Last month my husband (33) of 10 years walked out on me (32) with a 4, 2 and 11 month old. He told me he didn't want to be married anymore, he's really withdrawn sexually and emotionally the last few years.

I checked the phone records, serial cheating like crazy for years. I talked to a bunch of different women, lots didn't know he was married. Apparently he was going on business trips, wouldn't wear a wedding ring, and ask women back to his hotel room. Some of the business trips weren't real, he'd tell me he'd need to drive himself to the airport and have a business trip states away where he would actually just drive a little over an hour away pretending to be single. I talked to another woman just this morning that had a one night stand with him while I was pregnant, she said he was even pressuring her for nudes after that.

He's been cheating when I've been pregnant, with a new baby, he even contacted multiple women the day after I left the hospital after being hospitalized for postpartum complications.

So he wants to be a single guy and live the single lifestyle. I'm super broken by all of this since I really valued marriage and family life. It's also a little unusual for me since women are typically the ones to initiate a divorce, not the man. My attorney says things look super favorable for me in all of this, one attorney I talked to was like yeah this guy hasn't thought this through and talked with an attorney.

Anyways, after the divorce is all over, and I'm healed from all of this am I dateable? I hope one day I can meet a normal guy that values marriage and treats me right. It's hard because I built a whole family with this guy and he just destroyed it.