Why didn't #PassportSisters trend before #PassportBros?

wtknight · 2023-04-21T12:12:54+00:00

Men are thirstier than women. Women can also find meaningless casual sex easily. Most men cannot.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-21T10:17:17+00:00

I live in a tourist destination.

Women have been traveling to find sex and partners since... forever?

They just keep it to themselves.

TurtleDickSlap · 2023-04-21T06:37:14+00:00

Women don't leave the west to find relationships. Some leave for sex tourism, but that is the extent of it.

Nowhere in the world do men say "I can't wait to meet a fat, opinionated, western feminist and marry her!" (And yes, most Western women are just that).

The best dating market for Western women is right where they are because most men here don't know what a raw deal they're getting (which ties into why women are trying to shame and silence men who tell other men to get their passports).

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-04-21T06:39:08+00:00

Because at the end of the day Western women's best option for a happy marriage and life is still with Western men. The case of the Passport Bros is completely different where very often their best and highest quality option is dating and marrying overseas.

Pathosgrim · 2023-04-21T05:41:02+00:00

There's no sense of escapism involved in the stories about Women going overseas to find relationships. It isn't impressive at all because the system favors them. They don't have to go overseas because they are the selectors here while men usually have little to no options. The male perspective in passport dating will always get more attention

SkatemanJohn · 2023-04-21T08:41:49+00:00

I live overseas with my poor exploited 2nd world wife who makes as much as I do and who's family benefactored me into my life here. In my experience an American man gets laid here and she follows him everywhere until he escapes or falls in love with her while an American woman gets laid here and he disappears and high fives his bros and talks about how easy foreign girls are.

Clean_Mastodon5285 · 2023-04-21T12:21:00+00:00

Women don't really need to travel overseas to meet men, they choose the men they want but they don't want most of their options and the high value men don't have to settle down with them to have sex with them. Also society outside the west isn't Feminist and is more traditional so the men their wouldn't put up with Western women's behavior.

Passport Bros is the only advantage that Western men have and Western women don't like it cuz it's becoming increasingly popular so they're losing the hold on the dating market. They're best option is to stay in the West

BeepBoop1307 · 2023-04-21T17:53:30+00:00

Simple. There are still many more easily exploitable and traditional western men than there are foreign men.

In a liberal and progressive country (Aka every western one) its a lot easier for a woman to dominate. In a conservative and traditional country (just about every non western one) There is an abundance of women that can satiate a man’s needs and unfortunately for western women, 9/10 times their agenda doesnt include what most men want naturally.

If u want the blunt answer there you go, since a lot of people want to beat around the bush. Western women dont want to be traditional, so of course they dont click with genuine traditional men.

Thekurdishprince · 2023-04-21T08:42:10+00:00

As a man originally from a foreign country ( Middle East ) i can tell you the reason ! We do not tolerate shit that western women do to their men. Even the poorest of men outside the western world have some pride and standards that most western women would not be able to achieve.

The men who have grievance in the west are more traditional and can be attractive to foreign women while the women who blame everything on the patriarchy have no options in foreign countries.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-21T07:32:29+00:00

Because women can find a good husband anytime they want in their local area or country, but their unrealistic standards stops them. Men however do not have unrealistic standards most of the time but finding a kind loyal woman who will accept them for who they are in their country is almost impossible, which is why they try to find an actual traditional wife who will not feel entitled to a top man in other countries.

TheRealGgsjags · 2023-04-21T07:39:06+00:00

Because when a woman travels to europe for a year to "find herself" while having daily trains run her over, it's liberating.

When a guy does the same he's either "insert british word for cig" or he's a colonizing bastard that uses his priviledge to get on with 'exotic' fetish chicks.

OmoshiroiKudamono · 2023-04-21T08:12:42+00:00

Because women do NOT "need" to travel to find a reasonable amount of "good men." They "can," but don't have to.

"Good Men" are men who are

Loyal
Committed
Average/Above average looking
Decent, average/above average salary for a single man
Not a bad person
NOT the "Reddit 'nice guy.'"
NOT a "doormat."

These men can be found by having a MALE FAMILY MEMBER "vet" the potential men.

asdf333aza · 2023-04-21T09:27:45+00:00

Because women complain and call men out on their bullshit. Even if it's something the women do themselves.

A tiny example would be a cheating girlfriend always accusing her man of cheating when she's been cheating the whole time.

A bigger example would be women complaining about men traveling for sex when they've been traveling for sex the whole time. Look into sex tourism is Ghana. Is basically rich affluent European and American women traveling to Africa to fuck young men. Got so bad the president of their country spoke on it. And then we got the ig models getting flown across the world for what? Sex tourism! Women been flying for sex for years.

The only difference is women complain and cry about it in public and men typically just shut up and TRY to mind our own business.

Fearfactoryent · 2023-04-21T13:28:52+00:00

Because western women aren’t attracted to non-western men for the most part.

