[Q4BP] Do you think most women are moral when it comes to dating?

PPD-Angel · 2018-07-11T17:00:17+00:00

Red Pill users, when it says "Question for Blue Pill" it means it is a "Question for Blue Pill" users to answer.

Wandos7 · 2018-07-11T15:05:19+00:00

No, lots of shitty women and lots of shitty men out there. But don’t punish a future partner for a past partner’s failures.

belletaco · 2018-07-11T14:48:10+00:00

Almost everyone is going to have stories of being played regardless of gender. Immaturity has a lot to do with it.

SweeterPickles · 2018-07-11T15:29:47+00:00

I think most women are moral, no question.

That said I’ve been burned before. Plenty of men have. Plenty of women have too, by men. Everyone has a story about it because it’s an interesting story to tell about breakups. Nobody is going to tell a story about the cool gal who it just didn’t work out with, because that does not make for an entertaining anecdote.

VermiciousKnidzz · 2018-07-11T15:48:22+00:00

this sub has taught me that when groups of men and groups of women hang out they shit talk the opposite gender and talk about how the opposite gender is made of entirely of cheaters

i also notice that Red Pill jumps between men being monogamous and loyal and men being amoral who naturally want a lot of partners.

i dont think frequency of cheating or loyalty is determined by gender.

Most these these dudes wised up eventually and became fuckboys and womanizers ....and I don't blame them one bit.

are you as forgiving towards women who were wronged by men and are now man-hating radical feminists?

i ~~hate people that are serlfish and prejudice~~ hate selfishness and prejudices, and that isnt reliant on how many chromosomes you have.

edit: also, and you cant find this for yourself, its beyond proven that men are statistically more likely to cheat

edit 2: lolol mean to say "you can find this for yourself"

Uncommon_Sense_12345 · 2018-07-11T13:38:29+00:00

"If most women aren't moral , why should rp men be moral?"

Because two wrongs don't make right.

DXBrigade · 2018-07-11T17:05:08+00:00

Most women are moral when it comes to dating, just like men btw. But justifying douchebaggery with a sad past seems to be a male thing.

yasee · 2018-07-11T15:28:19+00:00

As teenagers a lot (like maybe half) are probably not; as adults 25+ most probably are

but even as teens I'm guessing most of the women (and men) whose behaviour might get classed as "immoral" is probably less intentional manipulation and more stumbling idiocy

wtknight · 2018-07-11T13:41:16+00:00

In my opinion there are few good moral women ...just like there are few good moral men.

You’re right that there are just as few moral women as moral men, and that men are wrong to put woman on a pedestal thinking that they’ll be more moral just because they are women and supposedly the “fairer sex.”

Men who are moral and who have been played should just learn from their mistakes, be more discriminating and less thirsty, and not just start mistreating women who don’t deserve to be mistreated just because these men were played by other women in the past. Women are not some monolithic entity and you can’t blame one woman for another woman’s mistakes.

whichbladeN · 2018-07-11T14:14:03+00:00

I don't know most people. But I know myself, and the few people around me.

I think most people^TM eventually want to be in a relationship where they are happy and their partner is happy. But it's so easy to lose that perspective in the short term and let yourself resent a person for not meeting expectations.

I think most people try to be good people. And it's hard to walk on eggshells around a partner to make sure they are never hurt by anything you do. It happens. It's inevitable in the process of learning more about each other and spending a lot of time together.

quotient_is · 2018-07-11T17:33:21+00:00

Most people are not moral in interpersonal relationships. They spend a great deal of time rationalizing why it's totally cool for them to be immoral, even.

Some people try to be moral, but are not very good at it for a plethora of possible reasons.

Few people try to be wholly moral and actually succeed at it.

Most of these dudes wised up eventually and became fuckboys and womanizers... And I don't blame them one bit.

Are we to assume that these dudes were part of the unicorn moral minority to begin with? I find that highly doubtful.

cholomite · 2018-07-11T13:41:35+00:00

Women don't engage in immoral behavior, they create situations where they can reward immoral men while maintaining plausible deniability.

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ferretsRfantastic · 2018-07-12T00:01:28+00:00

No, I don't think most women are moral because I don't believe most people are moral. Men and women can do some really shitty things to their partners. The good ones are far more rare but that might be me just being jaded.

321PK · 2018-07-11T14:11:20+00:00

Who cares what rp does? Their advice is to “get yours” while “enjoying the decline.” They’re still struggling with the first part so no danger to any of the rest of us.

Jammerly1 · 2018-07-11T21:18:00+00:00

If people judged all black men because of the failures of a few, you’d be screaming racism. You need to vet better. Or is that only on black women to vet and save the entire community somehow?

IncomeByEtnicity · 2018-07-11T18:33:36+00:00

I've had mostly good experiences, but I live in a big city and have exclusively dated 1st generation Americans who were bilingual. I find the English/Scottish default (people with English/Scottish surnames) to be genetically predisposed to fail at relationships.

-> Broken home Anglos

Title	[Q4BP] Do you think most women are moral when it comes to dating?
Author	Pretty_Please_C_My_V
Upvotes	9
Comments	143
Date	July 11, 2018 1:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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