I can't take this anymore.

EmpressofLight1000 · 2022-04-13T01:41:00+00:00

That is so weird man, sorry

rjones416 · 2022-04-13T01:58:20+00:00

post a pic. lets see if we can un-gay you.

EmpressofLight1000 · 2022-04-13T01:39:03+00:00

Maybe you go after the wrong kinda women

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-04-13T01:45:18+00:00

Go to the gym and read the wall speaks.

ace_qk · 2022-04-13T04:20:56+00:00

Look mate you need to improve yourself, no offence you’re probably a little bitch.

I hope that hurt your feelings, good.

I hope you’re pissed off women are literally trying to cuck you.

I hope you’re pissed off women consider you ‘replaceable’

GET PISSED OFF & transform yourself to a point of recognition. Fck girls, not sexually - Fck their existence - you couldn’t give a fck- you’re focused on you.

Then all of them will chase you, don’t start being a little bitch again and revert - they’ll be repulsed. You care … they don’t. You don’t care … they do.

Level up, do not disappear from the game

5_7pickup · 2022-04-13T01:31:46+00:00

Lmao man. Some of you guys encounter very unique and hilarious problems.

Ineedanswers6789 · 2022-04-13T02:56:42+00:00

If this is true, bro you did the right thing. Don’t go against yourself for these women. If you have to just give up if not forever but for a little while. But if your not gay do not turn gay to hook up with these women. It’s crazy how all most guys ever want in their life is a woman but the sad truth is most will never get that, but we living in a sick timeline where that’s our reality. Stay strong.

DarkSun18 · 2022-04-13T06:10:58+00:00

“Women are so cancerous” yeah sounds like giving up is a good idea. If you have a resentment against women in general, that’s not gonna end well.

SpartacusLaw · 2022-04-13T07:48:14+00:00

I got turned on🤣

DependentAd1504 · 2022-04-13T08:15:32+00:00

First calm down...! And instead of complaining just look at your experiences and laugh the hell out of it ....!!

You have such a awesome stories to tell ahead. Dude, these things, experiences and stories willl lead to the great foundation of your humour and conversation and charisma... Just learn how to tell your stories.

And whoever told you to lower your standards just fuck them off...and try to upgrade your standards...

And be ready to let go the next time you think you have to compromise something...

It's okay, let those women find other guys.

Keep the door open for others , Don't let some of them block your fortune...!!

And Yes ,you do miss all the shot you didn't took...!!

🤘

BlondieFunk69 · 2022-04-13T01:31:03+00:00

this has got to be a shit post haha

IfImhappyyourehappy · 2022-04-13T06:38:37+00:00

Learn to be friends with the kinds of girls you want to date. Learn to listen to what they say, take notes, and apply what you learn to yourself. Ask them what they are looking for in partners, ask as a friend not as a guy wanting to get with her, you will learn everything you need to know to get the girls you want. And it's quite likely you will find a partner in this process once you are friends with a girl who likes you for who you are and enjoys your company. I couldn't get any girls, then I did this and became a chick magnet specifically for the kinds of girls I wanted to attract. It's really easy if you use this approach and I believe it's guaranteed to work.

Chesto · 2022-04-13T08:11:25+00:00

Something tells me you have some inner game work to do on yourself.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-13T02:17:43+00:00

People will treat you the way you want them to treat you. Since you don't seem to like or respect yourself, that's the treatment you get from women.

Ok_Inevitable1154 · 2022-04-13T05:29:51+00:00

They say you attract the energy you give off. Maybe you look gay? 😂 I mean this is just unfortunate, I hope you find a valuable woman soon

ChaotixEDM · 2022-04-13T02:18:53+00:00

You can’t categorize all women as terrible, man. You definitely will meet women that have zero integrity in life, but they often say you attract how you act. Going by the tone of this post, you may just need to do some deep introspection.

hopesy123 · 2022-04-13T06:36:01+00:00

It kinda makes me feel a bit better to know that not only women go through this. When I was on dating apps I would get these maybe 3-5 times a week, sometimes from women who had a boyfriend and wanted some girl on girl action, sometimes from men who wanted to see their female friend with another woman, idk why since I wasn’t hinting in any way at being gay or bi, but it’s definitely disappointing when this isn’t your thing, but I don’t think you should get homophobic about it, its mostly just a kink some people have, but I get the frustration.

2022-04-13T07:15:25+00:00

Lmao ngl this is hilarious

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-04-13T10:07:32+00:00

You need to go speak to a mental health professional and I’m saying that out of love not hate.

coffeenpickles · 2022-04-13T11:12:52+00:00

This post was meant for r/inceltears

drgreen987 · 2022-04-13T03:47:00+00:00

women aren’t the problem thats your first problem, stop pointing fingers and blaming others for your inferiority. grow a pair and work on yourself like the rest of us

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-13T05:45:07+00:00

OP you are dumb as hell, that chick is a gay friend's wingwoman tricking straight dudes into letting the gay guy slide his dick up their ass and after ass rape the girl will ghost you lol.

Neo-Rio · 2022-04-13T06:13:51+00:00

Get out of whatever country you are in and go elsewhere.

