My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym today

aspermyprevious · 2022-02-22T21:08:45+00:00

I had an old teacher once try to buy me a drink. He however, said “you look familiar. Did I meet you at such-and-such’s dinner party a couple months back?” I said “no, Mr. X it’s me, Z, from your 8th grade history class.” He was 22 and it was his first teaching job and I was that age when we met again. When I tell you he turned red…then green…then white. His demeanor changed so quickly. “Miss Z! How wonderful to see you!” Started asking me about my academics and addressing me like his student again. Needless to say he did not buy me a drink but did ask if I had a DD and wished me a pleasant evening.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-02-23T01:04:58+00:00

I have always been resistant to thinking guys are hitting on me and when it’s definitely happening, and I say something, someone ALWAYS says “no he’s not” until they see it happen and then their eyes usually pop out of their heads because if I say it’s happening, it’s over the top. I was getting a weird vibe from a teacher at my son’s school that felt creepy and I didn’t realize how right I was until another mom started telling me the gossip I always miss out on. He was apparently hooking up DURING SCHOOL with MOMS. And he teaches SECOND grade. He was also about 24 and hitting on everyone from 20 to 40. How freaking horny can you be????? The school had one other, older, male teacher who was NOT like that but the principal was a woman and the young guy was hitting on her too and it played into her ego in a big way. Really toxic situation developing.

Jandi18 · 2022-02-22T21:17:32+00:00

My after school lesson teacher told me he would have married me if only I was a bit older. I was 11 at that time 🤢

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-22T20:52:21+00:00

Fucking predatory🤢

NonaOrganic · 2022-02-23T00:21:42+00:00

My aunt is on husband #3. But husband #1 knew me from when I was a toddler. And husband #2 knew me from when I was in elementary. Husband #1 hit on me when I was 24. Husband #2 tried it when I was 21.

Husband #1 was so bold, MY MOTHER WAS THERE, and she told his sister she better get him before she kill him.

Husband #2 was so insistent and determined to get me in his car, at a few minutes my body went cold and I felt like alarm bells were going off in my head. He literally followed me down the street w/his car. I think he would have raped me.

August142014 · 2022-02-22T21:57:54+00:00

I went on a date for drinks with a guy from Hinge who said he teaches high schoolers. I normally would not have drinks as a first date but I thought he’s a teacher so he’s more trustworthy.

This man got drunk off of 3 glasses of wine and then asked me to take him home. I gave him the ride and then asked me if I wanted to go inside to watch a movie and “and get to know each other better.” Tried telling me I might want to go in to sober up because my driving was bad. Dude really pissed me off. He called me when I got home and he was trying to clarify he didn’t mean anything by it. Messaged me two times, a month apart trying to see if I was open to go on another date.

I messaged him the second time letting him know I was seeing someone.

srslyitsbad · 2022-02-23T05:07:09+00:00

There was a group of male teachers who were 30ish at my high school and they would go to graduation parties and try to fuck the girls that just graduated. Students started gossiping about it and how gross it was so most of them ended up relocating to other high schools.

elainejay82 · 2022-02-23T06:29:16+00:00

This has happened to me on numerous occasions. The saddest was a band director I highly respected growing up. I had to ask for help from someone at the bar the guy was so wrecked and nasty.

He eventually died of alcoholism.

As a woman, I really feel like all male idols must fall.

Turtles_And_Pandas · 2022-02-23T07:41:09+00:00

Not from a teacher, but this reminded me of a gross one that I got a while back.

When I was around 9 my dad started dating and got engaged to a woman that had a son around 18 at the time. My dad and this woman were together for about three years. I have a brother my same age and the son was an only child. I was really excited to have an older sibling and he was into a lot of the same nerdy stuff that the two of us were (this was back when the super hero movies and stuff like that were starting to become popular) so we all got along really well.

A couple of years after dad and the woman broke up I found the son on social media and we kind of reconnected. Super innocuous stuff at first; liking an occasional status, asking me about school, things like that.

