Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?

5ive_Rivers · 2022-07-11T00:16:54+00:00

Go do genuinely interesting things that take you into public interactions. You're more likely to be confident in those settings anyway. Talk to girls without attachment to the outcome.

Business_Photograph4 · 2022-07-11T03:29:34+00:00

Dance classes. Latin Dance classes. Volunteer Events. Also adding cooking classes, and wine tasting.

FlatDistance5 · 2022-07-11T05:04:36+00:00

I’m not either, but when I was actively dating, all the girls I dated i met while I was shopping, some were at work, met a few at the gas station. Just approach during your daily travels. And if you live in a major metro, options outside of bars and OLD shouldn’t be an issue

ANOTHER THING- men don’t approach these days. So you’ll definitely set yourself apart. Especially with the hot ones

ANOTHER NOTHER THING- you can’t just be another guy. Look your best, as best you can when you leave the house. Get inshape to increase your chances…… that’s it

Embarrassed_Peace277 · 2022-07-11T00:01:26+00:00

Although it’s probably bad advice, i’ve met a few partners from work. Festivals and car meets are my other go to options, not a big fan of cold approaching in shops or on the street personally

awhitesong · 2022-07-11T02:37:22+00:00

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EARLY20RAG3R · 2022-07-11T00:58:46+00:00

On the street

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-07-11T00:52:10+00:00

I don't yesterday met girl at coffee shop department store, video game store and on the street.

burakbenxd · 2022-07-11T01:19:32+00:00

Day game it man. Wish I was into this seduction shit back in undergrad. Spent too many years studying like a fucking nerd for 10-12 hours a day, neglected literally everything and starting from the ground up.

2022-07-11T01:01:28+00:00

Dating apps (w/ an optimized profile including professional photos and well thought out bios/prompts.

Irl... Literally anywhere. Grocery stores, book stores, parks, college campuses, etc...

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-07-11T00:42:36+00:00

Daytime cold approach

Economy_Bit_5980 · 2022-07-11T05:13:43+00:00

USE meetup. Great app.

Grow new interests that involve other human beings like DND or sports.

jacobortega72 · 2022-07-10T23:39:02+00:00

APPROACH GIRLS ON THE STREET

AnnonymousSkeptic · 2022-07-11T02:45:11+00:00

Pray to god

ChaosApollo · 2022-07-11T12:37:50+00:00

Get a dog and sit in a cafe

Very-Dominic · 2022-07-11T01:14:07+00:00

In the shopping centre it’s a good place

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-11T00:35:30+00:00

Gym, grocery store, laundry mat, and the parking lots there of.

You have to be willing to approach them when the opportunity is presented.

Honestly, there's much less opportunity than going to clubs or bars.

CutMonster · 2022-07-11T02:15:40+00:00

Volunteer orgs.

newonedxct · 2022-07-11T06:07:02+00:00

Dreams

SeanBatemanJr · 2022-07-11T12:20:28+00:00

Go to public places with highest concentrations of cute girls alone and in pairs (coffee shops, parks), spend a couple hours of their peak concentration a day there and approach the ones you like directly (with a compliment and proposition to exchange social media). An even simpler way is joining some classes, like yoga, or something you are genuinely interested in (for your «like-minded» part).

steppingoncracks101 · 2022-07-11T01:40:42+00:00

You gotta go to a nice place, a quiet place like a library, there's good women there and 'erm, church, they're good girls.

unabletodisplay · 2022-07-11T02:04:04+00:00

Do you guys think is a good idea to go to night clubs for a serious relationship? Should i go alone?

WestXD · 2022-07-11T05:19:55+00:00

Connections

marshmellow0134 · 2022-07-11T06:11:59+00:00

The book store, quiet coffee shops, witchy stores, stores in general. Think where do I find an introvert? There will be extroverts there too but idk what your type is you are looking for. I think a bookstore or boutique is a good shot.

Shadowfury957 · 2022-07-11T12:42:30+00:00

Grocery store

MikeLiterace · 2022-07-11T22:35:46+00:00

I know it’s pretty scary but if you see a pretty girl in public you should just go and try to spark up a conversation with them. Obviously don’t approach them if they don’t look like they wanna be approached though.

I know it takes a lot of confidence but if you keep in mind that you’ll probably never see her again, the prospect of rejection isn’t nearly as scary. Think of it this way: you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

Will you approach a woman, spark a convo and end up dating her? Probably not but you’ll never know until you try. Who knows, you might end up with a funny interaction or a good friend instead! Just make sure you’re friendly and respectful. Bonus points if you approach a woman at an establishment that has something to do with something you like or a hobby like sports or music because then you have something in common.

As for you getting in shape, a positive mind set etc, keep it up bro we’re all glad to hear it!

rudebwoy100 · 2022-07-10T23:59:27+00:00

Sounds like you should be hitting up a church or mosque.

2022-07-11T05:57:02+00:00

There’s lots of things you could do, doesn’t have to be group activities but that might be easier. Take up dance lessons, play a sport, join a book club or archery club, join a cooking class. Those are some things you could do.

