Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority?

Secret_Entry1840 · 2026-01-13T12:13:30+00:00

I’m not straight. And I don’t watch lesbian porn. Lesbian porn is boring for me. Most of my female friends that watch porn don’t watch lesbian porn. My straight guy friends however watch lesbian porn.

Edit. One of my very lesbian friends prefers male gay porn 🤷‍♀️

mashedturnip · 2026-01-13T14:55:25+00:00

Most women read romance novels. Those are by far the best selling “porn” for women

No_Teacher_3313 · 2026-01-13T12:36:16+00:00

Have you ever stopped to consider that some subset of women who watch lesbian porn do so because the focus is on female pleasure? Straight porn generally involved a few fingers and licks and then hard banging. It’s all focused on the male’s pleasure. And given that most women don’t orgasm from PIV much of the moaning on her end appears to be for the benefit of the camera?

Lemon_gecko · 2026-01-13T12:57:05+00:00

I'm straight mostly, 90% straight, and i don't watch lesbian porn. And not because it's about women, but because it's so dick centric, feels super performative and in a way that they expect a cock to walk right in, and it's all a show for him. I found an only couple of vids that i enjoyed. Anyway, straight porn is also catered to male gaze and a lot of it focused on how women look, sound, so i don't see your issue, by this logic women should only watch gay porn, but that's like being turned on by guy sucking cock, not really straight too.

BougieHeaux · 2026-01-13T12:14:34+00:00

Literally Pornhub releases its comprehensive data EVERY DECEMBER.

READ THE FUCKIN DATA.

WE DONT KNOW.

Werevulvi · 2026-01-13T14:27:27+00:00

I'm fully straight. I don't watch porn, but even in my fantasies there are only men. Like I'm the only woman in those fantasies. I'm put off by seeing women being sexual, kissing, etc. I've experimented with women in the past because I had some identity issues, but I didn't like it. And now and ever since I sorted out those identity issues, I only feel attraction to men. Sure, women can be good-looking in an aesthetic sense, but so can a cat or horse, or even a piece of furniture. It's not the same as attraction. If I'm gonna look at another woman, I prefer her fully clothed and not doing anything sexual.

I think it's more common to find women who ate fully straight in the older generations. I'm a millenial and most women in my age group have zero interest in other women, obviously aside from the ones who are and know they are bi or lesbian. Same seems to be the case for gen x and boomers. Younger generations seem in general to be more "fluid" with their sexuality.

2026-01-13T16:21:09+00:00

I keep being told that porn taste means absolutely nothing for what you like in real life and watchers can separate reality from fiction easily. At the very least watching a porn video doesn't mean you want to recreate it exactly. I think straight women like lesbian porn because straight porn is made for straight men and generally involves a man overpowering a woman focusing on his pleasure, which hits too close to home. Lesbian porn tends to be gentler and they can more easily pretend the actresses are enjoying it, it also takes them out of la sad reality for a bit. (And, as a bi women who has interacted with a few straight women who watch lesbian porn, gives them some weird fetishistic ideas about lesbian relationships and you can absolutely tell they're straight.)

Obvious_Smoke3633 · 2026-01-13T12:37:01+00:00

I don't watch porn. When I did when I was younger lesbian porn didn't appeal to me because 99% of the time they're catering to a male audience. I know that the stuff they're doing doesn't feel good at all and is completely fake. Seeing 2 "lesbians" with long coffin shaped nails is a dead giveaway. I don't like porn in general, they're always doing male centric acts that don't appeal to me at all. It's weird to watch when the whole time I can't stop thinking "wow that looks like it doesn't feel good AT ALL".

cb8585b · 2026-01-13T13:29:13+00:00

I don’t watch porn.

I think more women have started watching porn over the years but if I remember correctly some studies have been released on this. But women who watch porn are still the minority of women. I don’t know what categories among the women who watch porn are watching.

Human_Associate_4301 · 2026-01-14T00:47:43+00:00

I am unfortunately not a straight woman who doesn’t watch lesbian porn. I don’t watch porn at all, but I used to and it was predominantly lesbian.

But I think you are underestimating how many “straight” men like men in porn. Whether it’s femboy stuff, just gay stuff, gay power fantasy, etc. A lot of straight men have gay fantasies as well but it is way more socially frowned on. It’s not fair, but that is reality right now. Gay women get sexualized and gay men usually just get turned into a joke.

Sometimes I think it truly is just fantasy and doesn’t reflect what they would actually be able to emotionally or physically withstand if given the opportunity. Like it’s hot when they’re alone but they don’t actually think they’d enjoy it in real life. Sometimes it’s them hiding their true self. Either way, it’s more common than you probably would think.