Then a year or so back he randomly sent me this drawn out message about how he's been in love with me since the day we met. 🤮🤮This man who was basically my brother and met me as a grown man when I was 9 poured his heart out confessing his "love" for me (conveniently mere days after the previous "love of his life" dumped him). Needless to say, immediate block and delete. 🤮🤮

emptycampus · 2022-02-23T06:58:54+00:00

One of childhood friends passed away a couple years back, I was around 24. I visited his father, whose house I’d been to a bunch of times as a MIDDLE SCHOOLER, to pay my respects. This creepy ass piece of shit hit on me. As I was visiting to reminisce about his dead child (who would have been the same age as me). Saying how good I looked, how his new girlfriend was my age. It was so disgusting and vile. His child has just died and he was trying to get his dick wet. I feel so bad my friend had such a gross dad.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-22T21:26:00+00:00

Ewwwwww 🤮

chandelier-lake · 2022-02-23T05:13:39+00:00

My 8th grade science teacher was notorious for staring down girls’ shirts. Everyone talked about it and adults had to have heard and done nothing. As an educational professional now, I cannot imagine.

reddishfish13 · 2022-02-22T21:05:42+00:00

21 years ago

student from the third grade

WTAF. Love it when men in general feel totally ok commenting on women's bodies in public, it's so flattering! 🤮

RhiannonEmilia · 2022-02-22T22:11:06+00:00

My middle school gym teacher asked me out around Christmas time. He’s almost as old as my mother

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2022-02-23T08:46:57+00:00

Gross. We had a priest at our school who was notorious for being a pervert. He would get us all to do mindfulness activities which required us all to lie on the floor with our legs up on chairs (wearing skirts). He would also get us to close our eyes to meditate and I remember one time he put a chocolate on my desk in front of my chest and very lightly brushed my breast on the way past…

He made a comment to others that I was the only one who knew how to walk across a stage properly, at graduation.

He once came into the shop I worked at part time after graduating HS and saw me on my knees restocking shelves and made some comment like “I could’ve given you a reason to get on your knees” and that our group at school was a “randy bunch.”

This guy was shameless. This happened after he went to jail for possession of CP.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-02-22T22:24:01+00:00

🤮 It’s gross enough when someone close to your age comments on your body, but (a) that age gap, and (b) your former teacher is just 🤮🤮🤮

calaverarosacorazon · 2022-02-23T08:01:38+00:00

This is disgusting and it reminded me of my teacher in junior high. I went to a Catholic school and we have a “Religion” subject. Basically bible study. This teacher came from a seminary, he didnt continue on being a priest and went on to be a teacher,

A year ago, he added me in facebook and liked all my photos and messaged me how beautiful I am now that im a woman (eewww) He told me he couldnt remember how i looked like in highschool and only added me from theschool alumni group because I looked familiar.

Patient-Pineapple-29 · 2022-02-22T22:17:05+00:00

Not the point the op is talking about but I just want to get this off my chest: What's up with people in the gym hitting on other people 🤨 When I go work there I get all sweaty, smelly and disgusting in less than 10 minutes like how is that attractive? It is so weird 😤

Drpyroxene · 2022-02-22T21:36:41+00:00

I wish we could do gifs because this needs a super long eeeewe from David Rose. Ugh.

fireforestfairy · 2022-02-23T16:17:00+00:00

I think many male teachers dream of fucking their female students when they are older.

albus247 · 2022-02-23T02:51:56+00:00

I had a pick me roommates who hooked up with our 11th grade Spanish teacher. He was in his 20s (I think 26) when he taught us.

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-02-22T22:29:41+00:00

Ugh. Gross.

mercybenelli · 2022-02-23T06:02:51+00:00

That is disgusting. I ran into my college prep teacher from my senior year of high school at the grocery store a few months ago. He asked if my family and I were well, and if I was doing well academically. I mentioned a paper I was having a difficult time with, and he offered to look over it for me (he graded harder than any teacher I’d ever had and I figured his input would help). I emailed him the paper, he gave me advice, and all of the conversations we’ve had since then have been appropriate and academic. If that man tried to hit on me, I would’ve lost it.

Sewud · 2022-02-23T02:56:47+00:00

Men are really shameless, they really think "age is just a number", but one way only. They perpetually see themselves as a 22-year-old and they see women in their twenties and think "that would make sense for me" / "she's a beautiful woman I should try to get with her". Talking with some men, they all seem to think that there's an age where you're done growing mentally and there's no difference past that point. Everyone is just "an adult". You apparently don't gain anything from being 40, 60 or 90.

verydischeesed · 2022-02-24T20:14:10+00:00

This gal I know who does 0nlyf*ns told me that her friend’s DAD that she’d known since SHE WAS 7 subscribed to her on there…

LizardPussy6969 · 2022-02-22T21:46:11+00:00

Okay but why were you learning french in third grade

Title	My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym today
Author	electroloop
Upvotes	642
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Date	February 22, 2022 8:44 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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