N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-03-22T12:34:29+00:00

32…… teams are left in the NCAA basketball tournament!

ThatBitchA · 2025-03-21T17:07:13+00:00

I think what fascinates me the most about this conversation is the fan fiction created about women.

"Slept with the entire football team"

"Town bike"

"100+ men"

As if any of that is actually common or reality. It's insults from decades ago.

There's never any conversation about the reality of "promiscuous women". It's just angry mythology from men who aren't picked.

It's male pick me hope.

Proudvow · 2025-03-19T03:05:03+00:00

Women out here claiming lacking relationship experience is a red flag, even though a dude can be perpetually single just for being passive, shy, or overly considerate or something instead of any actually harmful personality traits.

Yet are offended when any claims are made about the mentalities of the promiscuous whatsoever, even fairly unrefutable ones like, "they don't inherently tie sex to romance."

Bro...

Spread-Em-Plz · 2025-03-16T20:04:31+00:00

Q4W: How would you feel if you were talking to/dating a guy who eventually tells you he’s relatively low n (somewhere in that 3-6 range) but hasn’t ever been in a committed relationship?

(Assume the man is about your age)

Actually, I suppose my dudes here can answer too though I think I have a pretty good idea of the consensus

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2025-03-16T08:59:29+00:00

I am really beginning to understand that insecurity in sexual past is not just normal but also very good.

This is what helps you find the most compatible partner and feel loved in a relationship. And this protects you from troubles

And I must simply repeat once again that in essence, insecurity and reactive jealousy are caused only by your partner's actions here. That is, if a man or woman is fucked well and loved, then there will be no problems from the start.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-03-16T03:48:11+00:00

All my low-n niggas need to remember

Chad too was a virgin once 🤔

Puppy out

Albedo200 · 2025-03-16T02:55:27+00:00

People who say past doesnt matter are being hypocrites imo. Everyone's past matter. If i was a drug addicting, party loving degenerate gambler in my early 20s, i probably wouldnt have a fit body and stable career. Both these things are very crucial when it comes to dating so my past did matter. I believe it is the same when it comes to body count.

That being said, i dont want to imply people with high body counts are undate-able or smth. I just believe its a preference like any other and people should respect it. If someone wants a partner who has a similar low body count as them, its not insecurity, but more like a preference of values.

Earlier in a discussion in this sub, there were plenty of women who were repulsed by old men who are still virgin. In their eyes, something was wrong with the man for him to remain a virgin. If thats a valid preference for them to have, than not wanting to date a woman or a man with high body count is also equally valid

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2025-03-15T20:04:40+00:00

What I find interesting that often those who would insist that body count is not important tacidly affirm that it is in the language they use.

Consider the most common response to men who say that they want low body count/virgin women being 'are you a virgin yourself?'. This gets framed as being about double standards except of course we never expect that from any other truly neutral characteristic. Someone doesn't have to be blond to like blondes, or tall to prefer taller people, or muscular to like muscular people etc.

The only reason the question of double standards would come up is IF thereis some actual ethical value in the characteristic. Like say being kind, or generous, or pious if you're religious, in these cases we expect people who desire these qualities to at the very least try to cultivate it for themselves. But so many responses to this debate treat this issue like this second group when I'd argue it's actually in the first group. I.e, an ethically neutral quality that some people have an inherent attraction towards, like height and eye colour.

-reeses · 2025-03-15T18:19:01+00:00

i believe that preferring a virgin as an older adult male is often rooted in attitudes that should be avoided in a partner by a female virgin.

i believe it’s understandable to want someone who matches your experience level if you’re a virgin yourself, male or female. or have never had a conventional, consensual sexual experience.

i believe that past a certain age tho, most men are not virgins (under that definition), and desire for a virgin partner often comes from insecurity, ego or purity ideals - which can get into fetishization, none of which are ideal for a female virgin.

so while some men may have understandable reasons for preferring a virgin, a strong fixation on virginity often signals unhealthy attitudes that a female virgin should be wary of, and often are.

i’m open to having my view changed

Technical_End9162 · 2025-03-15T18:14:30+00:00

Everyone approaches n-counts from a logical perspective, but neglect that it doesn’t really change anything, males throughout evolution have developed an instinctive disgust against certain actions in their partners sexual past, to protect them from getting cuckolded

I actually women have this instinct as well especially if their brain has more of a tendency towards monogamy, although it’s not as strong as the male disgust

And it often isn’t insecurity either, since I would loose feelings if I found out that my girlfriend loved to get gangbanged in the past, but I wouldn’t feel anything like that if one of her previous boyfriends was more physically attractive than me, even though that ex is probably a bigger threat to out relationship in terms of cheating than the men who participated in the gangbangs

Every man has an emotional cutoff point, for example some men are more sensitive for n-count than I am, (My n-count is 3 at 23 years old and I prefer a women that has been with less than 11 men, I find that very reasonable) but I wouldn’t be able to get over my girl loving to get gangbanged in college and I would loose feelings. I’ve also had discussions with men online who say they wouldn’t emotionally care if their wife had slept with 1000 men before them, so people with high n-counts should just date the right person instead of lying and wasting someone’s time

People often try disprove this emotion with logic like “what if someone changed” but this neglects that it’s often just a biological instinct and it doesn’t matter if you like it or if it’s logical, it’s like telling a woman who has a biological preference for tall muscular men “but we have guns today so he can protect you even if he’s smaller than you”, it doesn’t matter since you have evolved to have that instinct, so the logic doesn’t matter, same thing with n-counts

-reeses · 2025-03-15T17:18:02+00:00

first

something some of yall will never be 🤣🤣 muahahahaha

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