Currently your internal beliefs about women - up until now - are so out of whack that you need positive experiences to whack them back to normal.

You need to GTFO of whatever country you are in and travel. Go someplace where you will get responses so far out of your ordinary existence that you will have to question your beliefs about everything. And preferably a place where the women have no sexual hangups.

steppingoncracks101 · 2022-04-13T07:17:47+00:00

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passengerpigeon20 · 2022-04-13T01:29:43+00:00

I would sympathise with you if you simply did not meet the minimum looks and height threshold that modern girls demand. However...

We were having a good conversation, then she suggested we be friends with benefits. Being a kissless virgin I naturally agree. We get to planning to meetup, and later on, only like 5 hrs before we plan to me up, she brings up having her best friend join us.

THIS is not a chance that guys who are true Incels ever get offered. If somebody offered you sex - regardless of her weird threesome kink - it means you ARE a lot more attractive than you give yourself credit for, and therefore have the genetic potential to do well if you improve your game.

eablokker · 2022-04-13T08:15:06+00:00

This is the equivalent of I clicked on an ad of a hot girl and it infected my computer with a virus. Dude, don’t be so gullible. Don’t hate women because you’re the one who willingly got fooled.

recursivePasta · 2022-04-13T02:33:46+00:00

There is an old school term called the secret society

So essentially if you are in the secret society you get to have all kind of crazy sex and a lot of it.

However, if you are not in the secret society, then you are the boyfriend material.

You goal is to be in the secret society and kind of downgrade to being a boyfriend. It doesn't work backwards.

If the guy is not gay, go for it. I be done it, read it in my post history, it's actually really fun.

Alphaojo · 2022-04-13T07:02:21+00:00

People might say you go after the wrong women but all women are like this, the younger the worse they hide it. Your only escape it to improve your looks and become narcissistic, make your Will stronger than theirs. That’s the only way. They’ll say you’re toxic but they’ll love you forever

YtBlue · 2022-04-13T02:39:11+00:00

Are you a pretty boy? If so you may have to act a certain way to not attract this kind. Presentation is everything and pretty boys have different rules.

ellakstone · 2022-04-13T06:17:36+00:00

Im so sorry this happened to you. There is a group of us good ones out there just wanting the same thing but lost as well. My questions I guess comes from how are you meeting these women?

Expert_Ebb8590 · 2022-04-13T07:32:30+00:00

Never give up brother I know they drive us to this breaking point but once we submit then what was the point in the first place I recently just got dumped looked back and the relationship was honestly toxic we both just wanted to be together but I’m glad I went through it now I’m back dating and experiencing new connections as I put myself out there and try to have fun conversing with women yeah it’s sick about the relationship bit talking to more girl honestly makes it feel better because you grow from each one that’s doesn’t work out I don’t think there’s just one special girl out there for us but many to experience and learn from until one really vibes with who you really are an isn’t just seeking validation

Genderneutral_Bird · 2022-04-13T07:40:20+00:00

Seeing women as cancer will kinda do that to you.

But seriously though, on what kind of dating apps are you? This is not normal behavior and girls wouldn’f normally do this. Either these are men looking for a hookup and catfishing you, ir these girls are pressured by their gay best friend. This is not a thing girls do. Girls who are looking for boyfriends aren’t looking for two guys to fuck each other.

Clearly state in your profile you are looking for a serious relationship and not a hookup, and maybe change dating apps.

Also the ‘I’m 100% straight’ is totally irrelevant here. Even if you were bisexual, you agreed to a hookup with this girl, and not a guy. You also never agreed to a threesome. What they are doing to you is catfishing and quite frankly should be illegal.

But that has nothing to do with women. Just because some people are assholes doesn’t mean all women are ‘cancer’.

Hmmkey · 2022-04-13T07:45:42+00:00

Ok bye

Maxibon1 · 2022-04-13T07:55:21+00:00

I don’t think you need to lower your standards I just think you need to look in better places the women you’re chatting to are obviously into some freaky shit I’m thinking you need to find a more wholesome type of woman hang in there bud there are some good girlfriend types out there

eatloss · 2022-04-13T07:59:48+00:00

Just wanna say i had a similar issue. NOW im happily married to a WOMAN but during the dating process i got hit on by so many gay dudes lol i thought i had lost my appeal when it finally stopped.

Theres no answer. Youre just gonna get hit on by gay dudes. Having women as openers is messed up. think of each failure as moving forward with success though. It takes a lot of failure for sure, so rack it up fast.

mymindkillsme · 2022-04-13T08:27:43+00:00

reading your other posts its heartbreaking how badly you want a girlfriend. dont give up! the right one is out there. sometimes you gotta go thru the bad ones first is all.

Hyphalex · 2022-04-13T08:33:03+00:00

Don't feel gaslit.

People are ultra manipulative. She obviously didn't gaf about you, she wanted you on a pipeline if that.

She might have only wanted you as a confidence booster.

This world is not full of "good people"

It's a cutthroat game of smiles, and lies. Always has been.

Read between the lines, because it doesn't get better with age unless you get experience succeeding in getting women.

