“What the fuck do you mean how do I learn ‘The Game’? First off, stop calling it that because that’s the kinda shit that’s the reason you’re still a virgin.
Secondly, realise that all this cringe ass pick-up stuff is just teaching you how to pretend to be an attractive person but eventually if you’re not at all attractive you’re gonna get called out on your bluff. Maybe you drop your facade here and there and let your insecurity show. Or maybe you manage to convince a girl you’re genuinely confidence but do you really want a relationship based off you lying about your identity?
So to answer your question, you don’t. Stop fucking searching around on websites and stop reading books written by Mr. I’ve Smashed 800 Chicks at a Gala Dinner. You ironically learn ‘The Game’ by not trying to learn it. What you’re referring to as ‘The Game’ is a communication of self-worth, confidence and status as an attractive male and how do you attain this level of communication that gets you laid? Precisely, you fulfil the requirements of being hot shit first.
You keep complaining to me about not being attractive enough or that you’re too short well yeah sure maybe some girls find you that way but have you really done the best you can to make yourself as attractive as possible? And even if you have and a girl doesn’t find you so, then move on — why’d you wanna be with someone who isn’t the least bit interested in you?
Look buddy, I’m just tired of you doing the same thing over and over again. Go hit the gym, take care of yourself man, become interesting as possible and live a great fucking life and don’t do it for a girl or someone else, do it for you.
Get your head out of your ass man, stop emulating a high status attractive male and focus on becoming one. Your stupid ‘Game’ will come naturally.”
Edit: Hey everyone, am OP’s Friend here. Been seeing some comments here pointing out that this is a load of crock shit and that MUH GAME GETS ME PU$$Y
Well that’s fine and I don’t doubt that your pick up skills get you pussy. The point I was trying to make to my friend is that you’re still focusing on girls and pussy way too much. Sure you’re scoring but at the end of the day all you’ve really done is manipulated women into having sex with you for a day and then you go back to your life —however interesting and fulfilling or not I won’t assume.
The entire point I was trying to make was that yes getting laid is good but after awhile it gets boring. It’s a false god, pleasure because all it does is makes you feel good without having really done anything good for you.
Edit 2: Yes, pick-up works as a short-term solution but the reason you need pick up lines and skills is because who you are as a person isn’t enough, so you have to fake being someone you’re not and sometimes it works. The lines you’re saying didn’t come from you, you’ve been taught what to do and that’s fine but if you’re still insecure and needy, your intentions will show and high quality chicks can see right through that and tell you to fuck off.
If you want meaningful and fulfilling relationships, you invest in yourself and become the best version of who you are. Yes, that includes trying your best to become attractive. Once you’ve reached somewhere you’re happy to be, approach women you’re interested in and be honest with them about your intentions.
No more shitty pick up lines or false identities, now you’re talking to her from a place of security and confidence. You constantly make yourself available for rejection because you’re fine with rejection since you’re that secure (it’d be nice if she’s receptive but I’m cool if she isn’t because I’m happy as it is).
And when you’re telling her she’s cute, it’s because you mean it and now that compliment is honest and coming from a genuinely interesting, high-status, confident man. And yes, I fuck.
Edit 3: Mandatory thanks for the gold :)
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