If he tells you to swallow his cum, tell him to swallow your period blood :)

Buttercup5555 · 2021-11-13T01:03:34+00:00

I just want to hijack and make a brief reminder to be extremely careful who you have oral sex with. Especially if you do it without a condom which people seem to be more lax with when it comes to oral- you are exposing yourself to a very real risk of hpv infection (no visible lesions on a penis needed) and a risk of oral cancer if you are not hpv vaccinated. And that's just one of the many std's.

Als want to say- many if not most men can't handle period blood in a pad commercial as opposed to a GoT episode with a regular massacre scene, so we have to censor our physiology but yeah cum on my face

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-11-12T21:19:43+00:00

ask men why they don't want to kiss a woman after they have given them a blow job.

"it's icky and sticky and tastes funny"

so then why should I swallow it?

oral sex and swallowing bodily fluids are important pieces in their power play.

yeah, power play.

peaches88888 · 2021-11-12T21:06:28+00:00

Men who are uncomfortable talking about menstruation are so cringe. It’s such a turn off.

fds_throwaway_4_u · 2021-11-12T23:22:13+00:00

Thank you! This is a great way to look at it.

AdmiralRando · 2021-11-12T23:32:19+00:00

I’m with a man now who asks to go down even when I am on my period. If it’s heavy, I’ll demure, because I’m just not into it (even if he is willing to do laundry). But if it’s light, I’m very happy to have a man who is not a squeamish-ass weakling.

It is delightful to be with a man who is turned on by an actual woman.

Don’t let the bar get below that, ladies.

FDS-MAGICA · 2021-11-12T20:55:49+00:00

And that's how you find out you're dating a vampire

chamomilepill · 2021-11-12T20:57:05+00:00

My NVX saw my stomach churn when he came in my mouth and didn't warn me

He LIKED me being disgusted and about to throw up

Wanting to have jizz swallowed is humiliation more than anything, always refuse.

AAlegend8 · 2021-11-12T21:24:47+00:00

Personally I only like cum on a toaster strudel. (Still haven’t recovered from that 🤢😂)

NiBBasBeCrazy · 2021-11-12T21:31:39+00:00

Do people actually swallow cum during oral sex? I’m genuinely curious. I’m not very sexually experienced and I would always spit with the only bf I had. I think the smell of cum is absolutely repulsive, it almost made me gag each time. Can someone please explain to me if it’s actually done and if so, why people swallow??

cml678701 · 2021-11-12T21:54:48+00:00

Wow! This is seriously an amazing point. It’s a great comeback to people who insist pOrN iS jUsT aS mUcH fOr WoMeN.

ironglaciers · 2021-11-13T03:47:44+00:00

I have always found the idea fucking gross. A guy I was dating wanted me to do oral on him. I did not. Gross. Plus you piss out of your dick and you want me to put it in my mouth? Disgusting. Also notice they don't ever want to go down on us.

womanofmyownheart · 2021-11-12T20:59:18+00:00

I hope all the sick scrotes of Reddit will see this post. Also the ladies who feel pressured to participate in such.

It's disrespectful if you want to come on our faces or have our mouths anywhere near your genital fluids.

fuzzydrmartens · 2021-11-13T00:14:40+00:00

Honestly, LVM are such hypocrites. They want you to swallow their cum or aim it at you in your mouth and swallow it, or aim it on your body. BUT they will NEVER go down on you on your period. Ladies, remember! You don’t have to do anything you’re uncomfortable with including swallowing cum or having it aimed at you

Edit: I think letting a guy cum in your mouth is so degrading doesn’t matter if we spit or swallow. Same if he cums on you or your face. He can aim it somewhere that isn’t you (on the bed, couch, etc). I see at as a sign of pornsickness

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-11-12T19:52:54+00:00

This is a clever and funny thought experiment—but maybe tag NSFW? I nearly spat out my food in disgust at the thought of smearing menstrual blood on someone’s face…

pukubr · 2021-11-12T20:36:33+00:00

Men have had a 50 year head start on brainwashing the media that it's okay and sexy to swallow cum

ctrlcutie · 2021-11-13T02:51:27+00:00

LMAO you got us there OP

headlikeacaroussel · 2021-11-12T21:03:38+00:00

That one post from before about the guy who mixed semen in his gfs food popped up in my mind now for some reason... just imagine how horrible it would be.

NotSoSmartChick · 2021-11-14T20:04:45+00:00

Tell them to go on prostrate medicine and you’ll consider it. My late husband was something that left him able to orgasm but not ejaculate.

I swallowed once with my first boyfriend and learned how awful that shit is. 40 years later and the memory of it still makes me wince!

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-13T14:42:58+00:00

At least he’ll looks freaking metal as he does it. I always though periods were pretty metal. But yeah the only guys into that are the vampires…and wow! They don’t exist! 😂

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Shot_Presence_8382 · 2021-11-15T14:34:23+00:00

Ex husband was obsessed with blowjobs, but he would never eat me out, ever. Whenever he'd want a blowjob, he would just grab my head, close his eyes and sit there getting pleasured. That only happened once or twice. His idea of sex at the end of marriage was me giving him a blowjob, and me getting absolutely nothing. I would even try to bring his hands down to my boobs for some sort of pleasure for me, but he didn't even want to do that!!

Guess which type of porn was his favorite? Blowjobs...no pleasure for the woman, just getting the men off. At the end of the marriage, we didn't even have sex anymore cuz he could only last like 30 secs and be done and I was never satisfied. I remember one time he wanted to do a "quickie" in the kitchen and I said "no thanks, I don't want no minute man" and I started to cackle manically. The look on his face was embarrassment. I watched as his face turned red and he looked generally disheartened 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

Men are literally shocked when they find out you're not as enthusiastic as they are about their shitty performance or just them getting pleasure (blowjobs). They're apparently under the impression that if THEY are getting pleasure, everyone around them also must be feeling the same thing...they literally can't see outside themselves and have empathy for others and imagine what they must be feeling like, ESPECIALLY the women they are having sex with 🙄

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Title	If he tells you to swallow his cum, tell him to swallow your period blood :)
Author	catastrophejr
Upvotes	901
Comments	74
Date	November 12, 2021 7:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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