4/10 American girl goes to Japan- gets treated like a man in America.

Grimmov · 2014-10-29T07:06:54+00:00

Did she really have to spend about 4 paragraphs insulting "nerds"? That nearly seemed like the main topic of her essay. She never stopped to consider that perhaps the problem lies with her.

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squiremarcus · 2014-10-29T09:53:36+00:00

"and even construction workers, who could usually be counted on for a leer, regarded me with bored, blank expressions"

COME ON CONSTRUCTION WORKERS!! cat call passing women like you are supposed to! but when you do its harassment and i am offended by your compliments!

the_alien_ · 2014-10-29T08:06:10+00:00

I live in South Korea I shudder when I see American feminists rant and rave about how things should be here, all based on the US as the standard of course. Yeah, woman should stop staying at home with their kids! What a terrible waste of a woman's life! And why are they so focused on being physically attractive? They should let themselves go and focus on being more mindlessly self-indulgent. That way, everybody wins!

I need soju.

TestosteroneFilled · 2014-10-29T08:13:36+00:00

Who could blame them for taking advantage of a magical loophole that allowed them to date women out of their league? If such a nirvana existed for Western woman, I’m sure I’d have moved there too.

I love how western women dont realize: "America, Canada, Australia, etc." is this nirvana she speaks of. It's the only place on the planet where a fat lazy hoe that dresses in sweats, never wears makeup, eats a tub of ice cream everyday, and shops in the plus size section can get a fucking date.

Of course she never realized that it's a fucking living hell for men there, as they are the ones who have to put up with that shit, so once these guys are out it's muther fucking hasta la vista baby, they arent gonna touch your western "woman" ass with a 10 ft pole.

bakbakgoesherthroat · 2014-10-29T07:32:44+00:00

This woman is alone because she's a miserable person to be around. Shitty personality 0/10

DefinitelyDreaming · 2014-10-29T14:57:17+00:00

Most days I felt unattractive, unwanted and worst of all, unfemale.

So she knows what it's like to be an average male? HAHAHAHA.

FLFTW16 · 2014-10-29T09:19:33+00:00

This is a victimhood badge article. The author is super entitled, as she said she is bilingual, well traveled, and college-educated. She is White, and not obese. Given all these credentials, due to her ideological Western training she must establish that she is in some way a victim. Remember, in modern progressive/liberal/feminist discourse, only victims' voices should be heard. Here it is at the end:

Because the truth is that Tokyo’s a tough city to be single … if you’re, you know, a Western woman.

Doesn't matter that she is thin, blond, educated, well traveled. She is a victim. Life is Hard^TM .

But based on her descriptions of ALL the men she has access to, you would think she actually hates men and wants nothing to do with us. The Western men are "pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired, underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting." Somehow it defies all logic and even evolutionary law that these men are attractive to Asian women. And yet, as much as she hates these men, she is jealous that she receives none of their attention. Japanese men are not good, either. Too shy, timid, close-minded, don't view relationships as a partnership. So both Western and Japanese men--ALL THE MEN AROUND HER--are defective in her eyes.

I was walking from work one Friday evening when it dawned on me that I’d been in Japan for nine months. I inwardly congratulated myself for having beat the odds.

Wow congrats! A whole 9 months! Don't normal people wait for the 1 year to actually pat themselves on the back? This bitch couldn't fucking wait to give herself props. Makes me laugh so hard!

I've been living in Thailand for a while, now. I see all manner of hambeast delights with white skin washing up over here. I am embarrassed for these people. They never get out of the way. A Western woman tries to dominate the space they occupy and will not take up an appropriate amount of space on the sidewalk. They are really ill-mannered. Thai women are more likely to try to stay out of the way if they see you walking there. They just have a feminine aura about them.

