https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFOENB--js8&t=1068s&ab_channel=DylanMcKnight at 14:50 they get into kiss count which isn't exactly the same, but it's similar.

The girl indicates she has a high kiss count, but she is adverse and shy about the question. Which is probably why the guy was uncomfortable, but still completely accepting of her regardless.

When women try to force men/society into not caring about N count or continuously questioning men about why they care, it shows a couple things.

  1. The woman is insecure about her N count and shows that she reacts with hostility about her insecurities.
  2. The woman is a hypocrite, she demands traditional masculine qualities in men such as height, but refuses to uphold traditional feminine qualities for herself.
  3. The woman is on the autism spectrum and is incapable of understanding why things are the way they are (aka doesn't get why having a lot of sex as a man shows that you're desirable either genetically or socially while having a lot of sex as a woman indicates that you're easy for Chads to pump and dump). This is probably the biggest red flag itself because everyone knows now that autism is genetic and having an autistic son is not going to be good.

By being/acting shy about it shows that at the very least she understands that males tend to care about it (shows high EQ), she cares about how the person she's with feels (wants to please her man), and that she doesn't react towards insecurities with aggressiveness (confident person).

In fact I would go as far to say that a high n woman that acts shy about it would more attractive to most men than a low/average N woman that seethes and rages about it because low/average N woman that seethes about men's preference towards N count only shows that she WANTS to "hoe around", but is to insecure and unconfident to do so.