40 yrs old and My divorce is about to get finalized in a few months and obviously there is going to be a huge financial set back attached since the process has been going for a while.

Now that I am starting to look forward to a new life I am thinking of indulging into a new hobby - yes it might sound cliche but it’s motorcycles 🏍️. It’s been a childhood dream for me to get into riding but with life happening and immigration and career I almost forgot about it until the divorce. It’s something I really wanted to get into when I moved to Canada.

Question: I feel guilty that I shouldn’t be spending tons of money into a hobby or lifestyle which is expensive. Instead maybe I should invest and save and not live (basically continue to live how I spent my life until now).

BUT, it’s been a stressful year and I’m effort of finding myself and getting out of the house and meeting new ppl this make senses. Fuck these reasons you know I used to ride a bike before and now I want a sport bike! I feel guilty to be spending all this money on myself tbh. I know travel helps and I enjoy it but I want to ride a fucking sports bike ! Coz travel is cliche! Everyone and their mom is tracking the globe and posting on instagram.

Has anyone adopted an expensive hobby how did it help them and did anyone feel guilty? Maybe it’s all the cultural conditioning idk.

Pls help