When I see a white couple marching around hitting the tourist must-sees, it is always the woman charging 3-4 paces ahead with a smug look on her face with her boyfriend glumly tagging along as if he is just a passenger. This is no partnership. You can see the look on the guys' faces. They feel like they got tricked. Everywhere they look there are trim, beautiful women in tight miniskirts and high heels. They are stuck with this oddly shaped woman, sun burnt, wrinkles all over the face so they look 5 years older than they truly are, poorly dressed, slovenly. These same women bitch and moan endlessly about the shitty dating prospects they have. Yeah. Thai men love Thai women. And white men love Thai women. In comparison, white women are shit. Absolute shit. Tons of attitude, a holier-than-thou mindset, overweight, no sense of fashion, sweaty, hairy, and always shit-testing and fighting for dominance. The "laws of evolution" are working just fine in Asia.

AnotherLostCause · 2014-10-29T09:00:29+00:00

The "Asian men are intimidated by western women" is an outright lie that people tell to spare women the knowledge of their true value. That said western women who make it clear that they will fuck anyone who shows them any attention can usually get some attention once word gets around. No one will commit to them though. More of an any port in a storm thing.

OsoFeo · 2014-10-29T06:17:01+00:00

OP was worse than I expected. This woman is raging bitch.

lloopy · 2014-10-29T12:35:33+00:00

"Who could blame them for taking advantage of a magical loophole that allowed them to date women out of their league? If such a nirvana existed for Western woman, I’m sure I’d have moved there too."

You lived there, honey. It's called Collegetown, USA, and the drinks are free if you have a vagina.

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Aerobus · 2014-10-29T12:51:18+00:00

“Do you have any book / drink reccomendatioins?” was my usual line

They say our pick up lines are bad.

as I stood near them in bookstores or sat next to them on barstools

B-but, AskWomen told me to never cold approach women at bookstores or in coffee shops. Surely, since they and other feminists believe men and women are the same, men don't want to be approached like this either? Why is this person, a woman, doing exactly what she said not to do? /s

But the ‘come hither’ stare or conversation starter doesn’t work if the other person refuses to look at you.

Such misogyny. Everyone knows that when a man stares at a woman it is objectification and harassment, but when a woman stares at a man it means that you are obligated to give her attention /s

The pervading theory though, among expats and Japanese alike, was that Japanese men were in fact attracted to western women but were just too intimidated to do anything about it.

Ah, of course. Western women are intimidating. That has to be it. I mean, think about it. If you're used to being around women with healthy weight, seeing an American fatass woman in the flesh is quite intimidating.

I couldn't read past that point, too much hamstering and stupidity.

And why the hell does she refer to japanese men and women as expats?

throwaway1835467 · 2014-10-29T13:10:12+00:00

See the thing for me, is she spends the opening paragraphs, saying "Oh woe is me, I have tried and tried, I'm an exotic beauty in Japan and no one loves me!" Like she just exists and deserves the admiration of the people around her.

But then goes and says:

These men wouldn’t have been able to score a date at home if they’d been a calender but in Asia they’d nabbed the prom queen. They were true success stories. Who could blame them for taking advantage of a magical loophole that allowed them to date women out of their league?

It seems like she's out to judge who is deserving or not. Who gave her the power to judge another individual and say "You are unworthy of the attentions of someone else." But goodness when it happens to her, better blog about it to the world because it is wrong and unjust.

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T09:41:25+00:00

I love how western women dont realize: "America, Canada, Australia, etc." is this nirvana she speaks of. It's the only place on the planet where a fat lazy hoe that dresses in sweats, never wears makeup, eats a tub of ice cream everyday, and shops in the plus size section can get a fucking date.

That 'etc' must certainly include Britain.

ShekelBanker · 2014-10-29T10:26:30+00:00

This is causing her white ppl rage and girl rage and American rage. WTF?! As a woman people aren't putting me on a pedestal + WTF?! The fucked up social norms we have in America aren't shared by every other nation + WTF!? I'm white and I'm not being treated as the highest value commodity on the block. It's got all 3 rolled into one.

Japan has it's own share of fucked up social practices and it's own share of hamsters, but no one beats our hamsters. US/UK/AU the holy trinity of hamsterdom.

funckychicken · 2014-10-29T13:53:09+00:00

The video of the lady walking through New York for 10 hours and getting "harassed" by all the guys that she passed, i would love to see what would happen if she was walking through Tokyo and no one would have given her the time of day. I bet her self esteem would bottom right out.

