Where do I find Girls?

dillpiccolol · 2012-05-27T18:05:51+00:00

anywhere but the internet

calonord · 2012-05-27T14:42:57+00:00

HBO Sundays

concretebox · 2012-05-27T17:33:08+00:00

Finish line of a woman's 10k.
Anywhere there's a sale on shoes.
High School parking lots (yes they do, yes they do).

2012-05-27T14:54:16+00:00

Street, Coffee shop. Places where people are, outside of your house generally.

breadrising · 2012-05-27T16:50:48+00:00

This is something better suited for /r/askseddit or even /r/askwomen but:

Coffee shops
Grocery stores
Concerts
Gym
Anywhere there are people

4FF41R · 2012-05-27T16:54:22+00:00

Forget about girls! Where do you find yourself? Your social self?

Seduction is about confidence, confidence that you are living your own life on your own term, and that has tremendous attraction value for anyone. Once you live your own life, and interact with like-minded people, you can be selective on who's your friend (male and female), and who you are going to be intimate with, for how long, and how often.

Girls are people, and people are everywhere, school, work, places where you go to entertain yourself like bars, cafes', concerts, museums, sporting events.....

jigilous · 2012-05-27T16:27:39+00:00

Outside. Go there.

bentika · 2012-05-27T17:22:37+00:00

Fort collins sucks in the summer bro. Head on down to Denver. Its funny when you said "all the parties i go to have no new girls" i was like oh that sounds a lot like my hometown. Then BAM northern colorado hahah.

2012-05-27T20:37:51+00:00

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2012-05-27T22:15:53+00:00

There are special terrariums where girls are housed. If you can find a well-heated terrarium (obviously because women are cold-blooded), they'll be less sluggish and more interested in being approached.

nekothecat · 2012-05-27T17:03:52+00:00

Join cosmetology school.....trust me.

2012-05-27T19:11:18+00:00

Target and church. Seriously.

toukee · 2012-05-27T20:55:08+00:00

If you do the things you love to do then you will find girls that also love that things you do. Also try new things. For example, 2 years ago I finally decided to learn social and ballroom dancing, and let me tell you...there are a lot of ladies into that.

rococo78 · 2012-05-27T21:11:58+00:00

Library. Coffeeshop. Book store. Mall. Clothing store. Park. Festivals. Around town. Everywhere really.

When I was getting started I used to go a couple towns over so I could take my lumps without it getting back to people I knew at home.

lilnba93 · 2012-05-28T00:21:02+00:00

DAYGAME- starbucks, around outdoor malls, bookstores, music shop

Blue_Link · 2012-05-28T01:12:16+00:00

BARNES AND NOBLE MAN. or any book store! I tell every guy friend this. Good quality girls go there and it opens up for interesting conversations there. They may or may not be taken thats something you can find out. worked for me countless times i promise you

EatMorePaint · 2012-05-28T01:49:46+00:00

Drive around on rainy nights and offer stray girls rides. Boo ya!

VMikeL · 2012-05-27T14:57:58+00:00

Literally, go to an area with high human traffic... A hot girl will walk passed you every 30 seconds-5 minutes. I have literally number closed, and just as I'm typing in her name, another hot girl has walked passed, and I open her as well.

But ultimately the best results will come from places that have the type of girls you like go.

SweetLeafKush · 2012-05-27T16:39:12+00:00

Outside. And craigslist

evolve18 · 2012-05-27T19:23:56+00:00

I think the question is great, but a lot of the advice you have been given here is total shit. If you approach meeting women as "going to the right place," you're missing a huge point of the game. Now don't get me wrong, you asked a question and these fine gentlemen provided you an answer, but I am going to encourage you to think of the lack of women in your area as an opportunity.

Let me ask a few questions first: 1) are you in shape? 2) what was the last book you read? 3) what was the last day-trip adventure you took? 4) the last documentary you saw? 5) the last meal you cooked (not picked up, but cooked from start to finish)? 6) are you working this summer? 7) are you taking any summer classes?

A big part of meeting women, both this summer and when you head back to school, is being a person. What things have you done that make you interesting? Sometimes, those places where you do the things you love are the best and easiest places to meet women. You have no hobbies? Fine. This is the summer you will try everything and anything. Perhaps you won't meet a ton of women, but when you get back to school, you will have a ton of stories and ideas and experiences that make you that much more interesting, thereby giving you more to talk about with women you meet.

Also...what the fuck are dances? There are organized dances for people over the high school age? Is this a church thing?

adolfhatesjuice · 2012-05-27T21:28:13+00:00

http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3ph09y/

IAmTheOmNom · 2012-05-27T17:31:38+00:00

go to the park.

