How to get laid with minimal conversation

Leewaak · 2024-08-26T20:33:58+00:00

Thats the secret champ, you cant, girls love talking and you have to be ready to do so aswell. You have to fake it until you make it, yes you could luck out on an occasional girl thats down from the jump, but those are very frail and small chances.

try to change your way of conversation, recently i went from a nonchalant gimmick in dates to a more sillier outgoing personality, where i introduced more flirtatious remarks and a trolling side, and it made my dates WAY more fun and interesting for me.

dlawj15 · 2024-08-26T22:06:42+00:00

Why use lot word when few word do trick

halfwayup37 · 2024-08-26T21:31:41+00:00

If you are similar in looks and not a douchebag. And you’re already on a date. When it’s coming to an end, say you’re gunna go home and have a beer and she’s welcome to join and that you’d love the company. At this point, you have a 50% chance or greater. If she says no thanks, she might on the next one. If you didn’t ask, your chances are 0%.

Most of it is just being a decent human and making her laugh a few times. Make her comfortable and don’t force anything.

To make the date more sexual, I would do more of an activity date so that touching is more acceptable.

I had a great date the other day. I told her we would each buy each other a small gift, that resembles the person. Could be anything. She bought me a hat from Walmart (5$) and I wore it all night.. she ended up taking it off, throwing it in the garbage and said she likes me better with no hat lol..

I told her I had an amazing time and offered her an aperol spritz back at my place and I’d call her an Uber home whenever she felt.

We fucked until 5am. Didn’t even make it through the door.

Don’t be boring. Actually have a theme to your date because small talk is boring, women want emotion, they don’t give a shit about your schooling or your e series bmw

epimpstyle · 2024-08-26T20:53:04+00:00

You don't have to talk too much just in the beginning for 3-4-5 minutes then let her do the rest.

Instead of talking you escalate physically, you become playful, there is no need to keep a conference actually the less you know the better because it is a turn off for women if you are too smart.

Even if you are smart, don't show it....don't give her the impression that you have an answer for everything and that you know everything, it's better to leave room for interpretation.

Take this sentence as a rule: instead of talking about sex, just move things towards sex, because the more you talk about sex, the less likely it is to happen!

Initial_Item7444 · 2024-08-26T22:02:32+00:00

Talking creates a few key elements you need. Firstly, comfort - derived from trust. A woman won’t sleep with you in the absence of this and even if she does, she won’t enjoy it as much and you’ll end up making a one time thing that could have been a many time thing.

Another thing conversation provides you is attraction. Women like confidence, intelligence, ambition and humour. All these are conveyed in conversation, and constitutes the likelihood to successfully bed a woman.

If you want to find a woman with no conversation and all sex, you go to the club. But beware these women are more trouble than a night of fun is worth.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-08-26T22:52:03+00:00

Options

1 Dance floor game - which you will have to learn on your own

2 learn how to create max emotion with face, body movements and tone

It wastes more energy BUT you have to talk less.

3 Go for “whore” type women

mentally unwell women tend to start of closer to sex

Good luck - Non of them have actual resources. You will have to figure it out on your own OR start hanging around dudes that are good at it (basically the cool kids)

bmcapers · 2024-08-26T21:52:30+00:00

This happened to me once.

I met someone at an after hours dance spot and had small chat with her in the beginning. Then we naturally separated and at some point in the night I started losing my voice. I saw her again on the dance floor and she seemed bothered by a guy trying to dance with her, so I cut in and danced with her the rest of the night, then we went back to my place. I remember her saying she preferred my loss of voice, which made me laugh.

So dancing, having fun, and sharing the narrative of swooping in and making a situation better for her helped push things forward with little dialogue, but still being able to tell a good story together.

Quiet_Badger3509 · 2024-08-26T20:32:37+00:00

Prostitution

Numbaonenewb · 2024-08-26T20:56:06+00:00

Get an escort.

Otherwise, try dressing better. You probably look plain and the talk you have is probably boring.

You can try to emotionally connect with them.

Women are turned on by men who dress sharp from head to toe.

Go on YouTube for suggestions but otherwise, to them, you are a dime a dozen. If you're dreamy, Charming, incredibly attractive, that would help.