Algermas · 2014-10-29T12:59:31+00:00

Commenter Tommy sees right through the Hamstering.

I find this laughably off target…

“Western women in Asia were like the Jennifer Anistons of the expat world…. would ever dream of striking up a conversation with one.”

More likely the Asian men simply recognize that western women have ridiculous material expectations of their men and expect to be put on a pedestal at all times (instead of being equitable partners). Bringing little to the sexless & boring relationship other than expensive bathroom faucets, obesity, credit card debt and demands to work harder to afford undeserved luxuries to fit in with their consumer culture.

Dark-Ulfberht · 2014-10-29T13:49:48+00:00

The pervading theory though, among expats and Japanese alike, was that Japanese men were in fact attracted to western women but were just too intimidated to do anything about it. Western women in Asia were like the Jennifer Anistons of the expat world. Strong, independent, assertive and outspoken, they were interesting to admire from afar, but no man would ever dream of striking up a conversation with one.

AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Funniest shit I'll read today, I'm sure.

What a self-centered delusional twit.

Moszne · 2014-10-29T10:04:08+00:00

4/10? Wow man, my standard goes really low because she is 6/10 for me. Damn engineering colleges, ugly chicks all day long.

IVIaskerade · 2014-10-29T12:57:36+00:00

“You’ve got to be assertive,” my Japanese girlfriends advised. “Japanese guys are shy so you have to make the first move.” So I smiled invitingly at men in bars and on busses.

Yeah. That's not what they meant.

I also like how the conclusion that gets reached is "Western women are too intimidating" and not "Japanese women are more desirable". It couldn't be that a man who wants a wife is going to marry a woman who'll be a good wife in preference to a "strong, independent" woman, could it?

Cyralea · 2014-10-29T14:34:29+00:00

The pervading theory though, among expats and Japanese alike, was that Japanese men were in fact attracted to western women but were just too intimidated to do anything about it.Strong, independent, assertive and outspoken, they were interesting to admire from afar, but no man would ever dream of striking up a conversation with one. Western women were so different, so foreign, they were virtually un-datable

I love it. Of all the reasons she could have picked, she settled for the one that absolves her of responsibility and plants the fault with Japanese men. Textbook hamstering.

If you’ve ever visited Asia, you’ve likely seen the pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired white boy walking hand-in hand with a perfectly made-up, mini-skirt wearing Asian chick. This would never happen anywhere else in the world

Except Eastern Europe, South America, parts of the Middle East, and most of Asia. "Anywhere else in the world" seems to be hamster-speak for the feminized West.

But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law

Hamster for "I'm experience cognitive dissonance between my preconceived feminist ideas and reality"

These men wouldn’t have been able to score a date at home if they’d been a calender but in Asia they’d nabbed the prom queen

Hamster: "These guys who are 5-7's would never score a girl who is above a 3 back at home. How come it's different here?"

they viewed relationships as an equal partnership, which was something the more traditional, close-minded of Japanese men still struggled to do

The same traditional, close-minded Japanese men that she's frustrated aren't giving her attention. Why is she not chasing her liberated, open-minded white cock? Oh right -- "pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired white boy" doesn't even want anything to do with her.

The Japanese women were gourmet truffles, while the western women were the three-year-old tootsie rolls melted to the bottom of the barrel.

Aaaand finally she hits upon reality. Japanese women are the gourmet compared to the typical Western woman. Why would a man want a loud-mouthed, obese, combative white chick when he can do better?

Most days I felt unattractive, unwanted and worst of all, unfemale

Surprising level of lucidity. Her lack of femininity is the cause of all her issues, she feels it, but can't process it logically. Typical Western chick.

JohnGalt316 · 2014-10-29T10:13:48+00:00

if you read the comments, she traveled all over the world and still found dating hard everywhere but in the US

she is currently in Central America

FrenchMaybe · 2014-10-29T11:48:09+00:00

[I] was surprised to learn that the Dateless Western Woman was a familiar character in the expat world, at least judging from the score of postings on expat forums by lonely, single females.