PessimistPrime · 2012-05-27T18:04:07+00:00

Take Ballet dancing classes. I'm serious.

2012-05-27T17:18:17+00:00

http://youtu.be/h1CvTlQSrYY

skizatch · 2012-05-27T19:53:06+00:00

It's summer, so ... go outside

bandito5280 · 2012-05-27T20:41:00+00:00

Go to Denver. There are cafés called Leela(17th and stout) and Paris on the Platte (by Denver skatepark) that have a lot of people, leela is 24 hours and on the weekends there are a lot of people around 10 to about 230 Same thing goes with Paris on the Platte. But go to Denver for things like Zombie Crawl/pillow fight. There are a lot of things like 1st Friday on Santa Fe too.

Just hang out down there, and don't be shy!

2012-05-28T14:55:10+00:00

I'd imagine you're somewhere around FoCo. Go there. There's an excellent concert venue in the downtown college area that was swarming with girls your age the last few times I have been there.

Protip: Don't park in the Arbys, fuckers towed my car.

bigdickplayaswinglow · 2012-05-27T22:27:09+00:00

Try volunteering! I know it sounds lame but I ran a 10km race in my city the other day and all the water stations had the HOTTEST girls! Just wanted to stop running take a break and chat them up!

Seriously though find something your interested in and be social with the people doing that same activity. Sign up for a dodgeball team maybe! Just remember to always be positive and good things will cum your way :)

SarenAtrius · 2012-05-27T18:50:44+00:00

Right here.

lickmyplum · 2012-05-27T17:09:04+00:00

Got a dog? Try the dog park.

ninestep · 2012-05-28T01:15:53+00:00

still havn't mentioned any of the best spots. Rallys - protests - call centers- spas- dance classes - tango and salsa and bachata (the more sensual the more they are there and they usually outnumber the men 4 to 1.) festivals - car shows- concerts- kareoke- happy hours- movies-

blue_strat · 2012-05-27T21:03:45+00:00

In the park. Take up jogging, get a dog, stand by a playground and compare the children in a carrying voice.

2012-05-27T22:56:35+00:00

The pool

stfuendie · 2012-05-27T16:01:29+00:00

church

Frogtech · 2012-05-27T16:51:35+00:00

Summer job?

DarthBrooks · 2012-05-27T16:21:09+00:00

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MrFunnycat · 2012-05-27T16:35:52+00:00

Try looking for clubs that play music that you actually like, live music places maybe.

magicroot75 · 2012-05-27T17:53:41+00:00

Get into the friend circles of the girls you do know. New hangouts, new experiences, most likely new girls. Fort Collins has a ton of shops, find one that fits you and hang out there.

Bobsutan · 2012-05-28T08:30:50+00:00

My uncle gave me great advice when I was a kid. If you want to know where to go to meet girls, read chick magazines and look up where they tell girls to go to meet boys, then go to those places.

A more specific answer is to look at your hobbies. Which ones do women tend to participate in more than others? Focus on those until you start meeting women regularly. If none of your hobbies have women involved then it's time to try new things.

davidhaha · 2012-05-31T00:31:11+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4kVWCSzfK4&t=15

crooks5001 · 2012-05-28T00:37:11+00:00

walmart

2012-05-28T01:51:33+00:00

Relay for Life.

adriens · 2012-05-28T02:15:18+00:00

clothes stores. pick up a blazer while you're there.

jimmyttu16 · 2012-05-27T19:49:52+00:00

Your in College, you need to get involved with clubs your passionate about and meet EVERYONE through that. You need to love meeting new people, because they will like you and introduce you to new people.

Also your 18, so you might not like drinking now but don't get stuck in that stance. Like most things, alcohol is great in small doses and terrible in big ones.

spenserbot · 2012-05-27T20:41:52+00:00

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voxpupil · 2012-05-27T17:06:43+00:00

Law school library

2012-05-28T04:50:20+00:00

Church girls; stay away.

allgrownzup · 2012-06-02T02:39:56+00:00

where whores go

squarehouse · 2012-05-27T16:33:30+00:00

Just follow the rainbow...

2012-05-27T17:38:03+00:00

IN INTERNET DAMMIT! My friend has found some AMAZING CHICK(girl) three years ago.

MZITF · 2012-05-27T16:06:43+00:00

OK Cupid

callmechad · 2012-05-27T20:24:57+00:00

in my basement

mrzack · 2012-05-27T17:12:16+00:00

I am currently living in Northern Colorado.

dat's ur probwem. hawt bitches congregate in places like LA, South Beach, Manhattan etc...

Title	Where do I find Girls?
Author	jordan9001
Upvotes	104
Comments	212
Date	May 27, 2012 2:39 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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