Are women as sexually attracted to personality as much as looks?

Most women except demisexuals accept that they're sexually attracted to very good looking men. But most women also say that they are sexually attracted to men with great personality too ( provided that the guy is not repulsively ugly ).

Which makes me believe there are actually two aspects of female sexuality.

  1. Good looks are sexually attractive.

  2. Personality ( with reasonable looks ) is equally or even more sexually attractive.

This is a hypothesis by me, but if this is true this explains why when looking for a LTR, women take things slow, so that they can get to know the personality of a man, which is sexually attractive and when looking for casual sex, they go for best looking men.

But there are a lot of women who are not demisexuals but are not at all into casual sex even when extremely attractive men pursue them for hookups and will have sex only in commited relationship, some try it once or twice due to fomo and decide it's not for them, some women feel bad after having casual sex, some women like it and enjoy hookups but most agree that sex in a committed relationship is far more better than hookups.

And a lot of women don't ride the cock carousel and then finally settle down with a guy they don't like, hookups happen in between relationships. They have normal relationships and if it doesn't workout, they break up and may hookup a few times before finding the next boyfriend.

Redpill believes that looks are the most important aspect of sexual attraction and if a guy is not extremely attractive, women are not sexually attracted to him, blue pill believes personality is the most important aspect of sexual attraction and looks play a minor role.

As evidence blue pill shows how average looking and below average looking men being in relationship with equally or sometimes more attractive women.

Redpill shows how easily good looking men get casual sex than average looking men.

I believe both can be true.

I don't believe dead bedrooms and are good proof of lack of sexual desire for average looking men with good personalities. We don't know if it's only the non Chads that are getting dead bedroomed. Chads can be dead bedroomed. And there are almost equal number of women who complain about not getting enough sex from their husbands. Same with women initiating divorce, we can't know the reason, ofcourse some of it might be because they got bored with the average man but most divorces can have other reasons too. Remember, even Robert pattison, Johnny depp and will Smith can get cheated on.

But there are defenitely exceptions where a woman can be a gold digger. There's a way to circumvent this problem, after establishing a commited relationship, look for signs of disinterest, how frequently SHE initiates sex ( if she liked sex so much before being with you), if she puts as much effort into the relationship as you do. If you're convinced that she's actually sexually attracted to you, your personality, take the relationship to next level but if not back out.