And that’s how I am with lesbian porn. I just prefer the female pleasure focus. The more drawn out foreplay and softness. I couldn’t touch a woman sexually or romantically. I am repulsed by the idea of doing that in real life. I was usually thinking of a crush and when I’d come to, I’d usually be picturing a guy I liked or something. I found that the oral sex aspect from different positions and angles helped me kinda imagine if that were me and a guy was doing that to me. Sure, straight porn exists of that, but it is surprisingly very hard to find female pleasure focused straight porn that’s of decent quality.

I also just find that straight porn often has a lot of triggers in it for me (especially being a rape victim) and lesbian porn feels safe

Disastrous_Agent9307 · 2026-01-13T12:51:48+00:00

You know straight porn is watching another dude fuck a woman, right. Most straight men have seen more penises than I've seen vaginas. And they got off to them apparently. That's right, most men are a little gay. Or wait is it that most of you are cucks?

I gave lesbian porn a chance once because I found straight porn so violent, degrading, and gross. I give it to lesbian porn, it is less violent and often less degrading....it's still gross tho. I think most women aren't into porn period. They just get peer pressured into it.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2026-01-13T18:01:57+00:00

The idea that women watch a lot of lesbian porn is a myth perpetuated by male-directed pornsites like pornhub by the way they present their data. They lump lesbian stuff in with the "straight" category but completely separate the gay male content in the stats. If gay male was included it would appear many men watched gay porn too due to the breadth and size of the category vs smaller subcategories like ebony or bdsm.

Makuta_Servaela · 2026-01-13T14:25:28+00:00

Not straight, but from what I understand, lesbian porn tends to involve less physical violence, less misogyny and slurs, and more attention to female pleasure, and that's why straight women often like it.

Equivalent_Dance2278 · 2026-01-13T12:33:45+00:00

wtf? I have never watched lesbian porn. Most straight women do not have lesbian tendencies because they are straight. Ffs. If they wanted to be lesbian, they would. Gtfo with your weird fantasies bullshit.

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Few-Yesterday9628 · 2026-01-13T12:56:47+00:00

I'm fully straight. I don't find women attractive in a sexual way. More so in a, "that's a beautiful picture" type of way. I couldn't be lesbian if I wanted to.

I do not and never have watched lesbian porn. It does nothing for me. If I'm watching porn it's male female or male male female. Never more than one woman. Never had a lesbian experience. Never will.

I also do not believe the red pill theory that women aren't attracted to men. Take with that as you will.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2026-01-13T18:08:34+00:00

I'm not completely straight, seeing Jennifer Tilly in a gold suit in liar liar as a child probably should have been the tip off. I don't think most people are completely straight. I just think men are more closeted about it because of toxic masculinity: see secret grindr accounts held by "straight" men. Y'all have an orgasm button in your ass so do with that what you will.

Women being kinda gay is a turn on for a lot of men so it's seen as more acceptable. Additionally emotional and physical intimacy among women is also more socially acceptable. Seeing two women together doesn't viscerally impact us the way seeing two men together does for men.

Lesbian porn is typically targeting a male audience, not lesbians. You'll find a lot of women reading smut, rather than watching pornography. And it goes from boring to the freakiest shit past normal human imagination. A normal Ao3 readers day. Straight, gay, lesbian, sentient pumpkin fisting, etc. a lot of consumers of gay porn are women. A lot of them straight identifying.

Women tend to need more to be fully aroused. Probably because for men blood goes to penis and done, and women's vaginas need to lengthen and self lubricate which is a process. So maybe that's the smut preference? I dunno.

wyllowysp · 2026-01-15T08:39:48+00:00

I'm straight and I certainly don't. Don't know about everyone else.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2026-01-13T13:17:45+00:00

I watch ledbian porn, but not because of any "attraction" TO the women but because 1. theres no man, 2. because of what theyre doing. the women themselves dont matter

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2026-01-13T14:32:55+00:00

Bi lady here, don't watch lesbian porn. I'm sure nowadays there are probably more varied videos, but it all seemed too male gazy for my liking back in the day.

electricgrapes · 2026-01-13T12:26:26+00:00

What? I'm a straight woman, don't watch any of that crap and don't know any woman who does.

Terminally online nonsense. The majority of women are absolutely not watching lesbian porn. That is a fantasy you are deluding yourself with.

You guys have got to start having in person interactions with people who are living functional lives again. Y'all are basing your ideas of women on fetishized internet personalities and basement boy tweets.

Title	Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority?
Author	Unhappy_Ad5967
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Date	January 13, 2026 12:07 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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