I got a theory on why most women especially women under the age of 34 say they want traits in a man they actually don't want. It's because they're lack of logic. Research has proved this time and time again they are less logical then men and even though it's a minor difference are brains are wired differently. Also add the fact they are way more emotional makes most them can't verbally say what they really want up until they are in their mid-30's when they really know themselves. Until then expect most them to say they want a certain man and go for the opposite. Im only talking bout the behavioural traits they describe they want in a man.