Bitch, do you think western girls who are getting laid everyday are going to waste time posting about it online? LOL

The Japanese men might have been frightened of us but the other expat men just flat-out ignored us.

Yeah if I were a Westerner in Japan, I'd definitely fuck the entitled, average bitches that I could get back in the States rather than the exotic hotties.

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T13:30:42+00:00

What kills me about this post, and American women in general is that they all act like the world owes them something. I've had women get pissy with me because i wouldn't flirt with them. Life doesn't owe you anything, and men are not here to cater to you. Eventually you get sick of the self entitled personalities, and plain uselessness of these girls. I've told a girl that the reason she's just a plate is because that is the only skill she developed. She can't cook, balance a checkbook, or even stay out of debt.....

Hokuto199x · 2014-10-29T14:43:25+00:00

But leering and catcalling are basically rape. Shouldn't she have been happy to be in a wonderful utopian land where men weren't constantly sexualizing her?

masterpill7 · 2014-10-29T06:46:02+00:00

they wouldn't care if she was a 10/10,

I just dont like huge exaggerations. A 10/10 foreign female would be adored by both the locals and expats alike. To be honest though, a lot of foreign cuties do come to Japan though. Mostly because they are weebos.

I hear of these women but I never really meet them because I do not like to hang around losers and bitter people. You hang with success and you will meet success. One thing I notice though is that a few men care about the race of his partner as long as she is attractive while women are a lot pickier when it comes to dating outside their race or the race they have a fetish for. I think this is mostly related to western women because I have met a significant number of East Asian men that were dating Latinas, non-Brit Europeans and even Africans (like, straight from Africa) but I have trouble thinking of more than 5 western females I met (excluding asiaphiles) who were dating one of the locals. They limit themselves because they outright refuse to adapt to the local dating culture (therefore when a man gives a subtle cue it goes over her head) or refuse to even consider dating locals. Some of these women also refuse to accept that there is anything wrong with them and will not go about making personal improvements while many of the other expat women will. I do not deny that there are cultural and language barriers but most (definitely not all) western women who make these complaints only have themselves to blame.

Edit: big edit.

RebootedMale · 2014-10-29T11:59:25+00:00

Reannon Muth is a part-time writer and full-time travel addict. Originally from Hawaii, she's traveled through 30 countries and lived in five, including a year spent teaching English in Japan in 2009. Currently she's backpacking through Central America and writing her first novel Read more at http://www.vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/#RFKDUkMT5qT4MGYx.99

Wait until she realizes that nobody cares about her accomplishments back here because she isn't young and hot.

Mightaswellmakeone · 2014-10-29T13:46:03+00:00

She sounds like a fucking asshole.

Whould you rather date women that still act, look, dress, and expect to be treated like women or would you want butch behaving, assertive "women" with entitlement issues.

I like how she calls Japanese men close minded while writing an article insulting multiple cultures/groups of people, is unable to accept and learn to become part of the culture she's in, and is trying to change an entire country she doesn't understand.

nhxmagik · 2014-10-29T13:01:09+00:00

This post along side the girl with the go pro in New York shows that woman really don't know what they want.

redpillbanana · 2014-10-29T13:11:47+00:00

She learned what it's like to be a man that isn't a 8-9+/10: You have to come find people. Make an effort.

Most men that aren't 8+ don't consider themselves to be Brad Pitt:

Western women in Asia were like the Jennifer Anistons of the expat world. Strong, independent, assertive and outspoken, they were interesting to admire from afar, but no man would ever dream of striking up a conversation with one. Western women were so different, so foreign, they were virtually un-datable.

She thinks Western women in Asia are Jennifer Anistons.

The pervading theory though, among expats and Japanese alike, was that Japanese men were in fact attracted to western women but were just too intimidated to do anything about it.

https://imgur.com/hKcXQdw

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2014-10-29T16:29:55+00:00

Best quotation- keep in mind, she probably has a tumbler complaining about street harassment- "When not even a short skirt or slinky top attracted more than a passing glance and even construction workers, who could usually be counted on for a leer, regarded me with bored, blank expressions, I felt like a Martian."

