A friend shared this on Facebook. My friends list just got one person smaller.

Crimson_D82 · 2014-03-18T10:21:52+00:00

Some women might say they want a man they can push around but in reality they do not respect the man that lets her push him around.

gellis12 · 2014-03-18T20:56:00+00:00

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ImportantPotato · 2014-03-18T10:21:35+00:00

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TracyMorganFreeman · 2014-03-18T08:55:03+00:00

Well that analogy doesn't even work well. Stomping grapes doesn't give you wine.

You have to have time and patience and care/knowledge to make a fine wine from grape juice.

xholly · 2014-03-18T09:24:56+00:00

Is this a typo? I guess it is supposed to read "someone acceptable to pay for your dinner"

gonecatfishin · 2014-03-18T21:33:04+00:00

Anyone have a mirror?

gellis12 · 2014-03-18T21:51:11+00:00

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Meistermalkav · 2014-03-18T07:03:56+00:00

in response, post:

Women are like milk.

at first, you want them.

Then, you enjoy them.

Then, you can do only so much to keep them fresh and not spoiled, so when they start tasting funny, toss them in the bin, and get a fresh one.

If she gives you any shit for that, say verbatim "That is rich coming from a domestic violence apologist. "

Collective82 · 2014-03-18T19:49:15+00:00

"Women are like a tampon, use as needed, then throwaway."

Sounds great doesn't it? /s

Raeli · 2014-03-18T07:44:04+00:00

Yep. This is offensive.

Mythandros · 2014-03-18T16:06:46+00:00

Disgusting. Your friends list is better without this idiot on it. Funny thing is, if the gender roles in this hateful message were reversed, there would be uproar.

Sickening.

RavenousPonies · 2014-03-19T00:28:23+00:00

Anyone got a mirror? Imgur is telling me it's deleted :/

shinarit · 2014-03-18T09:47:57+00:00

People are full of shit, men are portrayed as uncivilized bums everywhere. Good luck fighting against it.

Virgil_Lee_Nobody · 2014-03-18T14:32:51+00:00

This isn't even one of those cute quotes that can be shrugged off as harmless. It's tasteless, non-endearing, and not even funny. If you need to be offensive, as last be hilarious while doing so.

garblegarble12 · 2014-03-18T15:29:09+00:00

Mmm #violenceisokay

z3uper90 · 2014-03-18T17:32:08+00:00

And women are like nats, you want to just slap the shit out of them until they expire

Eenjoy · 2014-03-18T11:48:02+00:00

It is just a joke. I mean, I am sure there are dumbasses that may actually believe this way, but I bet most just find it humorous.

I mean if a comedian said this, no one would be talking/posting about it. I know that if this joke was in the reverse (against women) on facebook, some others would be flipping out as well. Even in that case, it is just a joke that any comedian could get away with on stage. So why get upset about it?

verluci · 2014-03-18T09:27:25+00:00

A salad with grapes in it is awesome. Just saying. Also fancy, goes well with a fancy dinner.

lillojohn · 2014-03-18T09:58:04+00:00

Lol, it is just talk. I don't think that person can get a good stable relationship.

madvoice · 2014-03-18T16:09:25+00:00

My SO showed me this. He said he was glad o don't think that way. The glad I don't too. Disgusting.

rexxthunder2020 · 2014-03-18T16:14:58+00:00

It's not what you think. Remember, misandry doesn't exist.

anon445 · 2014-03-18T17:39:28+00:00

As I'm reading these comments, every mention of "stomping grapes" is making my balls tingle uncomfortably

loddfavne · 2014-03-18T09:15:54+00:00

For women I got two rules on Facebook. The first is that I unfollow them if they make any post that puts men down. The second rule is that if I unfriend women that I don't talk to in person. It made my facebook feed a lot easier to manage, and a lot more friendlier.

jtj-H · 2014-03-18T09:46:26+00:00

Women are like dog-doo

hear me out don't interrupt

its just the older that they get the easier they get to pick up

lukeyfbaby · 2014-03-18T11:11:26+00:00

Was she your "friend" to even begin with? Or just an acquaintance?

bitwolfy · 2014-03-18T13:46:48+00:00

The only acceptable reaction to something like this is "What the hell is wrong with you?"

jokoon · 2014-03-18T15:12:45+00:00

oddly, patrice o neal had a bit when comparing women and wine, and it turns out very differently

see it for yourself:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toCJTa5Grog

Owminator · 2014-03-18T16:05:42+00:00

But.. But fine wines are made from extra virgin grapes where the only grapejuice used is the juice that runs from the grapes naturally, without being "stomped" or squished.

