So you read it right for men AND women alike if height is a dealbreaker than you can never truly love your partner.
Let me first say this..everyone has their own right to preferences, BUT I have the right to comment on them 😅.
So as human beings we ALL know for a good majority of people today wanting to genuinely love and grow with someone isn’t the driving force behind getting relationships. For most people it’s always a myriad of selfish self serving motivations.
That being said
He/She is too tall or short= I won’t date him/ her because of the brand of phone they have.
Realistically when actual genuine good hearted people are looking for a relationship they usually have these as a PRIORITY.
1). [Sexual attractiveness] ✅
This is a no brainer you can’t have a sexual romantic relationship with someone who you just can’t view sexually by any means no harm no foul. Too gnuine people looks are not EVERYTHING but they’re still important.
2.) [Goals] ✅
You gotta have life goals that are at least somewhat compatible so that the direction of the relationship isn’t utter complete chaos lol.
3). [Morals & Values] ✅
When genuine people are looking for a partner morals & values in their potential partner are just as important as looks. Physical beauty is only skin deep and we’ll all eventually lose some good qualities of our physicality to a certain capacity.
Now if you ask the average person who has height as a dealbreaker from my experience you’ll usually get one of these answers. ————————————————————————— Male Answer:
“ Uh..I just feel like I should be taller than my girl that’s all “. ————————————————————————— Female Answers:
“ I feel more feminine when my man is taller than me “.
“ I feel safe “.
“ I want to be able to look up at my man “. —————————————————————————
Now in reality women have height as a dealbreaker WAY more often than men but I just included it from both genders because it’s silly on both sides lol. But really sit down and have a conversation with people who have this dealbreaker.
If height doesn’t make you ugly, doesn’t effect goals, and it doesn’t make you moral or immoral then as a person claiming to want a genuine relationship what fundamental priorities that make relationships successful is height breaching 🤔?
NONE height breaches nothing!!
Just the same as having or not having an IPhone doesn’t breach any fundamental priority that genuine successful relationships have.
A side note. Being taller than your woman doesn’t mean your more masculine. It doesn’t even mean she’s even more safe with you.
Being shorter than your man doesn’t make you more feminine. It doesn’t mean you’re safer either.
Being masculine makes you masculine and being feminine makes you feminine.
So question for all the people with height as a deal breaker. How do you truly love your partner if the ONE thing that qualifies or disqualifies them is a superficial preference that they just so happened to posses by sure chance?
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