What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?

Gravel_Roads · 2021-10-31T09:09:08+00:00

Old school red pillers I don't tend to have a problem with. But the new blood over the past 5-6 years seem to be getting stupider and aren't even bothering to follow their own sidebar.

The biggest error: Thinking "Blue Pill" is an actual ideology at all. The BP sub wasn't created to be an ideological sub at all - it was created to make fun of the Red Pill. That's it. "Blue Pill" just means "literally anyone not red pill".

So all the terps crowing about how "blue pill lied and said you should be nice to women" or "blue pill are feminine cuck men!" will be hard-pressed to find any place where BP actually defines itself as being anything at all.

At this point, "Blue Pill" is just something terps call anyone that doesn't agree with them.

Demasii · 2021-10-31T04:24:33+00:00

Purple piller/egalitarian

I'm not against evolutionary psychology or biological reasonings behind sexual preferences.

People in different economic and social situations are going to act differently in an attempt to maximize their SMV. There are plenty of studies where things like sex ratio, food scarcity and genetic diversity affect the what we find attractive.

Also if someone choose a "suboptimal" method of doing things (sex with short/young men or fat/old women) it doesn't mean that they are lying about their attraction. Outliers will always exist in nature as a way to test the current system to see if it will result in a better reproductive outcome.

If everyone have the same preference and stay stagnant, we would have became extinct long ago because our inability to adapt to new environments.

Marty-the-monkey · 2021-10-31T00:36:51+00:00

At this point I frankly aren’t even sure what either blue pill or red pill means or stand for.

DarkSp3ctre · 2021-10-31T00:44:26+00:00

Not subscribing to red pill ideology doesn’t make one a simp.

Ruben_the_Fish · 2021-10-31T01:19:59+00:00

Red Pill seems to think Chads are abusive and nerds are nice, but of all the guys I dated- the only one to ever hit me was an electronic engineer with no chin. I dumped his ass.

Also, I never hit any Wall.

XtoDoubt · 2021-10-31T00:34:39+00:00

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CimZim · 2021-10-31T01:01:56+00:00

Claiming we're virtue signaling when we say we're loving and accepting towards the men in our lives

Our Ns are all higher

We don't actually give a shit about how men are treated in society

We're all hypergamous no matter what

That none of us have dated average men or that our sex partners have all been Chads (move goalposts as required to prove this)

Assert that even though we say we're not attracted to a man's money or resources because we've already got our own, this is a lie and we'd all immediately dump our current partners for an interested millionaire

sernamedeleted · 2021-10-31T01:03:23+00:00

I got called a gay female leftist today.

CFinCanada · 2021-10-31T01:15:41+00:00

That we all want macho men who do not show any vulnerability or normal human emotion.

That we are all just after a man's money to be betabux for chad's children.

That all women want children.

That all men who were ever left by a woman were hapless victims of hypergamy or monkey-branching.

That all women have the same type and all agree on what the top 20% of men are and the cultures we were raised in and the media we have consumed growing up means nothing and has no influence.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-10-31T02:33:33+00:00

The whole "alpha" and "beta" dynamic just seems like their way of dealing with the fact that no one wants them for either sex OR a relationship.

Superfluous_Toast · 2021-10-31T00:42:54+00:00

That they have any idea at all what motivates or attracts me. No, I'm not after a guy that makes CEO money, no I don't find muscles attractive, no, I don't rule out guys shorter than 6ft, just no. The redpill is men trying and failing to understand female motivation and attraction through a male lense.

Vyrnoa · 2021-11-01T13:07:56+00:00

A better question to ask would be what do they even get right.

NarniaFox · 2021-10-31T06:25:07+00:00

There can't be egalitarian relationships, there's always a leader and follower/dominant and submissive partner. People can actually treat each other as equals and make plans together.
"Her money is her money, his money is theirs". A lot of couples have shared budget or they just "chip in" in it and do whatever they want with the rest.
Men always pays for sex this way or another. If you consider spending time together as "paying" - sure. But partners generally like being together, most people don't consider it as "payments".
BPillers believe that appearance doesn't matter. That's not really true imv. Appearance matters, but it isn't the only thing that does.
If you don't have options/don't dread your partner, they don't want you. I guess it works on people with insecure attachment styles, but there are a lot of people whose sexuality flourishes when they feel safe and secure.

vanillapopsicle · 2021-10-31T05:55:37+00:00

The critical flaw in red pill ideology is thinking modern female nature is innate female nature.

And_Rue · 2021-10-31T00:57:00+00:00

What's semi-tradional vs. hardcore traditional?

One of the main reasons our society has the issues it does today is because men don't play enough of a role in rearing their children. Men teach taking risks, being responsible, and being respectful. These are equally as valuable as the qualities that women teach, and somehow we've lied to ourselves into believing a father's role isn't necessary.

Echoing the discontent of many men here:

“We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.”

michael1962-01 · 2021-10-31T08:41:32+00:00

As RP is a tool box your question is as stupid as if you ask a knife what does the chef get wrong about you?

Aclopolipse · 2021-10-31T03:44:52+00:00

Bi/Pansexual people aren't magically an exception to all of the "innate truths of human nature".

Some of them just decided gender roles are dumb after experiencing what dating is like without them. And maybe more of sexual dynamics are learned or socially constructed than you'd like to believe.

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SaBahRub · 2021-10-31T02:23:43+00:00

That we are guaranteeing success

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-10-31T22:28:24+00:00

I picked purple pill just because I felt like it was more “neutral” than saying I was “no pill”. There’s no real logic to it on a personal level.

Red Pill is so nebulous sometimes that I sometimes question if it’s worth openly “disagreeing” with, since they can usually fall back on some accusation of misunderstanding. If I say I don’t agree with AWALT, they say that it’s not meant to be taken literally. If I disagree with “treat women like children”, they say I’m not understanding the methodology. If I disagree with “LMR”… you get the picture.

I’m not purplepilled because I disagree with everything or anything that redpill has to say. I’m purple because I’m not red.

Papplebeast · 2021-11-03T04:01:33+00:00

I'm simply better than them and it's definitely not my looks. It's mostly a good thing that they're weeding themselves out of the gene pool.

Title	What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?
Author	FabulousFuchsbau
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Comments	140
Date	October 31, 2021 12:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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