Facts ✌

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-05-02T14:57:35+00:00

When a man can't hold down a steady job and bring home a paycheck THAT'S embarrassing.

HoneyBouquet · 2021-05-02T19:17:20+00:00

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ItsFreezen · 2021-05-02T16:15:12+00:00

Scrote's just trying to derail the point she made. He can't cook.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-05-02T13:57:01+00:00

I do know how to cook and clean but why should I do it for free and go 50/50 on a mortgage as well?

zoologist_to_be · 2021-05-02T17:08:14+00:00

Lol been cooking since I was very little and once when I was 14 was talking to a guy who was 18 and told me he had just learned to scramble eggs🙄 literally at 12 I made cupcakes for my own birthday.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-05-02T16:17:53+00:00

But don’t they lose their minds when we say “if a man can’t provide, he’s not worth your time.”

Like always, males can dish out traditional gender expectations but they can’t stand when you expect the same from them. These are also the types of men that expect you to go 50/50 on all bills 😂

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-02T15:26:44+00:00

If a guy can’t build a house that’s embarrassing

radsera99 · 2021-05-02T13:59:40+00:00

Ladies if u wanna how to take out the trash men in your life : make it clear u can’t/won’t cook or clean. They’ll see no more use for u and piss off to try and leech off another unsuspecting woman

nancy5559 · 2021-05-02T18:48:37+00:00

I’m 28, I have a friend who is 55. She came to my house crying the other day, saying that she’s sick of her husband not cooking or cleaning. She says she can’t even get her hip surgery because she knows that he won’t take care of her after the surgery, even though she takes care of him after all of his health problems. I told her to leave him!!! My mom was visiting (60 y/o) and telling her to try to work it out with him. My mom is a wonderful woman but she is so stuck in her pickme ways. I kept saying no, leave him!!! She said she can’t because she put him on the deed (she paid for her house on her own, why did she put him on the deed????? I asked her and she said because she loves him and it was the right thing to do????) then her and my mom started talking and I just couldn’t take it anymore. I told them they were both acting crazy and to never let a man push you around like this. It was driving me insane and making me so sad for them to hear the type of shit they put up with. I’m so lucky I found FDS at such a young age, I don’t wanna put up with the same shit that our mothers put up with

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-05-02T17:13:19+00:00

I’ve had soooo many guys on OLD ask if I cook. One guy was basically looking for a woman to come to his remote off grid cabin, and cook for him and his best male friend (🤔) while they had hunting weekends. Sayyy whaaaat? 😂😂😂😂

I am on a hiatus, again. But, if I do venture back out, I’ve decided I’m going to ask every man that asks if I can cook, if he can build a house or fix my car. 🙄🙄🙄

madamejesaistout · 2021-05-02T16:11:39+00:00

If an adult can't cook or clean, that's embarrassing.

Fixed it.

Waste-Win · 2021-05-02T21:45:41+00:00

Fun fact: some men feel proud about how helpless they are, even brag about it.

2021-05-02T15:34:50+00:00

Imagine living your life, thinking you're such hot shit, that someone ELSE has to pick up your shit and then facing the harsh reality one day...

stxrchild · 2021-05-02T18:24:19+00:00

Really feel like King Kev’s undies look like a BMX track.

eating_dirt · 2021-05-02T17:25:10+00:00

I know this is stupid, but can someone give me some basics in cleaning? My dad is the one that taught me how, and it basically sums up to “spray windex on it and scrub it with a paper towel, and use Ajax in the shower.” I know there’s more to cleaning than this but when I look things up online it looks so confusing. I’m about to leave the house for college and I really don’t want my dorm to be gross. Any and all tips are appreciated! Thanks y’all!! 😅

sveji- · 2021-05-02T20:22:10+00:00

Wait, so you're telling me that you don't know how to cook? Oh then how do you expect to get marrie, and what will your wife eat when she gets home from work?

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-05-02T13:53:33+00:00

Like, how can a person come to think they will always be in a relationship or always have enough money to hire professional help? It seems they do not even worry about themselves.

poody456 · 2021-05-02T21:43:36+00:00

I just read a thread about rare illnesses and one was brought up a lot that is caused by a lack of vitamins in food, it seemed a lot of older men got this illness because they’d only eat one thing like pot noodles or yoghurt because their wife had left them and all the comments were really sympathetic toward them. Bro how hard is it to learn how to cook for yourself!

AntinatalistChick · 2021-05-02T15:19:54+00:00

If a boy can't make big money that's embarrassing 😁

CloudRoses · 2021-05-02T20:50:16+00:00

Even more embarrassing when he dies alone on that hill.

LivingtheDarkness · 2021-05-02T16:43:12+00:00

This ☝It makes no sense? Like, I've been told and pushed to do this since I was a kid, yet never saw my dad, brother or another man do this. Especially during family gatherings, it irked me that as a 10 year old i had to be in the kitchen helping with the cooking and cleaning while all these grown men just sat their asses down talking bout business and politics 😒

Momcella · 2021-05-03T00:44:01+00:00

Decades ago, when my brothers were still very young, mom left dad home with the boys for the week while she worked out of town. When she got back, they had tears & were so happy to see her. Not because they missed her, but because now they'll be eating something other than bread & milk. The man fed his children nothing but bread & milk for days in a row. I was embarrassed for him.

freelancepsychic · 2021-05-02T18:18:33+00:00

When my parents got divorced my dad lives off microwave dinners because he cannot cook, at all. He quickly got married to a 50s housewife who does all of that for him. He's a sweet guy, super old. Was in the military and then in the church. He is a direct byproduct of the patriarchy so I can't completely hate him. But when I see men who are my age, who can't cook, I just cringe.

And no, BBQing meat is NOT cooking!

Guuurrrl_okeehay · 2021-05-02T23:57:18+00:00

OOoohhh I'm telling on his momma, that her 42-year-old son thinks he's king and entitled to not cooking and cleaning.

That's why when I have conversation with men on a date, and they ask me this question. I know exactly who they are. :) My response would be to excuse myself. Find the server to pay my own share of the check with cash, and write "I don't cook, I don't clean. I buy my own diamond rings, Misogynist. Peace out, Feminist."

That's why you have a flip phone for temporary men on dates/acquaintances. You can catch the red flags within 3 or 6 months/1 year a lot easier. Avoid texting/phone conversation behind a device. Get to know them in a group setting before dating. It's easier to catch the red flags unlike online dating.

bitch_not_it · 2021-05-03T04:24:08+00:00

another weird scrote flex I don't get - when middle aged men pride themselves on their perverted lust on 'barely legal teens'

that's not the flex (whatever the fuck it is, that you can still get hard??) you think it is. just like a fully grown adult man being very proud of not being able to do basic life things (cook and clean).. it's embarrassing and no one wants you

XxShykatxX · 2021-05-03T05:09:44+00:00

Threw up in my mouth at the fact he said 'girl' in the same sentence as her not knowing how to cook for two reasons. 1.) He probably is referring to someone underaged. 2.) He's a s*xist pos

hakunnamatatamfs · 2021-05-03T06:28:30+00:00

I'm a good cook but I'm an amazing baker, so I do enjoy cooking for others and spoiling them w something tasty, but I'll be damned if I cook for someone that expects me to cook just bc I'm a woman.

Title	Facts ✌
Author	HoneyBouquet
Upvotes	3584
Comments	85
Date	May 2, 2021 1:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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