JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

PSXSnack09 · 2026-07-28T17:09:43+00:00

Boy, nothing more romantic than winning and dinning some woman some guy casually slept with on a night, so romantic!, more like boooooring😂😂

You see, i noticed the biggest issue with this discourse is one side still operates from a traditional masculinity standar while the other does this modern 50/50 stuff.

like yeah if a woman does 50/50 and has no traditional masculinity expectations then who cares about n count?

But if a woman has even the slightest traditional expectation no way im gonna go throught that hassle for a slag, not that they would care anyways since they claim to be against traditional expectations.........right?👀

PSXSnack09 · 2026-07-28T17:05:10+00:00

Reddit in a nutshell 😂😂

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tin8374 · 2026-07-24T17:13:05+00:00

I dont think social proof works for me. I am a 25 year old virgin who has had a bunch of female friends through my life. However i have never felt what its like to have one that's attracted.

Most people my age have, even if its from a woman thats unattractive, even if it's only a few times.

But me no, I have never felt it my head that a woman is attracted to me. I may never get that feeling.

I wish I can turn off my desires completely because they will probably never get fulfilled

ThatBitchA · 2026-07-24T16:26:46+00:00

I'll never understand the men who expect a one size fits all approach to sex.

The idea that the sex had with Steve should be the exact same (timing, location, moves) as with Trevor.

That sex is some act that is consistently applied to every lover.

It's weird. Idk if it comes from lack of experience, insecurities, porn brain, or all of the above.

CopingAlive · 2026-07-24T08:48:15+00:00

N count doesn't matter, just enjoy yourself.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-07-24T07:23:48+00:00

Why do some men think they know how other men fuck women?

RelativeCondition915 · 2026-07-22T04:23:28+00:00

I think casual sex with men is over. They are all so bad at having actual casual sex and immediately try to pick boyfriend level fights and ask for boyfriend level attention.

ThatBitchA · 2026-07-21T23:50:37+00:00

How do you spot a promiscuous woman?

Pretend we're people watching at the mall. You get a pretzel bite with every sighting I agree with.

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-07-21T16:15:38+00:00

(As this topic was brought up in the today's daily..)

Do you think frequent travelling/going on vacations (as a single person) is correlated with promiscuity and n count? Couldn't find any studies on this but personally I think yes.

touchy_feelysophical · 2026-07-21T11:59:24+00:00

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Arrowdodgingace · 2026-07-21T08:02:14+00:00

You can enjoy sex and be a very sexual person without having a high body count. Why do people on this sub act like “Ur only choices are Becky the whore or Wendy the virgin who hates sex”?

Self control exists.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-07-20T15:14:23+00:00

I realized today I've never ever slept with an uncircumcised man. I've never even seen an uncircumcised dick in person.

I believe this makes me a virgin, since my intact-count is 0.

Axis_Control · 2026-07-20T03:16:04+00:00

Fuck I wish I was asexual lmao I hate being attracted to men

No-Active5893 · 2026-07-20T03:01:36+00:00

Women say that, "being bisexual as a man while being a virgin is worth 200 hypothetical bodies and dating a single man is un-dateable category"; what does this mean for women who have sex with men (or women: I don't discriminate) in theory? Why are straight women reluctant to compete in a new market (for bisexual men)? Is it the notion that they "have" to compete instead of being pursued?

No-Active5893 · 2026-07-19T23:57:12+00:00

Would you let your boyfriend or husband have sex with OTHER women, while you are in a relationship, until he goes from a virgin/low N-count until he hits your body count to prove virginity holds no worth?

I believe it to be a delusion that there is some ephemeral quality that leads other people to sleep with another in a short time or without attachment or even knowing who they are: it's just stimulation A.T.P.; this means that there should be no difference between doing it after the relationship starts with other women as many times as she did, and, still yet, there is a big hullabaloo regarding cheating. Please help me reason with this thinking.

TL;DR There's a sanctity during a relationship regarding sex, but not before it or to any future or true partner: why? Endeavoring yourself with the same path and knowledge as her is the best way to prove her worth and value as a partner to gain her perspective, isn't it? So, why the restriction?

Real TL;DR Would an open relationship be moral in this situation?

Axis_Control · 2026-07-19T14:45:27+00:00

I love my bf but I wish he was a bit better at sex

At30wecrashout · 2026-07-19T13:55:13+00:00

There is nothing wrong with a man preferring to date low N women

Spread-Em-Plz · 2026-07-19T13:11:05+00:00

Q4W:

at what point would you consider a man higher-n, or someone who “gets around”?

Not even in a negative sense, but just what would make you say “that’s a high number”

(Feel free to adjust for age or circumstance should it feel warranted)

Lemon_gecko · 2026-07-19T09:16:26+00:00

I think men just have pussy envy. Pussy can get sex. So they are angry they don't have pussy. They subconsciously want pussy.

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-07-19T04:54:47+00:00

If you fuck a chick with multiple personalities, can you add those to your n count?

salphon · 2026-07-18T22:26:30+00:00

Every single study says that high-n is bad for LTRs. Still waiting for positive studies. Never got any.

b_berry458 · 2026-07-18T21:03:55+00:00

Is it worse to have a lowish n count but it’s a range because you never counted or got names so it’s a bit fuzzy or a high n count but you can recount their names, how you met etc.

growframe · 2026-07-18T18:56:38+00:00

Men should not be worried about women lying about n-counts. Promiscous women tend to be proud of it.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-07-18T17:57:50+00:00

Q4M:

Let's assume the following conditions:

you're single
you're not religious/waiting for marriage
you're in your 20s/30s
you have access to hot women for casual sex

Would you refrain just because it might make some hypothetical future partner jealous or insecure or mad?

Motosport_Titan · 2026-07-18T16:30:59+00:00

Another weekend staying at home and not increasing my count.

Somerandomdudereborn · 2026-07-18T16:09:17+00:00

First 😱😎

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zgtlunatic · 2026-07-20T01:06:05+00:00

Q4A: Would you sleep with 5 people of the same gender assuming you found the people attractive if paid $50 an hour for it?

Oh and, you also have to do it first before you get paid

GeckoKisser · 2026-07-22T05:56:48+00:00

I sometimes tune into this thread just to feel better about myself. There is worse out there after all! I might remember to pray for all you poor sops on a Sunday.

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busterBeamCannon · 2026-07-23T04:39:54+00:00

**A Mother’s Duty:**
- all things related to child rearing
- cooking
- stocking up on groceries
- keeping the house clean, including but not limited to floors, dishes, laundry, bathrooms
- looking nice for her husband
- being quiet when sports are on
- having sex with the father (everyday, unless he doesn’t want to)
- planning family events and holidays

**A Father’s Duty:**
- annoying the mother
- grilling
- taking out the trash sometimes
- yelling at the family

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