This might sound crass, but being honest. I am casually texting, and hanging out with 2 ladies. No intent has been made, no romantic direction yet. But i was thinking, what if this goes further etc...and I found myself not like super eager to jump in the sack. i was married for 10 years, and enjoyed sex with my wife, although it was never (free, or easy). But the idea of sexually being with another woman is hard. I miss human touch, relationship aspects, but found myself surprised to be gunshy about this.