Kylearean · 2024-08-26T20:33:21+00:00

physical escalation is the key, just tell her you're interested and keep on point.

amrasmin · 2024-08-27T02:34:55+00:00

This guy. If you don’t want to put any effort just get a hooker.

PrinceDestin · 2024-08-26T22:20:36+00:00

Well what do you mean by minimal conversation because fastest I’ve got it is, my cousin handed me this girls number, I don’t use dating apps but I lied and said I got her number off one, talked on face time for about an hour convinced her to bake brownies for me

Drove up to her sat in my car and watched anime while we waited for the brownies to be done and then I crushed

Funny thing about me mentioning the brownies is that it ain’t first girl I had make me some brownies I swear that’s gotta be a secret technique to get some cheeks or sum😂😂😂

zebekias · 2024-08-27T12:44:16+00:00

Suggest you cook at your place, if she agrees, it’s a lay. If she arrives with wine, she is likely wearing a Victoria Secret outfit, and there will be hard core fun 🤣. If she doesn’t agree, no worries, suggest she drive over so you drive together in one (your) car to wherever. When she arrives, let her in with “we are getting out of here, give me a minute” and let her wonder around your place as you get ready. Once ready, don’t linger around your place, “let’s get out of here”. This is the opposite of the needy guy that might try something. You show her a good time out, and at the end you will drive home because she is parked there. I’ve never had one of those not convert.

Realistic_Guava9117 · 2024-08-27T13:36:14+00:00

TLDR: Nah definitely just get a hooker. You could even take a trip to where it’s legal and cheaper…Otherwise, it takes a ridiculous amount of effort the hotter the girl is, even if you’re a 10 yourself.

Honestly bro. If you want actual hot girls, like legit baddies your best bet is to just get hookers. I posted something similar to this a couple months ago cause i’m of the same disposition as you, I hateeeeee talking to women. The shit is so repetitive and overall lame to me. Shit doesn’t feel dominant at all. Like as a man, i’m over here tryna impress shorties, running “game” to get her to let me fuck?

Especially if it’s after you already put in a bunch of work. Its dudes with money, they hit the gym got a decent physique, nice house, car etc, then they still go and practice all these “social skills” just to jump through more hoops for some baddie that prolly got like 50 dudes tryna get at her. The worst part to me is that shit is just a waste of time if you think about all these factors.

We gotta be real with ourselves when it comes to this shit. Me personally, I don’t really want any girls thats a 6 or less…I mean, maybe if i’m really down bad but thats what I mean u could always just pay for some premium and then chill for a bit. No annoying talking about unnecessary shit, no taking girls on dates to places you would never even wanna go to, and no tryna impress them by buying some shit (which imo would be better off spent on a hooker at this point).

If not a hooker they got sugar dating sites, same shit… If you want to get it “authentically” without paying then you gotta be real with yourself bro. If you want a 7-10 theres probably endless dudes shooting at them on the daily or they may even already have a boyfriend. So you’d really have to be super popular (which most ppl aren’t), dress super crazy showing that you got a lot of money and style i’m talking jewelry and everything, or you could try to run game and do all that social bs but to be honest thats not what really pulls baddies.

Dudes swear they are getting 7s and up off talking, talking is just some icing on the cake IF you finesse her fantasy. Honestly, the more you talk the worse it could get. Masculine frame is talking only when necessary, not being some goofy jokester ass dude thats all giddy tryna get a woman to like him. Thats not dominant that’s submissive as fuck. Thats not to say you don’t approach and say hey you cute give me your #, but again, getting the pussy should take the bare minimum of socializing.

And the dudes talking about diseases, bro just ask girls if they got recent test results and if they don’t then don’t fuck em it’s that simple. Your best bet for a girl that actually has test results on hand, that is a 7+ in looks and can prolly give you some premium sex is a hooker, and thats just the facts. A good hooker or “pornstar” is gonna take the entire sex game serious, that means making sure she doesn’t have diseases and provides good service. Casual sex with random girls that are probably fucking just as much as the hooker or pornstar and not getting check ups, think about that, whats safer?

And if you don’t got the money bro, take your time focus on yourself and get your money up etc. It’s better to look at everything in life like a business. Upgrade you in every category and the rest is easy, especially quality sex.