Oh, waitaminute... you mean a woman is admitting that her mode of dress was chosen with the SPECIFIC INTENTION of attracting sexual advances and comments??

ROTFLMAO

ChildOfTheLostTribes · 2014-10-29T16:34:18+00:00

The article reeks of arrogance and Western entitlement.

gameno · 2014-10-29T07:15:47+00:00

Japan is an interesting country. Japan was once a matriarchal society and women had all the rights that feminist cry out for. Today it is more patriarchal, but women definitely have more power in the home than they do in the US. So, in essence, she is a man in that country.

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T14:17:22+00:00

Well if she was actually hot it would be a different story.

kick6 · 2014-10-29T14:59:20+00:00

It is an unending source of amazement for me that women never, ever stop to consider what actually attracts men. I mean...I understand the underlying mechanisms, but even still, the lack of introspection is impressive. This article is a prime example.

bojackhorsemen · 2014-10-29T14:28:26+00:00

And this is what I want to show every woman who thinks saying "hey beautiful" to a girl walking on the street is harassment. It sucks a lot more when no one pays attention to you.

let_terror_reign · 2014-10-29T15:22:10+00:00

If she's a four, what do you consider a seven and nine? I'm genuinely curious, idc thought she was a 5.5 ish

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T15:33:55+00:00

Let a man write a similar piece about how invisible he is to women, and I'm sure women would start replying about how "entitled" he is, and that women don't owe him sex. This article is actually pretty funny.

StarDestinyGuy · 2014-10-29T15:38:39+00:00

If you’ve ever visited Asia, you’ve likely seen the pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired white boy walking hand-in hand with a perfectly made-up, mini-skirt wearing Asian chick. This would never happen anywhere else in the world. Because everywhere else, Barbie ends up with Ken, not his underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin. But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law. In Asia, the nerd is king.

Not that I wished it otherwise. For the most part, I was happy for them. These men wouldn’t have been able to score a date at home if they’d been a calender but in Asia they’d nabbed the prom queen.

So much vitrol and hatred she's spewing

zephyrprime · 2014-10-29T15:41:05+00:00

The opening passage really set me back:

“We usually have a tough time keeping female teachers here,” my boss informed me on my first day of work as an English teacher in Tokyo. “They usually don’t last more than six months.” I looked up from studying the roster list of teachers (30 — all male), in surprise.

“You mean at this school?”

“No, I mean … in Japan.” He shrugged. “Tokyo’s a tough city to be single … If you’re, you know … a western woman.”

Wow. It's really a different world over there for women isn't it?

In the following part though, she is just doing shit wrong.

"But the ‘come hither’ stare or conversation starter doesn’t work if the other person refuses to look at you. If they met my gaze at me at all, it was just to shoot me this panicked look, like I’d just asked them to father my unborn children. My boss had been right. It was hard to be a single, western woman in Japan. But why?"

I know strong eye contact is important in America but in Japan it's just weird, offensive, and threatening. They will think you are a crazy psycho staring them down like a criminal stares down his victim. Instead, she should have done the back and forth eye contact dithering that Japanese people do. That would have gotten her better results.

"This would never happen anywhere else in the world. Because everywhere else, Barbie ends up with Ken, not his underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin. But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law. In Asia, the nerd is king." Does it really defy evolutionary law? I got news for you, humans have been evolving more towards nerdiness since humans began. Humans have half the muscle strength of chimps pound for pound. Humans have continually been decreasing in testosterone since the dawn of humans. It's true that women prefer manly men (cavemen) but evolution has preferred nerdy men. You could consider ALL humans to be super nerdy compared to cavemen.

"And through their Western, wire-rimmed eyes, they viewed relationships as an equal partnership, which was something the more traditional, close-minded of Japanese men still struggled to do." It's a pure lie that women like egalitarian men. They actually despise and detest them. They like superior men who are manly and dominant. Japanese women are not any different than western women in this regard. The real reason these guys were doing so well is because white guys are regarded as being higher social class than asians by asians themselves. This is a sort of reverse racism that prevails all over the world. Because the most powerful and richest countries in the world are mostly white, being white confers upon white people and increased level of social status. Women are drawn to social standing more than they are to looks.