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2023-04-21T17:44:01+00:00

American women can't use their passports to go to a country to find a man more likely to be high income because America has the largest population of rich men in the world. Some smaller countries may have a higher density of rich men like some of those tiny middle east oil kingdoms, but if a woman finds American men mysogynistic or undesirable, she'll be in for a rude awakening if she uses her passport to try to meet some Saudi psuedo-prince who teaches her how a patriarchy is actually run.

JumboJetz · 2023-04-21T11:34:51+00:00

Women already go to Paris during University and fuck like crazy. Spending a year in a Europe to study or work is women doing this and they’ve done it for decades.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-21T11:47:50+00:00

Because foreign men don't want to marry western women either

nattygang86 · 2023-04-21T11:20:40+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRTrkRG7/

that's just a gold digger that needed to travel.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-21T05:30:26+00:00

Because when men do something

The whole world wants in

"Why didn't we beat to the punch"

It's because yall are probably not wanted after hearing what's happening in western dating

Extra-Confection-706 · 2023-04-21T19:58:01+00:00

Because people like to go there where they find the BEST dating market for themselves.

Western women were already born into the BEST dating market in the world for women. Sure they can go to África to get some dick but suddenly she has become the provider. Most women dont want that lmao. Its not like some White european woman goes to Nigeria and finds some rich Hot black dude with a Big dick thats wants to marry her. She Will find some Young broke dude with a Big dick thats wants to fuck her and get some money. Majority of women CAN EASILY FIND THAT IN THEIR HOME COUNTRY AS WELL.

Compare that to a western Guy going to Colombia or thailand or whatever. He can find a good looking woman, that is submissive, can Cook, has family values and whatever. HE CANT FIND THAT EASILY IN HIS HOME COUNTRY.

Its beyond me how women dont see the difference. First women need to understand whats dating like for a man before starting to ask stupid questions.

bodhasattva · 2023-04-22T01:32:43+00:00

BC the onus of approach is on men...

a #passportsister can fly to spain all she wants, it doesnt mean el' prince charming is going to approach her...

Ok_Entrepreneur2931 · 2023-04-21T05:38:48+00:00

Women are melodramatic and their "grievances" against men are by and large exaggerated. It's that simple.

And with regards to looking for a husband specifically, well, there are proportionally far more wealthy men in the US than almost anywhere else in the world. Incomes tend to be higher and there is more income inequality.

Reptheft · 2023-04-21T05:54:45+00:00

My question is 👉 if both sides are disgruntled... why are only the men seeking greener pastures so much they have a "movement"?

Because men have less options and are more desperate.

And women can't necessarily find the men they want in other countries either.

Only in a limited amount of countries does the average man actually have a high SMV. Women aren't trying to hunt broke short guys with patriarchal beliefs in the 3rd world. Meanwhile passport bros love the female equivalents of those men.

Supreme_Salt_Lord · 2023-04-21T17:23:38+00:00

Men are looking to find a woman who looks good and will put up with them and their shit so they go to a poorer country where they instantly get to be extremely picky.

Example: I can go to Colombia and get a 8-10 without putting in any effort and she will put up with me because im offering her a better life in the USA.

Women are looking for different things in men. Most poor countries are more conservative so its likely these values wont align with a woman who has the money to travel to these countries.

Its just what women and men want in partners are different on the extremes. Its kinda off putting to be a passport bro. I can understand going there for sexwork but to find a wife, i think you should level up your game and do better.

Neat_Coyote_8187 · 2023-04-21T19:24:57+00:00

Tbh finding a partner while travelling around the world has been a thing for a while. It's just that the passport bros movement is saying the quiet part out loud.

missionarymechanic · 2023-04-21T20:36:13+00:00

Women tend to have much stronger connections to family and community, and that becomes a critical feature when considering that raising a family of your own can be a communal effort. Even in the missionary world, single female missionaries tend to outnumber single male ones by anywhere for 5 to 8-to-1... however. In addition to outnumbering us, the women also have a higher turnover rate. Men tend to marry into the community or other missionaries, the women typically just go home.

Some points:

Western women typically do not agree with the local culture, or at least their perceptions of it, in terms of the expectations of women or how they are treated. (And I'm not saying that they're wrong in their perceptions, but it's certainly not an acceptable fit. In the missionary world, it's highly problematic to show up and judge a culture you know nothing about as an outsider. Influence takes time and respectability, but we're not supposed to be there to spread our social culture in the first place.)
Classism: (It goes both ways. I guess you could call it "hypergamy" from the women's end.) There is a very real feel that women from rich countries view men from poor ones as beneath them. There is also some trepidation and inferiority complex from local men on how to date someone who is perceived to have more money/clout than they have, and will likely ever achieve.
More austere conditions: Much of the world is actually extremely poor. Using a "squatty" and forgoing a certain amount of hygiene and access to medical services is easier for men.
2nd and 3rd world countries can be more dangerous for women.
Economic expectations: Assuming living off the local wages and opportunities, Western men would outperform Western women. Men generally don't care what women bring financially as long as it isn't debt/expense. Meanwhile, women tend to appreciate being elevated economically. The global conditioning is that "men are to be providers."
Behavior: Believe me when I say that, as a man, if you're a chump in your passport country, you'll probably be one in your new country, too. Having money and offering an egalitarian relationship doesn't mean anything if you are not primarily perceived as a dominant man. And women?... I'm sorry, but a lot of Western women have behave in ways that are considered highly unfeminine or not respectable around the world. (It's not without its merit, btw.)