Not only is it a shit message, it's also a shit analogy

meatmaeta · 2014-03-18T16:10:01+00:00

Sounds like a divorceé. I know, my sister is one (twice over); hell of a bitch, too stupid (or too cowardly) to understand or apply basic human rights, forget equal gender ideas.

gellis12 · 2014-03-19T10:03:51+00:00

Imgur has apparently removed the picture.

New link is here for anyone who still wants to see it!

solancho · 2014-03-18T14:21:53+00:00

wow, that woman clearly has no concept of a healthy relationship.

I can't stand these sexist posts all over facebook, towards and from both genders, that are passed off as little jokes. Like those 'rules for men/women' posts. It just shows a lack of maturity and understanding of basic human relationships to me!

Edit:word

zrunner2187 · 2014-03-18T07:49:37+00:00

With dinner*

Social_Razor · 2014-03-18T14:03:50+00:00

This is on a sign in every Jimmy John's I have ever visited. This is a quote from humor writer Dave Barry from his column "Things it took the human race 50 years to learn." There are also gems like don't lick the steak knife and never take a laxative and sleeping pill at the same time.

nelsonblaha · 2014-03-18T13:45:43+00:00

This reminds me of a new friend of mine who I challenge routinely on tumblr about gender issues. She recently broadcasted a request that MRAs of any kind unfollow. I respected her wish, but I consider it anti-intellectual to turn down interaction with people you disagree with on such a scale. Arguing is pointless, but reasoned discussion is not, and should always precede the hand. A point is often reached beyond which conversation is no longer constructive, but you can often learn something before that point.

blueoak9 · 2014-03-18T14:59:48+00:00

"Women are like wine; better a year too soon than a day too late."

tampafamilylaw · 2014-03-18T16:45:35+00:00

Nice.

iMADEthis2post · 2014-03-18T21:57:37+00:00

I had someone on my facebook that utterly turned into one of those extreme feminist types, the shit she was posting was the most evil bigoted shit you can imagine. What you are showing here is nothing compared to that mentality. In fact tbh I just usually put things like this down to humor, humor is a big get out of jail free card to me and I refuse to show the feminist mentality in regard to things like rape jokes etc. Jokes a joke.

What the feminist did that I had experience with is much more damaging to society. She was running around calling men rapists who had been accused of rape even though there was more than enough information about to warrant keeping your mouth shut concerning this instant, the women themselves not saying they were raped and it all boiling down to one guy initiating sex while his lover was as sleep and not wearing a condom. I pulled her on that and she looses her shit basically, posts on other social media trying to insight violence and hatred towards me, brings men into the facebook conversation to make threats towards me, every threat she did of course 'like'.

By all accounts she turned into a nutjob. The irony however is in her own actions. She started a sexual relationship with one or two girls aged 15 and 16 while she was 27/28, she told her musical colleagues she hoped their children get raped by peadophiles, she also went on a vandalizing spree when the London riots went down. I cant fucking stand people like this, utter scum, she's totally lost and worthless as a human being in my eyes.

What actually almost amuses me is she is pretty well known in the music community of the north west of England and beyond she has played bass to thousands and I would love her to become better known so all this shit about her can come out publicly and destroy any fan base she has. I won't name the cunt, just look for the pink dreadlocks.

That's the kind of gender criminal I can't tolerate. A generic facebook message or image that someone has forwarded on designed to be humorous? Just ignore it in my opinion or comment on it if you want to, but that alone is not reason to just remove friends, especially people you actually know etc. Save your hatred and disgust for those who really deserve it.

I will say however I couldn't see your initial image post as it has been removed from imgur, so I may be making assumptions that this wasn't one in many instances or she hadn't personally backed up the hatred in a generic image post with bigotry posted by her own hand, I could only get the feeling of it from the replies.

ThePigmanAgain · 2014-03-18T22:38:52+00:00

All i get is a bunch of animals giving me funny looks!

Offensive_Brute · 2014-03-18T12:42:01+00:00

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Kodix · 2014-03-18T14:02:56+00:00

Wait. Specifically women stomp grapes for wine? Wheh?

Decalance · 2014-03-18T15:47:06+00:00

I'm pretty sure it's a joke, but if it isn't, then you did the right thing.