LadyLumen · 2014-10-29T17:07:34+00:00

Has anyone here seen that independent movie, "Seeking Asian Female"?

It's a real life documentary about a 60 year old white guy in America who decides to find love in China.

He ends up marrying a 30 year old Chinese woman (since she's over the hill in her own country, she sought out dating prospects elsewhere). Anyways, they have their ups and downs, it's kind of a crazy relationship because they don't speak the same language.

However the surprising thing about this movie is that this is a guy who actually doesn't have a lot of money, and he's completely honest about that in his dating profile (he's a toll collector at an airport), and yet he still finds an attractive Asian woman half his age who is willing to get married to him.

Part of it seems like she wants a green card. But the other part seems like she genuinely cares about him. So I thought that was interesting.

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T17:16:05+00:00

She has a pretty xenophobic attitude to complain that Japan isn't like America. She says she's a "travel addict" and this is how she thinks? God help us.

eazy_ · 2014-10-29T18:56:55+00:00

Barbie ends up with Ken

problem is, she is not barbie

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T20:19:09+00:00

“Do you have any book / drink reccomendatioins?”

She fancies herself a writer, or at the very least, literate?

I have a book recommendation for her: the Oxford English Dictionary.

easyrandomguy · 2014-10-29T13:55:49+00:00

lol she's fucking ugly (and i'm asian!)

SmegRimmer · 2014-10-29T17:19:51+00:00

Lived in Japan for two years, regularly visit on and off, have a Japanese girlfriend.

Can confirm, Japan is a western feminists fucking nightmare and it's funny as fuck to watch.

skoobled · 2014-10-29T09:56:57+00:00

Have experienced this first hand. Lived six years in tokyo during my 20s

DoesNotMatterAnymore · 2014-10-29T11:45:14+00:00

Here is she:

http://reannonmuth.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/cropped-1077132_10100400906088060_7218340779385600243_o-11.jpg

http://reannonmuth.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/981676_10100401296580510_673792336004862568_o.jpg

Slim, medium-height, with hazel eyes and freckles, I was at best ‘cute’ and at worst, average.

well, accurate

bsutansalt · 2014-10-29T12:23:28+00:00

This isn't exclusive to Japan at all either. Western women are looked down upon in terms of dating prospects because of their personality flaws they get a pass on in westernized countries. Eastern Europe, Asia, South America, you name it people do not like them.

ben0wn4g3 · 2014-10-29T13:19:10+00:00

This is fucking hilarious. I want to email this women and see if she acknowledges thus if the life if the average man. Surely she is living in feminist heaven in Japan??

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hobodick · 2014-10-29T15:28:54+00:00

She learned what it's like to be a man that isn't a 8-9+/10: You have to come find people. Make an effort. And yes, will be rejected by some

I find it shocking and sad in a way how much it takes for some women to realize this.

LadyLumen · 2014-10-29T15:39:19+00:00

I wouldn't say she was a 4 in looks (since there was a picture of the author). I'd say she was at least a 6/10 in America who turned into a 2/10 once she went to Japan.

jaynort · 2014-10-29T17:28:51+00:00

"I wrote this while in Japan last year…at a time when I was feeling pretty discouraged. I was definitely resentful for a while there…but I’m pretty sure the root cause of that was just jealously.

And in all fairness, it’s not just Japan. I think it’s tough to be a single woman abroad ANYWHERE."

She openly admitted jealousy. Interesting. Found that in the comments.

JimiJons · 2014-10-29T18:28:44+00:00

It's amazing how pathetic some women can be.

small_drawings · 2014-10-29T18:40:57+00:00

This article fucking infuriates me. Especially on the tail of that bullshit yesterday about the "way women are treated on NYC streets"

PracticallyAlpha · 2014-10-29T18:53:51+00:00

"In Asia, the nerd is King." -This bitch

squishles · 2014-10-29T15:40:05+00:00

Cute baristas at Starbucks wouldn’t look at me, business men on bicycles ran over me and college students hurriedly backed away from me with mumbled apologies whenever I tried to strike up a conversation about the weather or ask for directions. They wouldn’t even give me the time of day.