If you tryna get girls that don’t fuck that much then you’re most likely gonna have to do a decent amount of talking. Cause they probably aren’t just trying to fuck, they probably want a relationship or something and all the other stuff. The conversation, the dates, the emotional availability etc.

leighmcclurg · 2024-08-27T18:38:03+00:00

Sex is still conversation, it’s just now with your body. If you don’t enjoy talking to people then you won’t enjoy providing them with pleasure. You seek to escape the hollowness inside you by gratifying yourself momentarily in the distraction of a woman’s body. This is a really low point in a man’s life to think like this.

The pleasure is a woman’s company. They are perceptive and empathetic. If a woman feels her presence alone is pleasurable to you she will relax to progressing the conversation from verbal to physical. She needs to feel you as both safe and protective. So you need to be this. Not pretend.

If you are attentive and exciting to her verbally she will quickly wish to see how this translates to physically too. This is what works for me. Sometimes within the first hour of meeting someone.

But my goal is not to have sex. My goal is to have a very deep and intimate conversation with them. A conversation on every sensory level.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-08-26T20:37:00+00:00

Be hot and go after scraps.

or

Be hot. Be engaging. Be flirty and go after hotties.

shotta511 · 2024-08-27T06:56:40+00:00

For me its going to clubs and get almost blackout drunk, then looking for a girl who is almost as blackout drunk and physically attached to me. Then speak one word, start dancing, get touchy and the rest happens.

But to be honest, did this twice and it was awful in every way

divyanthj · 2024-08-27T10:11:39+00:00

Turn her on first. Besides sexual touch, here's what I found turns girls on

You passing shit tests
Her passing compliance tests
Teasing
Banter / Jokes
Generally being fun / having energy that's higher than her but just low enough for her to match you

You don't have to get all of these done but compliance test is an excellent way to determine if she is into you or not. Compliance test means just that; compliance. Women who are attracted to you will do literally anything for you; it's uncanny and crazy. For example I've seen quite a few of my gamer friends order chicks in the club around and they obey like suckers! He once told a woman to grab a cigarette for him. So she went around asking if anyone had a spare cigarette. Then he told her to bring a lighter. Again she set about looking for a lighter! He slept with her that night.

Ofc your compliance test doesn't have to be that extreme. You can even do small easier ones like "Hey there are too many people walking about, let's stand over there" and see if she cooperates.

Again if she doesn't cooperate it's not the end of story. Try again with an easier one.

Hour_One_9504 · 2024-08-26T21:15:07+00:00

u got to be good-looking af.

ProFriendZoner · 2024-08-26T22:21:09+00:00

Walk up to a hooker and take out a handful of $$$ bills. No words necessary.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-26T23:33:12+00:00

“ me … you …”

*make a sign with your finger going in and out of the hole, then smile and wink at her *

marrieddaddy4you · 2024-08-27T01:59:03+00:00

Sex club. 0 words and had a few women like this.

tritonezub · 2024-08-27T02:01:46+00:00

if ur in a club or house party and u are a good dancer u can get away with saying 3 words the whole night.

LetsHaveFunBeauty · 2024-08-27T02:25:16+00:00

You could try to have fun with the conversation, instead of information gathering (which is sounds like you are doing)

Independent-Cable937 · 2024-08-27T03:13:15+00:00

I don't know any girl that's going to sleep some random without any conversation. They have so much more risk: pregnancy, STD, societal views.

If it was easy, this subreddit wouldn't exist

Osiris_Raphious · 2024-08-27T03:15:02+00:00

Get them to talk, excalate physically and with body language. Go to places where conversation is secondary, like clubs and gigs.

smind893 · 2024-08-27T03:23:53+00:00

It's easy tbh

Speak in a lower voice, calm, confident and some disconnected.

Mystery.

In an era of oversharing, have some mystique is appealing and will get you laid.

Keep in mind. Some women are chatter boxes, and if that's the case, so be it.
But for those who are used to a man constantly trying to talk them into bed, you'll stuck out

Play it cool

on_a_benderxo · 2024-08-27T07:18:29+00:00

You need to meet girls in clubs or on dance floors or if you have a date, invite her to a club. Make the dance hot and steamy and go from there

cemj86 · 2024-08-27T07:19:03+00:00

Talk, flirt, escalate, lay.

Honestly it's really easy if you know when a woman is attracted. I don't have a problem on the first day lay though I don't seek it considering I have more women that are down. Build up a roster and you won't have this issue.

