking

tadass16 · 2022-05-01T08:50:31+00:00

Hi. Good job with the experiment. For the record, I don't think that all that material you said that you threw to the garbage is bad, they are guides, sort of. But you need to find your own ways of approaching and opening. It takes trial and error till you find your own technique.

Murrman1978 · 2022-05-01T08:56:35+00:00

"RSD, Mystery, Neil Strauss, London day game model, seduction books, inner-game, push-pull, flirty, banter, text game "creating interest"

Did you learn anything useful from them? I always enjoyed Tom Terero, Neil Strauss and Mystery. It just seemed like they are all similar.

What is your opinion on the Cube, Strawberry Fields and 5 questions to use ?

Colencence · 2022-05-01T11:25:37+00:00

In reality daygame is hardwork.

1000miles_if_i_could · 2022-05-01T12:31:29+00:00

I’m curious how much time that took you for all these texts? It seems like you put in a lot of effort in it. Any tips for responding texts? I sometimes would forget about what they talked about when I’m talking to a few people at the same time.

BigTBoneDog · 2022-05-01T13:13:00+00:00

Thnk you for the good and honest report!

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-05-01T14:13:51+00:00

You say that you approached one millions chicks but you hardly tell what your successful tactics were, if any. Nonsense thread.

NiceWetTissue · 2022-05-01T14:31:43+00:00

Those stats are so demotivating to me. I dont live in a big city. Theres almost no way i can find 500 different girls to approach. Guess i should just kill myself or move to bigger country

smoothfucker420 · 2022-05-01T14:39:53+00:00

Good job man. You're inspiring

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-05-01T14:48:24+00:00

Are you aware that you didn’t give one single advice with a sense, beside telling the poor guys “just hit on a million women”?

boxletowe · 2022-05-01T15:36:07+00:00

Respect for the hustle my dude, i’ve Approached so many girls ive lost count, and still had similar results as yours, in the end i realised its just numbers game, go approach get the social momentum going have fun, enjoy it and thats the important part even if you don’t get laid its one of the most fun things you can do nowadays imo

ShiftReasonable4066 · 2022-05-01T15:59:43+00:00

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bigtittylover001 · 2022-05-01T16:20:37+00:00

Respect your grind mate. Wish I had friends like you.

MrManwithNoName2021 · 2022-05-01T17:31:40+00:00

75 numbers for 500 approaches is really good stuff. Depending on location, season (summertime lay rates increases), and improving game youll see your lay rate increase.

TipWellington · 2022-05-01T18:02:52+00:00

This is so cringey and is a significant reason most women recoil when real men approach them. I went thru a phase of sleeping with as many women as possible and I’ll be the first to admit that I was trying to establish my worth to the opposite sex and where I stand (as far as “average” with my sexual ability and skills. BECAUSE there has to be some core/central reason why a guy (or anyone) would do such things. Just “loving women and also love being around them” is something that comes with endless annoyance and responsibility and is basically like having a second and third job. I can’t fathom the type of individual that enjoys going on first dates often or trying to keep even a handful of women satisfied (not just sexually, but emotionally) over the course of several months. Ive “juggled” 7-8 at a time, for a period of 3-4 years and it is a nightmare (note: hardly any of my experiences ended badly, so it’s not like I’m talking about rejection or feeling let down or anything). Every woman is slightly different, but they’re all roughly the same (in broad terms) and anyone that prefers 100 similar experiences of a shallow nature (if you’re managing 100 over a short period of time, that means you’re limited and aren’t able to establish deep connections with many or any of them) over having a few that you bond deeply with, is immature. Or the guy is trying to fill some hole that is missing in his soul. If you want to be turned off by women, go ahead and try to keep 5 or more happy for a year straight, all while maintaining your normal lifestyle, and you will wonder “why the fuck was I thinking this would be worth it?!?!?” Anyone whose had a number of good women fall for them will realize the shit is entirely overrated and 98% of the time is not even worth getting dressed for. Time and effort are 1000x better spent on tangible projects like building a business or creating art, or anything that doesn’t have an expiration date and can be used to build your bank account and resume (since 99% of sexual relationships end within a couple years and the “good times” are only a fraction of that time). The only thing that rivals “pick up ‘artists’” for douchiness would be like “professional” poker players lol The arrogance of most of them who don’t contribute anything to society or the world, yet they carry themselves like they’re even as worthy as a garbage man is sadly delusional. Please tell me one aspect or scenario of how I’m wrong and I’ll reply and explain to each why I’m still right (if you have any reasonable goals or aspirations for yourself or mankind in general). If you are just a glutton or hedonist, I guess that’s OK, but never worthy of bragging or acting like you’re anywhere near as valuable as my prior example.. a garbage man.

BigBadPiggy999 · 2022-05-01T20:00:57+00:00

Great stuff man . Thanks for giving us brothers hope .

_Broatmeal_ · 2022-05-01T20:08:20+00:00

These girls would be proud to know that they’re part of your research project 🤡

Seppmeister85 · 2022-05-01T21:04:03+00:00

What you are not mentioning here is the importance of demographics. I approached 1000s of women in my hometown in Germany and had very few results. In Mexico I got 12 Latinas in 5 weeks.

Keezymac34 · 2022-05-02T04:07:34+00:00

How was approaching in the gym.

iplaysmitegame · 2022-05-03T18:09:41+00:00

Bro your number to date ratio is low bc your texting is ass.

Title	Cold approached 500 girls statistics [recovered]
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