For a well traveled educated bilingual person; she's pretty retarded about foreign cultures.

lispychicken · 2014-10-29T17:03:41+00:00

When I was in the Air Force, I traveled to Italy and lived there for 5ish months. As you know there is a numbers difference between females and males in the services.. and often times, this makes the few available military women grade higher than their true value.

If you want to see some amazing transitions in person.. watch how an American female 6/10 (true value) turns into an 8.5/10 (military value) and promptly, and I mean with snake-like quickness, turns into a 2/10 and a complete afterthought once the female population is chock full of pleasant, approachable, honest, and attractive females.

The AF girls we traveled with/were stationed there couldn't possibly pine more for attention once they were surrounded by true beauties. I'm talking bonafide Italian 10's that treated you as you would want to be treated.. talk about eye opening.

doladolabillyall · 2014-10-29T17:47:30+00:00

Nobody likes her because she is just a sucky person personality wise (very common for both men and women, ie: all people). And because she doesn't look really hot (fit, well formed, symetric, good skin, etc), nobody is going to appreciate her for just her looks either. No biggie really, very few people are likable relative to the masses. Nothing to write a blog post on entirely.

Anyway, back when she had a pussy that was in demand, she thought that people actually liked her (like some kind of mini-diva/legend in the making, people's arrogance gets the better of them).

I see a lot of younger women get angry that men/people like them just because of their looks. They are getting mad at others for that, when they should be mad at themselves. For not having a personality or any merit that attracts others to them. They are getting mad that in a short time, nobody but their family will like them and that they won't be the slightest bit popular anymore.

tl;dr: Welcome to the real world bitch. If you aren't an 9/10 (man or woman), nobody is going to inherently like you, and your just another dumb mother fucker on the street, same as everyone else.

CrimsonTideCosby · 2014-10-29T17:53:53+00:00

This goofy bitch is like, " I'm only slightly attractive and I can't understand why these expat men who couldn't get any woman back in the states only want to date model-type Asian girls and not me." She can't be that stupid right?

Also, scroll down to the comments where one guy calls her out for being an entitled little racist twat and all she has to say in response is, "just sayin."

I wonder how much these fucking idiots get paid to blog because it seems incredibly easy.

UBelievedTheInternet · 2014-10-29T18:32:01+00:00

I think it depends on a lot of factors. Her article doesn't come across as very genuine, and even a little rude.

This chick https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LAAu4q2GEM

teaches in Japan and she's had young men ask her on dates and other things. She's not hot either. If you were visiting Japan for work, would you really be that concerned over not having a date? I don't think so. Anyone would be too busy trying to adjust to the culture, especially their first year or so there. So I think she is just a weirdo and the article is fake. The site just doesn't sound legit. You honestly think someone's boss randomly has pictures of men who "resembled the aging, stringy-haired members of the band Metallica," that "were pressed up against the model-thin bodies of a heavily made-up Japanese Beauty Queen"???

Let's say this were true, which it's not because this is the most asinine story I've ever heard, but let's say it is true: What idiot thinks that those girls were with those old guys because they were foreign? Why not because they had money/power/attention? Or why assume they were "together" at all, and that the guys didn't just have pictures taken with cute girls at some event? And even then, would you be like "Ha ha, yeah brokowski, if those old guys can get it, this Japan place is gonna be easy pickin's for a pimp like me...." Because that's basically what the author of the article said. And you foolish fools are going to believe that hogwash? Tits are tits no matter which part of the world you're in. And Japan has too many fetishes and too much porn for a slut to not be able to get some; even a fat, ugly one.

kmillz1 · 2014-10-29T18:37:03+00:00

That title is an insult to all American 4/10 girls. It's kinda funny that she thinks Japanese men are intimidated by her, which is understandable given their timid culture. Tbh, I'm sure they find her just as repulsive as the expats.

