There two kinds of women:

  • Loyal women (self giving, genuine lover):
    • Views marriage as an ultimate expression of love through a shared life between a woman and man
    • She is capable of true love--receiving love and giving love; she's romantic
    • Typically comes from a good home and has a solid relationship with her father and solid relationships elsewhere
    • She excels at building wholesome and healthy relationships
    • Holds herself to a higher standard than others (she's her greatest critic)
    • What the loyal woman wants:
      • Intimacy; Love; Loyalty; Security; Positivity; Encouragement; Masculine leadership; Peace; A good heart
    • She is a giver and is oriented to give herself in service to her man and children (and she is worthy of a man who is a giver, as well). These woman are a gift to their friends, families, communities, and their countries. They preserve virtue/wholesomeness. Wholesome and rightly ordered in their hearts, sexuality, and way of life. Her flaws are minor and even her imperfections are a result of her imperfect virtues, but for the most part, there is more good in her than bad.

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  • Transactional women (self centered, conditional lover):
    • Views men as a means to an end:
      • " In order for the relationship to make sense it has to provide you with something that you can’t get on your own. Once you reach the threshold that you’re literally better off without someone than you are with them…it’s over. If they’re not contributing time, money, energy, sex, or emotional support, and worse yet, taking those things then the relationship has gone from an exchange to a drain." - from a redditor on a Q4W post I made: What are reasons besides abuse and infidelity would you divorce?
    • Her love is strictly conditional; She may be capable of love, but has likely never experienced it so she doesn't know how to give or how to receive it
      • She only gives with the expectation she will receive something in return rather than giving for the sake of love or generosity itself
    • Lacks wholesome and healthy relationships in her life, especially with her father
    • She reserves blame for others and holds herself to a lower standard of behavior than she holds others
    • What she wants:
      • Status (top % of men, etc); Material possessions; Comfort/an easy life;
    • No one is perfect, but these types are a thorn in the world with their fatherless behavior. Sexually disordered, socially disordered, selfish, entitled, self centered, and not a peacemaker.

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EDIT: A lot of transactional women in this post are upset. Notice how they strawman what I say lol