Roddy0608 · 2014-03-18T09:11:45+00:00

What's wrong with grapes?

Riktenkay · 2014-03-18T14:11:36+00:00

Fuck these grape-hating bitches.

LifeBiggestTroll · 2014-03-18T22:23:25+00:00

Ah come on I want to see what she said!

No_Nrg · 2014-03-19T00:50:05+00:00

So you were his friend because you though he exclusively agreed with you? You likely don't have any friends with that logic.

drumstyx · 2014-03-18T13:46:31+00:00

Unfriending someone for an opinion is immature, and rather like censorship. It frustrates me to no end to see feminists on my facebook unfriend people for simply engaging in friendly debate, but I'm the bigger person here, I would never choose to run away because of a difference in opinion.

neverquitepar · 2014-03-18T09:54:40+00:00

Thats actually pretty funny. I can see how this subreddit would be offended, but it was probably just made by an angsty teenager.

Edit: hahaha

PurpleAriadne · 2014-03-18T12:06:49+00:00

As a woman I find this cringe worthy but not dropping a friend worthy. It is just as crass as truck balls, cat calls by construction workers, or similar. If she is a friend explain why this isn't funny to you. Is she small and petite and doesn't see the harm because she is so small physical violence against a man would be laughable coming from her?

Tl:dr it is a bad analogy, but friends are worth educating on their poor choice of humor.

Skorpazoid · 2014-03-18T22:27:22+00:00

Fuck and so did my sub list. Shit I care about Mens Rights, but fuck all is achieved with Karma whoring posts from your dumb friends uneducated comments.

Who gives a fuck? Why not just pop up and intermittently mention how others feel differently than us.

matthewjumps · 2014-03-18T13:45:38+00:00

i dont want to see the same petty behaviour feminists are so renowned for here. unfriending someone over what appears to be a joke is right up their alley.

if your friend sincerely believes this, sure. but it does seem like a tongue in cheek statement that she happened to find amusing. honestly, jokes can be sick, and anyone who starts telling you what is and isnt ok to joke about is much worse than someone who makes the sickest, most fucked up joke ever.

i have no problems with people making jokes about rape, incest, racism, murder, torture, starvation, natural disasters, abortions, the list goes on... i think mens rights can be a little thicker skinned than the feminists who are often harping on about banning certain speech.

i could be wrong - if you are saying that this friend actually believes that men need to experience violence to whip them into shape. but i doubt she really does.

2014-03-18T13:54:42+00:00

Posting this just spreads it further.

Related: this sub needs to clean it's act up

Offensive_Brute · 2014-03-18T15:41:19+00:00

~~Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and its up~~ SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET IN THE KITCHEN BITCH!!

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-03-18T20:18:52+00:00

I know the double standard wise why you'd get annoyed but it's just a joke. also it'd be more productive for you to talk about it rather than just delete her

AlexReynard · 2014-03-18T15:13:17+00:00

It's a fucking joke. You people are just as bad as the radical "feminists" you all hate so much. I thought it was mildly clever and I'm a man.

veyron1001 · 2014-03-18T12:10:30+00:00

Women are like bread. Its good for about 25 days and then you throw it out for younger bread.

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stools · 2014-03-18T09:44:24+00:00

Hasn't the SNL thing taught you anything. You can laugh it off because it's comedy or you can all pissed off and post about it online to various interest groups.

Paladin327 · 2014-03-18T16:52:58+00:00

What's the problem? I actually thought this was kind of funny, and I'm a man.

avantvernacular · 2014-03-18T17:48:48+00:00

Silence will not change his/her views. Treat a bigot not with animosity but compassion, that in time they will see their errors.

HenGarden · 2014-03-18T19:19:37+00:00

*Implying that women could crush a grape

Am i right or am i right fellas!?

dublecake · 2014-03-18T18:46:49+00:00

I think that's fantastic! My dad needed to be stomped, but my boyfriend's already a fine wine ;)

GREAT_BAND_NAME · 2014-03-18T12:30:21+00:00

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Blemish · 2014-03-18T16:31:32+00:00

Loosen up folks, its a joke.

I got KY jelly if anybody needs help

Title	A friend shared this on Facebook. My friends list just got one person smaller.
Author	gellis12
Upvotes	812
Comments	300
Date	March 18, 2014 6:50 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/20p9ab/a_friend_shared_this_on_facebook_my_friends_list/
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