Axis_of_Weasels · 2014-10-29T19:18:14+00:00

Well turnabout is fair play bitch. Try being ignored for being asian and male in the us, despite being American

Redpillonlyaccount · 2014-10-29T22:04:23+00:00

I was going to post this on FB after seeing the harassment video there a dozen times yesterday but I can't be bothered with the hysteria it will provoke.

Transmigratory · 2014-10-29T22:25:00+00:00

But... but the "you go girl" attitude says she can do it!!! /s

LandShark805 · 2014-10-29T23:04:22+00:00

Lived in Japan in 2009, article dated 2013? Took 4 years to write this article?

Surf_Or_Die · 2014-10-29T23:38:42+00:00

Fucking bitch even goes on to diss Metallica in her post. I hope she dies.

t1redd · 2014-10-29T23:53:23+00:00

I stole a quick glance at the photos that were mounted on the wall >behind him. Four middle-aged White Dudes. All of them were bearded >and balding. All of them resembled the aging, stringy-haired members >of the band Metallica. And all of them were pressed up against the >model-thin bodies of a heavily made-up Japanese Beauty Queen.

I don’t think I’ll have a problem, I thought.

This doesn't make sense. If unattractive guys can get attractive girls then it would be harder for her. Shes dumb too.

MachiavellianRed · 2014-10-30T00:20:05+00:00

If you're going to link to a non-manosphere blogger, you should use archive.today. We don't really want to give random chick bloggers traffic. Now this chick will turn up here when she looks at her referral urls. We don't need another chick finding TRP and losing her collective shit over it, we already have enough of those. In light of this, thread removed. If you're affiliated with the blogger, great clickbait.

easyrandomguy · 2014-11-01T11:57:33+00:00

as an asian man, i'll say this. as a 4/10 western woman, she's simply not kawaii enough. see, thing is, asian guys like white girls, but the cute/kawaii/anime looking white girls. think sailor moon or orihime from bleach. a 4/10 with blonde hair is not gonna cut it, especially if she's some obese judgmental westerner.

Mmagikarp · 2014-10-29T20:29:36+00:00

Shout out to the O.P. How does this better you, the readers or anyone?

Posagi · 2014-10-29T14:34:28+00:00

Japan seems to be a constant topic here but remember that this is how the world work, here a story from russia.

Jaereth · 2014-10-29T17:03:34+00:00

This is just all so false from everything I have experienced.

I hung out in Japan and know a lot of ALTs, in the young single woman demographic.

Most of them are fighting off Japanese boys with a stick. My girlfriend was an ALT and she said all you had to do was look at a guy a certain way in a bar and he'd be all over you. When I was in Japan, every female ALT there had a Japanese boyfriend. It seemed like it was just something you did while you were there, fuck a Japanese boy until you pack up and return to the states.

I mean yeah, the guys are kind of shy, everyone is so worried about offending anyone. Unless you are a absolute brash bitch though, they are still guys, there are still party people and they still fuck.

There is something below the surface here, something she's not telling us. American women have no trouble finding a guy in Japan. She's either HIDEOUSLY ugly or she just didn't even do any of the things she said in the article.

BuckStricklandx · 2014-10-29T17:31:55+00:00

http://jezebel.com/the-daily-show-has-finally-solved-catcalling-1642043246

Someone should tell this Daily Show host to move over to Japan.

CornyHoosier · 2014-10-29T18:19:24+00:00

I have a female friend/coworker who was sent on a 6 month trip to Tokyo. From all her stories you'd have thought it was a Western woman's paradise. Now to be fair, she is a tall, thin, blonde (so even here she is treated well) who is nice to everyone who works hard and plays hard.

She said almost every night she was out making friends with the locals and loved the culture over there. The only "odd" thing she mentioned was that she was considered TOO dominant in bed and it confused some of the guys there.

Title	4/10 American girl goes to Japan- gets treated like a man in America.
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Upvotes	408
Comments	313
Date	October 29, 2014 6:07 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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