[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)

TheMadMax · 2013-07-22T20:08:06+00:00

She said she is more interested in older guys and didn't want me to get any hopes out of this (friendzone), I said "watch out, when I get out of my playpen I'm going to steal your heart". She didn't get it, I negged (or Insulted? I don't know) her with "you still want an older guy but can't even get the jokes from younger ones". Turns out she misinterpreted it. What now? I'm confused.

argiris · 2013-07-22T22:24:38+00:00

If you have a job that you know might suprise the other person in a positive way, lets say a Formula 1 driver or a fighter pilot, how and when should you bring that up? I'm wondering because of several reasons:

The other person doesn't think you are bragging.
So you know they are not interrested just because of your career.

SirLickzAlot · 2013-07-22T23:27:49+00:00

I work at an ice cream shop right on the beach. So I get a lot of good looking girls who come in my age(19). How can I get some numbers? I try to be talkative and insist on them trying different flavors to keep them engaged but I can never seem to #close. Any advice would be appreciated.

bl1y · 2013-07-22T21:16:08+00:00

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DunkingDonut · 2013-07-22T19:42:16+00:00

Does this work for teenagers?

Captain_Unremarkable · 2013-07-23T00:46:57+00:00

I'm great at #-closing but terrible at getting that to first date. I call, I get voicemail. I text, I get no response--and if I do it's not serious.

Other than "build more attraction before you #-close," what are some pointers on doing better?

Oniroi · 2013-07-22T17:49:46+00:00

I think about filming my wing and me. Any tips for equipment to get good sound and video and how to do it?

logicallyillogical · 2013-07-22T22:25:54+00:00

I'm 26 and the girl is 26. We are pretty much becoming a booty call. I want her to be my girlfriend. How do I make this happen? Or should I just let it be and enjoy the booty call?

Daltonman45 · 2013-07-23T04:51:25+00:00

I am with this girl who is interested in me. The thing is. She never makes the first move. Ever. I always have to try to, and it doesn't always work. Is there anyway I can get her to start making first moves if possible. I just love when a girl can make the first move.

ricemanh · 2013-07-23T17:00:29+00:00

How could I have responded better when a girl asks me about what I do for a living and I try to play with her answer by giving something completely playfully fabricated and my mate goes and tells her what I really do?

PunkRockRocks · 2013-07-22T18:34:43+00:00

So, it's generally a good idea to say 'hi', but how do I continue the conversation after that?

LaMadreDeStacy · 2013-07-22T19:16:46+00:00

What's your way to open groups during the day?

Bonus: you can't say something like "by not."

CamelTowing · 2013-07-22T21:50:40+00:00

I'm 19 and don't have a car nor someone to borrow one from. And I feel a taxi would be too expensive and weird to have a choefur (spelling) quietly listening to our conversation. How should I take a girl (presuming she doesn't have a car either) on a date? Do we just catch the bus, I tell her to meet me there or just walk to nearby destinations?

turtle_thunder · 2013-07-22T22:13:02+00:00

How do you deal with a girl that's depressed? It seems high energy people turn them off, but being low energy isn't ideal either. I want to show her fun and happiness, but still use game and close.

Lanai · 2013-07-22T18:37:42+00:00

I'm having difficulties getting myself to date. I have no problems with approaching, escalating and number closing. I have difficulties convincing myself to follow up and meet them again. How can I convince myself to start actually dating and developing actual relationships with women rather than just collecting numbers.

SingAlong_Original · 2013-07-22T19:52:51+00:00

Simple hand rules you follow? Like how do you remember what to ask her, rules for your text game, guideline for pulling, etc.

TallVikingThrowaway · 2013-07-23T01:20:26+00:00

Met this really cute girl on saturday, she was pretty fit and one brief conversation topic was working out.

I'm contemplating taking her for a run as a date. Is this i a good idea? If so any tips?

ericxfresh · 2013-07-23T02:26:42+00:00

What are the rules of engagement in a business environment? My leasing agent was displaying IOIs, but I'm not sure that I want to shit where I sleep, if she was just flirting to attract business, or how to escalate beyond a business relationship. There is an open house tomorrow for a house I may rent, and she gave me her cell number to call about the house.

whiteHippo · 2013-07-23T03:01:19+00:00

How do I pick up conservative Asian girls ? (I'm in Singapore now, and am asian too)

TheMadMax · 2013-07-23T05:37:40+00:00

_egal drinking age is 16 in my country, but bars are 18+. How can I use this ?

teleportingtoast · 2013-07-23T06:05:44+00:00

little background: Sophomore in college studying engineering and a student athlete. I am living in my own in Portland, a city I am pretty new to. I am a virgin, but I feel that doesnt hold me back. I want to learn to art of pick-up to get the women and become a leader of men.