Twisted_Paranoia · 2022-07-11T14:16:31+00:00

I heard selling drugs gets u laid? Or something like that...

awakened_celestial · 2022-07-11T07:39:21+00:00

Maybe go outside? You’ll probably find one walking on the sidewalk. /s

2022-07-11T06:01:27+00:00

Women dont want something casual. They just dont want something with you.

lokeshchaudhari · 2022-07-11T05:18:08+00:00

Target is the latest fad!!!

TaskCurrent · 2022-07-11T05:59:52+00:00

Join interest groups and make connections from there.

2022-07-11T06:37:59+00:00

Obviously you should go to some places, where you need to interact with other people, preferably with something interesting/exciting going on. But first, I feel that you should just practice talking to strangers. You may also meet new girls on parties with friends, if that is still a viable option for you.

NinaCR33 · 2022-07-11T08:19:51+00:00

Oh my man I’m so tired after work that I read the title as “where do I meet women if I’m not into cuddling…” lol that’s not clearly what it says but I thought for a second: “No where my friend, no chance” lol

modidlee · 2022-07-11T09:00:52+00:00

Women are literally everywhere. When you’re grocery shopping, women are there. When you stop at the gas station to fill up your tank, women are there. When you’re at the bookstore or library, women are there. You just have to figure out how to start conversations without coming across like you’re doing “pick-up.”

purplewhiteblack · 2022-07-11T10:01:02+00:00

Pizza Hut

TusharDaniel · 2022-07-11T10:06:22+00:00

Go to the Bookstore at lunch. There's tons of cuties and it's easy to talk to them. :)

RexTheOnion · 2022-07-11T10:07:29+00:00

bookstores, boba shops, Sephora, target.

SylAbys · 2022-07-11T11:33:39+00:00

By literally just going out doing life. The problems is figuring out which are approachable

Datingcoachcee · 2022-07-11T11:55:16+00:00

Daytime approaching and social activities my friend!

Ciefyism · 2022-07-11T12:20:00+00:00

Target

red__what · 2022-07-11T13:14:58+00:00

Aggressive_Soil_5134 · 2022-07-11T13:50:09+00:00

Just go about your day and if you see a women your interested in then approach her.

david10277 · 2022-07-11T14:08:38+00:00

Passport stamps..my friend

Go fly somewhere outside your home country

majormajorsnowden · 2022-07-11T14:33:13+00:00

Friends

herendzer · 2022-07-11T14:41:22+00:00

Target. If you can approach women, Target seems to be a place to meet women

sippycupjoe · 2022-07-11T15:06:27+00:00

Coffee shops, Volunteer to help out the community.

V4refugee · 2022-07-11T15:12:45+00:00

Groups and clubs, depends on what you are into though. What are you in to?

Scoliosissucks · 2022-07-11T15:34:41+00:00

Through friends. My friends who are in relationships have SOs with friends which is the best way in my opinion. Then they’re vetted out

2022-07-11T15:40:26+00:00

You mentioned that you wanted like-minded women, but you didn't really tell us what you "like".

Do you like hiking? Do you like gaming? Do you like playing softball? No fucking clue...

life_long_learnerabc · 2022-07-11T15:42:03+00:00

Dance classes might help.

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-07-11T15:56:40+00:00

DAY GAME

deep2021 · 2022-07-11T16:15:00+00:00

Take a dance course. Meetup app if you are in a big city and join the activities you like

Freezerburn · 2022-07-11T16:41:36+00:00

You must decide for yourself what you want in a woman, do you want a healthy woman that's adventurous? Go do HIIT workout classes to tune up your body if you want something extra make sure to show you can provide the goods too. Rock Climbing, paddle boarding, hiking look for facebook groups and just go. Make friends with guys cause all guys know girls too.

2022-07-11T16:42:15+00:00

Have the courage to compliment women and make your shot. You just gotta try! Men are scared to approach women but honestly it’s so important that the Man finds you attractive and thinks you’re worth the pursuit. Just try!!!

trendafili_i_zi · 2022-07-11T17:13:03+00:00

in your dreams

r1chard3 · 2022-07-11T17:48:42+00:00

Take a dance class. I have friends who insist that learning to dance has changed their life. You can literally sweep a woman off her feet. Toss her around and she’ll be giggling and having the time of her life. You will become a sought after person.

Substantial_Body_774 · 2022-07-11T17:59:31+00:00

Go to church if your a Christian- or not idk

AlucardxMaria · 2022-07-11T18:10:38+00:00

Try a festival or meet up groups

Chow5789 · 2022-07-11T18:34:06+00:00

It's said that what you like to do is where you will find them. So examples you like to be at home. The girl will be at home (maybe try library for this example or think of what hobbies a homebody would have) Like the gym? Go find her at the gym, library, coffee shop, club, grocery store, hiking, etc.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-07-11T19:39:46+00:00

Laundry room. Whole Foods cafeteria . Solid places to pull and get some work done

bobolly · 2022-07-11T20:15:34+00:00

Coffee shops. Girls love coffee.

SamuRonin90 · 2022-07-11T21:09:24+00:00

Wow dude, how did you get laid before? I don’t need healing, what I need is opposite of you. I want all the pain which comes with girls in life, I want to experience shit and then come to a realization that what I have is good.

2022-07-12T00:13:52+00:00

Sometimes local events are a good place to meet people. That's how I met someone once. I was with friends at a faire and before I knew it I had a date the next day

Title	Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?
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Date	July 10, 2022 11:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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