Okay, I’ll try and make it quick. Just looking for opinions. Wife and I married 11 years, 3 kids. Tons of fighting in between great times. She cheated and I wanted to move past it. She wanted out. We are in the middle of the divorce. Rarely and talking and a lot of anger. I did/do not want the divorce. Told her I’d go back to our marriage and work it out in a heartbeat. She has no interest. There have been signs that she’s sexual with other men. It absolutely kills me, however it’s none of my business.

I’ve told her I love her unconditionally and will move past it all if she wanted to give our marriage a real shot. She sees the divorce as a speed bump and claims we may find each other in a few years. I’m 44, good shape, good job, decent looking, all that stuff. Not being arrogant.

She says if I love her, I would let here keep the house 100% and pay child support. The house is paid off with no mortgage. She says she will forgo alimony, my pension, stocks, everything. However added all up it’s less than her portion of the house she would buy me out for.

Opinions?

Next, she forced me to move out and I now live with my mother now that the divorce in the process. I give her 800 in cash (Venmo) pay the electricity 300, her car insurance 140 and her house Internet 114 plus kids health insurance 591. She’s claiming I do contribute enough.

Thoughts?

Lastly whenever some beaks down or needs repairs she claims I need to give her money. Her car needed new tires and she says I should pay half. Also oil changes and things like that

So what’s the opinion on this?