Finished reading The Game and I am Halfway through How to Win Friends and Influence People. I have decided that I am going to make cold reading my bitch and use that as a skill to demonstrate value, build rapport, and just help with my conversation skills. I haven't starting my 100 sets or done any newbie missions.

Questions: What should my next steps be? What does a 19 year old guy do in a city he hasn't completely explored?

husgutt · 2013-07-23T07:39:30+00:00

I'm gonna meet a friend in an hour. Hang out from 10:30 am to about 12:30 am.

I've known her for about 10 years, but only through other friends. Never been really close friends.

I think she is cool, but I want to get to know her under her skin.

We made out a couple of times many years ago, and I think it's in the air that I'm into her. I don't think it is reciprocated.

I'm not sure what she thinks this meetup is, but I am a bit afraid to get friendzoned if I'm not enough sexual. However, I'm also afraid to push her away if I am.

Any ideas? Thanks!

xNaDx · 2013-07-23T08:48:33+00:00

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roflmof · 2013-07-23T09:26:10+00:00

"Can you buy me a drink/do this for me/hold this?" A COUNTLESS amount of guys are willing to do this 'small' shit for women but the truth is is that it makes you seem like you'll wait on her hand and foot, so that's what she'll begin to treat you as--her butler.*

this was in the common shit test guide. i was really often willing to help her but then i read that and tried to say no. but its so awkward to answer why i wont do it. i think its somewhat rude. and the girl looks angry and confused which wont help my cause

how do i overcome this?

didaskalos · 2013-07-23T18:36:59+00:00

What books would you recommend to someone who needs to gain confidence in himself?

OneWhoDoubts · 2013-07-24T04:23:54+00:00

Q: How can I make an inexperienced girl more comfortable with phisical interaction ?

Context: I've been flirting back and forth with a girl I met trough a friends a couple of weeks ago, the other day at the club I went for the kiss even when my windows was already close, and got a hug, a kiss in the neck and a " next time ".. I didn't fucked it up so bad, so she agreed to a date next friday, the thing is, she's 18 and for what have been told, a virgin and never had a boyfriend. the no baggage thing sounds like it will slow things down, but could be good. She seems insterested, and responded positively to my touch barrier test.

hamhamt · 2013-07-24T05:55:32+00:00

made plans with a girl ive liked for a long time, the day of the date comes by and I text her asking where she lived so I can pick her up.

she tells me she forgot about the date. i tell her to let me know next time she is available. its been about 2 weeks and I don't plan on hearing back from her.

should I have scheduled the date closer to when I asked her to hang out or was my fault perhaps just due to probability? she seemed receptive over facebook when I asked.

Chupacabrapenguin · 2013-07-25T19:43:35+00:00

So I've been meaning to ask this question for a while now and didn't think it warranted an entire post but can you still practice seduction before you've built or even decided on your "attractive lifestyle"? I used to have more meaning to my life than I do now (hobbies, goals, etc) and I'm starting to try to get back into that rhythm again where I have drive and passion for things. But can I still practice game if I don't know myself yet? I feel like sexual frustration holds me back from finding things that I love and being happy with my life and that it might be hard to appreciate other aspects of life while leaving my sex life on the back burner.

i_beep_to_the_boop · 2013-07-26T04:29:29+00:00

I've had a lot of spare time now that I just graduated highschool and it is still the summer. Ever since school is done I found that it's rarer difficult talking to girls. Now they've practically disappeared from my little world and I have no idea what todo to meet new girls. (talking to old ones friends is not an option ).

What do I do / where do I go to meet people (preferably girls) now that I have so much spare time?

LantzJ271 · 2013-07-22T18:21:26+00:00

What is your one "go-to" opener for a set of girls

Fredwoood · 2013-07-22T18:36:34+00:00

Im 16 and never had a Girlfriend. Now I have got a kinda crush on a 18 year old girl. Is it worth any effort? Cause I heard that women rather want older men. If yes, how should I begin?

walnut_of_doom · 2013-07-22T18:13:54+00:00

What does being an upper-classmen in mainly freshman dorms change in regards to social interaction. Benefits, downside, and tips about this would be great.

Edgar_Allan_Rich · 2013-07-22T19:47:52+00:00

Scenario: You meet a girl who is clearly interested, get her number, state your intentions and ask her out, then she suddenly brings up her boyfriend. You tell her the offer stands, she continues blowing up your phone all week asking to hang out, but she still won't go out with you (on a date) without friends.

What would you do?

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Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)
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Date	July 22, 2013 5:34 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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