As an example of that last point, we had a team of Americans over to help with a Summer camp. We had some high schoolers playing a game of "steal the bacon" with a giant beach-ball thing. Anytime there was a boy/girl face-off, the girl would kind of daintily run up and "lose" while the boy won with little effort. You could very much see the "roles" each was playing... However...

This one American girl? She went full send. She absolutely fought like hell for the win and nearly got it, and the boy was no wimp, either. But, eventually the boy got it. To see the dynamics was incredibly interesting. (This one local "tomboy" had the best expression, though. Like: "Wait... You can do that?!") Afterwards, both the local girls and especially the local boys had no idea what to do with the American girls anymore. The culture clash was absolutely palpable.

reise123rr · 2023-04-21T22:08:27+00:00

In the UK and other Western Europeans go to Nigeria and Ghana for some toy boys.

Notsonewguy7 · 2023-04-21T12:08:52+00:00

The difference is the passport bros are going to non-european countries and for most people in the west they've always assumed European countries or Western countries or white countries are what all men assume view as the most attractive people.

I asked a question here once about this issue which I really have no concern about but I got no answer I'm asking again. What if the reason people are picking these countries besides the the arguments of traditionalism or of submissiveness which I think is mostly b******* from a lot of people it's because they're just not into white women and most of the countries that the women go to that are passport sisters are European countries.

So many people talk about the third world nature of it but I'm looking at it from a purely visual perspective if I'm not into white women why the f*** would I go to Germany or France or Italy there's nothing for me there I mean there's some good things I can take pictures of but the women that I'm attracted to would already be in the minority there and the few that are there would probably be there to seek men from that culture hey more power to them but if I'm not into white women why would I go to a white country.

I said this on this website I said this in real life so many times and people are so dismissive of it in general if you give certain groups of men a choice they will pick women that have complexion similar to them are those countries First World countries by and large for some of these men or are they second or third world countries?

KayRay1994 · 2023-04-21T13:22:15+00:00

i think a few things are in play

1) most, if not all “passport sisters” usually aim for richer men, while many passport bros tend to not only go for poor, but also often young women - so it had this gold digger vs predator effect. Both are obviously wrong, but one is worse than the other.

2) women who don’t like passport bros call out passport bros FAR MORE than men who don’t like “passport sisters” do

3) passport bros are flat out much whinier about justifying being passport bros- you never see a gold digger actively try to argue her way into being right (at most they brag), while what most passport bros (or rather, most passport bro wannabes) do is just complain non stop and whine.

Such-Midnight4438 · 2023-08-25T09:49:19+00:00

Coz women don’t generally have money to travel unless they bf pays for it. Pretty simple.

orthognathist · 2023-04-21T11:04:52+00:00

It’s funny when people talk shit about the others here being terminally online

It’s like turning to the your classmate next to you and saying, "wow bro you're in the stupid people class" buddy, you're in the same room as him lmao

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-04-21T16:47:18+00:00

Because passport bros won’t shut up about it. And keep commenting it everywhere

Cupcakelover1985 · 2023-04-21T07:40:06+00:00

Women did beat men to the punch. They’re just more lowkey about it. A lot of women travel bloggers/vloggers end up marrying men from other countries and they either expatriate or vouch to bring him to her country. It depends on which decision is more financially sound for them as a couple. They just don’t make it their personality in the same way men do. Their focus as women tends to be culture shocks moving to a new country, or cultural/language differences between them and their husband. If they have kids they discuss how they’ll raise them in a bicultural/bilingual home etc.

So women are doing it too they just go about it in a different way than “passportbros”

megacope · 2023-04-22T01:04:27+00:00

Maybe women are just doing and not bragging about it or discussing it.

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Fearfactoryent · 2023-04-21T13:28:01+00:00

Have you never seen 90 day fiancé? Lol

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-04-22T08:18:49+00:00

Because the women doing it were likely just going their own way at the time didn't feel a need to create a hashtag for it but once they saw the men doing it thought they'd make one "for the girls".

HinduProphet · 2023-04-22T11:50:04+00:00

Because..... Hypergamy.

Women won't be able to find someone better because they already live in the best country in the world.

Title	Why didn't #PassportSisters trend before #PassportBros?
Author	Windmill_flowers
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Date	April 21, 2023 5:20 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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