Personality means very little to women. Anyone who tells you different is a lying sack. It's all about looks and money

keytarna · 2022-04-13T08:55:08+00:00

Bro that does suck and I am sorry, but the fact it happened twice still does not mean that this is in any way a normal thing. I think take a break from women and work on yourself for a while - then you’ll be able to attract girls and won’t have to put up with shit like this

SLUGZonDRUGZ · 2022-04-13T09:11:36+00:00

Stop submitting to girls bro. That way you stand out and aren’t like the other 99% of dudes that she just walks all over. Seems to me theres some sort of underlying issue at hand that stems from self esteem issues which contributes to your lack of confidence and lack of pussy. Work on your self ik it sounds so cliché. Stop worshiping women and acting as though you need them. Be in the mindset that THEY NEED YOU. Stop blaming them. This is the game that you’re in and you need to play it to your advantage instead of playing victim 24/7. I recommend reading The Six Pillars Of Self Esteem. Such a great book. Other than that you’re the only person that can help yourself. Don’t let them win. Go gym, have a hobby, learn new stuff and look approachable. Hygiene is key and get yourself a nice fragrance which is gonna help massively.

Edit: Seems weird saying this but Omegle is such a good place to play around with openers and have a laugh. You’re never gonna see these people again in your life so there’s no awkwardness about it and it really does help improve social skills if you do lack that.

MitchBlanco · 2022-04-13T09:13:04+00:00

You should watch a James Bond movie or something

VDKay · 2022-04-13T09:25:23+00:00

So long dude! Don't bother sending postcards

wiseguy887 · 2022-04-13T09:31:54+00:00

Look, women rule the dating world now - it’s what the norm is. Most women have so much validation and can easily replace you within seconds. You can’t do anything about it.

Move on, go approach a 1000 women, as a man it is the numbers game especially if you don’t fall in the top 20 percentile of men.

Crying and resenting on Reddit won’t help you in anyway. This is the only logical solution, trust me I am in the same boat, I get a tonne of matches and for some reason I get ghosted a lot and a very few dates and that’s fine.

You can’t make someone to like you. That’s the harsh reality of life.

cronasminate · 2022-04-13T09:35:17+00:00

That seems like a scam from a dude trying to pose as a girl online. If you agree to get fucked by the dude, the girl will never come in because the girl and the dude are the same person.

You just seem clueless on how to filter people tbh.

rohit267 · 2022-04-13T09:35:36+00:00

Feeling sorry bro but get a life, do something you proud of. Things will change. Stop hankering after girls. Have another primary objective.

Yowseff · 2022-04-13T10:20:23+00:00

Where is cummybot when you need it

TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2022-04-13T10:25:06+00:00

This is such a weird story I find it hard to believe.

First off where did you meet these girls?

Second, why are you a "kiss less virgin".

Thirdly, it is highly, highly unlikely that someone with no seduction skills (I.e. a self described kissless virgin who's introverted) would have the ability to negotiate a fwb situation right off the bat. Especially since OP describes this woman as being hot.

IF this story is true, the only thing I can think of is that OP is being catfished.

It is far from normal for a woman to propose a three way fwb situation, right of the bat. Much less to have it happen twice in 2 days

Robofrogg1 · 2022-04-13T10:28:33+00:00

As long as you keep blaming women for your problems, you don’t have to do anything to change!

broke_pony · 2022-04-13T10:32:30+00:00

If this was online, it was most likely fake

idimmu · 2022-04-13T10:46:22+00:00

what country / culture are you in?

Muramasaika · 2022-04-13T10:52:53+00:00

Get sometime to focus on yourself. Go to the gym, try new hobbies like trekking or rafting. Do some club activities and good things will come.

TantalizingTiger7 · 2022-04-13T10:54:33+00:00

Dude, get a backbone - you might as well literally say fuck it, what do i have to lose?

Tell her she could get a good look of a T-bone by sticking her head up a Bull’s ass, but wouldn’t she rather take the Butcher’s word for it?

You don’t need to get bent by her male friend for her to know how good you are in bed, she can’t experience it first hand.

Stop taking it personal, stop being reactive, and instead respond proactively.

apoxcryphell · 2022-04-13T11:02:21+00:00

You are a shit head. You saying that you are a kissless virgin makes me think that you do not understand any dynamics of a relationship. You are just using a victim card, you don't care about which woman you want to date as long as its a girl. Objectification. You want to get into a relationship learn the basics of friendship. A relationship is not something where you get unconditional love. A relationship is a place to to get to the point of unconditional love. It is quid pro quo. What tf are you giving in a relationship? But this is the place many idiots trip up. you also gotta get something out of a relationship. If people don't understand, explain what kind of a relationship you want. Then you guys start loving each other. There are stages. And a shit ton of things. If you want to die a virgin go do that. Nbdy would care about you. Look, I know that it seems harsh. But, practicality is the best approach.

Title	I can't take this anymore.
Author	Nicholite46
Upvotes	46
Comments	76
Date	April 13, 2022 1:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u2ekhd/i_cant_take_this_anymore/
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