Anyone had an ex come back around?

playerknowmore · 2022-09-22T20:23:44+00:00

Look in the Divorce subreddit. Women are always questioning the decision to leaving.

david10277 · 2022-09-22T22:29:48+00:00

Dont confuse coming back as some sign that shes sorry..

If your x was narcissist she is coming back for more supply.

Becuaze she cant get the same supply from other people.

IcyEntertainment8673 · 2022-09-22T21:11:41+00:00

Sometimes I question if “it was really THAT bad”; then I remember it all and I enjoy not being nagged at.

MNCPA · 2022-09-22T20:38:48+00:00

I had the opposite happen. She remarried and still badmouths me "all the time", according to our kids. I feel bad for her new husband.

TomCatInTheHouse · 2022-09-22T22:09:50+00:00

Ex-wife no. Although there was once afterwards she wanted to meet up to "talk about what happened in the marriage" and I declined. It's possible she was hoping to ask me back, but once I'm done, I'm done.

aradthrowawayacct · 2022-09-22T20:49:53+00:00

It happens quite often, usually after the person they left the marriage for has dumped them.

theowawayforme555 · 2022-09-22T21:24:38+00:00

Not personally but have seen it with friends. After their idiot wives dumped them for no reason other than to try and upgrade they started hitting the gym, upgraded salary and became high value males. The loser wives realized and tried to get back in. I know one idiot who took her back. Didn’t last long though. Others told the wives to go to hell.

Token_or_TolkienuPOS · 2022-09-23T06:11:50+00:00

They don't miss you, as a person. They miss what you provided for them, they miss the power they had over you, they miss the status. Their eyes and reality is now open to the truth that they simply can't cut it out there as single people in the world and having to pay their way through life.

dday_throwaway3 · 2022-09-23T11:01:38+00:00

Never take an ex back when the ex leaves you. She got dumped by her new man and you are her Plan B. Never allow yourself to be a consolation prize. When a woman who has previously broken up with a man, or rejected him outright, comes back to him years later, it's incredibly disrespectful. It's her telling that man "I tried to do better and couldn't, so I guess I'll settle for you". It's far worse when she has kids because she’s declaring "I expect you to pay for my kids I had with the man I really wanted". Even if you get back with her, she will always see you as that weak man who let go of his principles just for her. It’s not romantic, it’s soy. Never go back to those that rejected you because you have now what they rejected you for not having back then. You’re more than just utility. Have some dignity. You’ll never be able to trust her, and other women will treat you better.

mehmench · 2022-09-22T22:28:25+00:00

So far, I've been lucky and this hasn't happened to me. If she did try to come back...oh hell no.

derelictherds · 2022-09-23T01:44:44+00:00

Not really. She'll dial up the friendliness when she needs something from me (usually money), but has never out-and-out attempted to "come back".

JD-Anderson · 2022-09-23T02:52:13+00:00

I wouldn’t say my wanted to remarry me right after the divorce. But she was always texting/calling me for the first year and a half for a booty call. She just wanted me to have sex with her. I turned her down every time.

email68 · 2022-09-23T03:22:41+00:00

Tried to come back after the alimony ran out. Nope.

lostcanuck007 · 2022-09-23T06:22:29+00:00

they usually do...and you should avoid them like the plague

Theedon · 2022-09-23T01:59:32+00:00

Hey, Thursday Night Football is on. Do you really want her back enough to ruin watching the game?

xenongfx · 2022-09-23T00:25:33+00:00

I had that happen when my wife and I separated before. We are currently getting divorced and I feel like it is the exact same situation, only this time will be the last time because I am not doing that to myself again.

Jbr74 · 2022-09-23T13:34:43+00:00

So you mean, anyone every have a woman admit she was wrong???

You are funny... Good one.

Dakeddit · 2022-09-23T00:39:32+00:00

As of right now, my soon to be seemingly hates my guts but will things like "he could be an excellent father" and such. I do wonder if she'll regret this one day, but I won't know until that day comes.

simjanes2k · 2022-09-23T15:33:46+00:00

A handful of them, about an hour after making my ongoing divorce public.

A lot of women out there in their 30s and 40s apparently.

ContentMushroom6342 · 2022-09-24T07:14:45+00:00

Yep ex wife after her little bad boy her friends husband dumped her, he just wanted to get in her knickers, oh sorry they were just friends!! Well I totally rebuilt myself the usual hard gym etc complete change in body mind then other females even some of her single friends wanted to replace her, guess who spent the last couple of years flirting hinting you know the old sob story, I've enjoyed turning her down stay strong lads

Title	Anyone had an ex come back around?
Author	Ambitious-Cheetah-36
Upvotes	34
Comments	54
Date	September 22, 2022 7:53 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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