VisionsOfVisions · 2024-08-27T18:27:57+00:00

If you feel like a conversation is getting old and that you are just talking for talkings' sake, the conversation is boring for all those involved.

Good conversations feel like playing a game with words, it intrigues you like a mystery novel, it should leave you wanting more and be cut off with some cliffhanger.

Bad conversations feel like interviews, are exhausting, and are quite boring.

chevrolet_terraplane · 2024-08-26T20:47:19+00:00

go to a sex club or a SOP kink event. there will still be people there who like to get to know someone first, but you'll likely find more people who are willing to get right to the sexy stuff.

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-08-26T21:44:56+00:00

How to get a degree with out going to college ?, How to make money without working ?, How to learn how to swim with no pool ??

EDOMINATOR · 2024-08-27T00:11:17+00:00

Work with a dating coach

JustNefariousness625 · 2024-08-27T00:28:53+00:00

😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

JustNefariousness625 · 2024-08-27T00:29:10+00:00

😒😒

tdwriter2003 · 2024-08-27T01:18:19+00:00

Classic line. I'm not from around here which one do I buy you first the drink or the condom

TransitionOk9918 · 2024-08-27T02:54:14+00:00

Go to escort or get really lucky with an attractive girl that find you attractive enough and in the right mood

5thquad · 2024-08-27T06:05:43+00:00

Be famous

Normal-Guidance3585 · 2024-08-27T06:14:12+00:00

Dirty talk the basics.

FirstEXPonreddit · 2024-08-27T08:32:14+00:00

💰

revonssvp · 2024-08-27T10:42:52+00:00

Just be famous or/and rich.

What is the problem ?

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-08-27T12:51:08+00:00

The whole premise of this post is idiotic.

JazzleRazzle · 2024-08-27T13:11:28+00:00

Be hot and famous.

carlos11111111112 · 2024-08-27T13:24:48+00:00

Kino and be good listener

FunkmasterJoe · 2024-08-27T15:39:54+00:00

Have you tried... liking women?

lessbunnypot · 2024-08-27T16:15:22+00:00

money

Aftercot · 2024-08-27T19:39:45+00:00

😂😂

CozmicFlare · 2024-08-27T19:40:35+00:00

If she's attracted to you enough. She'll bang you on the first date even if she's not "that kind of girl" and never does that. It's all based on how she's is feeling and what the woman wants.

They make the rules

Westernleaning · 2024-08-27T21:47:22+00:00

Only date mute chicks bro.

Small_Cap_Finder · 2024-08-28T01:31:27+00:00

Step 1: Bring up conversations about them without revealing too much about yourself. Don't give her a bullshit reason not to sleep with you.

Step 2: Ask what her favorite shows are when you're ready to head back for sex. When she tells you, ask her to elaborate and then suggest watching it together that night.

Het08 · 2024-08-28T07:15:59+00:00

Women are creatures who love to talk and hear nice words. If there are no whores, your chances are slim, my friend.

Badguy60 · 2024-08-26T20:34:12+00:00

Be attractive

Tatleman68 · 2024-08-26T23:10:35+00:00

Be very attractive and/or be rich af

Powerful-Ad9392 · 2024-08-26T23:42:44+00:00

You seem socially awkward.

_islander · 2024-08-26T22:58:50+00:00

lol, motherfuckers are getting so lazy

Independent-Cable937 · 2024-08-27T03:11:20+00:00

Prostitute or porn

_I_dont_give_a_damn · 2024-08-27T23:08:25+00:00

I have million dollars in cash at my home.

Viktor2500 · 2024-08-26T20:41:04+00:00

Become a gazillionaire

GROWINGSTRUGGLE · 2024-08-26T23:04:35+00:00

you don'have to do either usually let girls talk their way into liking you by actively listening to them than when you feel it's time escalate both phisically and with words

Dramatic_Clerk_9259 · 2024-08-27T01:01:33+00:00

Pay for it dont be stingy 🤣.

Magnetar402 · 2024-08-27T02:16:44+00:00

Pay for it.

I actually hate conversations with people it gets old.

If you want to convince someone to fuck you you gotta talk to them. Literally no other way around it

Title	How to get laid with minimal conversation
Author	Clean-Explanation-87
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Date	August 26, 2024 8:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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